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Thread: Should I confront my regular? Or not bother?

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    Should I confront my regular? Or not bother?

    Should I just tell her that I love her and just be done with whatever reaction/consequences I may face? Or refrain myself from ever seeing her! I'm depressed :'(

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    Depends on how well you know her cause things change when your off the clock but in my opinion I thinks it’s a bad idea

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    You really need to ask yourself what is your desired outcome by doing such a thing? Probably best for you to cut yourself off from her. Remember we pay these women to create a fantasy not tied to reality - it is extremely likely she has zero feelings for you, and you may infact even make her feel very uncomfortable in the moment by professing your love to her.

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    I think you should sort this out when you sober up

    Overall I'd not unload your "I love yous" on her as that just puts her in a difficult/uncomfortable position and is more about making you feel better.

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    I've known her for about 1 year. She willingly gave me her number. Hasn't told me her real name. I know a few things about her personal life ect siblings, school, slight details and vise versa. I never tested her off the clock because I respected the hour session.

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    Nope. This will fuck everything up. Also : stop seeing her. Seeing a chick is a biz decision. You can be frenz and all that shit (shout out to all the sps who have had a drink w me etc). but you're a client. Your heart is gonna get broken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uber Driver View Post
    Should I just tell her that I love her and just be done with whatever reaction/consequences I may face? Or refrain myself from ever seeing her! I'm depressed :'(
    Man... You need to set yourself a new goal in life, other than getting in a relationship with a SW. Good luck if you decide to continue on your current path, is all I can say to you.

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    Everything always looks better when viewed through the bottom of a bottle.

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    Don't do it. Never say it or you'll ruin everything. Just keep being a regular and enjoy her one hour at a time.

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    Hey guys so I've been thinking. Is there a bare minimum chance that it could actually work? She's 22, I'm 29 going 30 so we're still young. Money wise I'm able to support myself independently and house just one more person just comfortably. Or am I talking whack. I'm afraid that I may not be able to afford her current lifestyle. I'm pretty sure she's making solid money and she doesn't plan on escorting for very long, maybe another 4 years.

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    You're nuts . Don't do it. Forget about her and move on. You're gonna put her in a spot .

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    Are you guys speaking from experience or just a hunch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uber Driver View Post
    Are you guys speaking from experience or just a hunch.
    Logic

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    In my 15 plus years of seeing escorts my experience tells me it’s a bad idea to ever get emotionally involved with them. I’ve had quite a few regulars in the past that I got to know pretty well, enjoy the hour or two that you pay for cause by the sound of it you can’t afford the lifestyle that she wants

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    I fall in love all the time with my ladies, but our torrid affair only lasts 1-2 hours, then we break up. LOL.

    But in seriousness...know that the oxytocin and dopamine can combine to give you that feeling similar to love. So, be careful there. And the best ladies make you feel like you're then only one who matters to her...during your booking. If you insist on going forward, gently ask if she'd be willing to see you off the clock. BUT...be prepared for NO, and be prepared to then not seeing her ever again cuz you've burned that bridge, she'll not want that awkwardness. And likely she's had experience with an obsessive, and will fear you might become that (not saying you are, just saying that's her fear) and thus won't want your booking. So, dangle a "I like being with you so much, I'd love someday to catch you in a coffee shop or bar and just have a drink and talk." Then observe her reaction. If she says "i have nice social only rates"...then move on. But know confessing your love is crossing the Rubicon. The die is cast. And it might end with "et tu, favoured SP lady?" And you sprawled on the floor of the senate full of holes.

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    Yikes.

    You aren't in love with her. You are in love with a fantasized version of her that she creates for your sessions based on your feedback. She's in the customer service industry.

    My advice is stop seeing her if you think you're getting too emotionally attached and try an actual dating app to meet a real partner if that's what you want.

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    Escorts get told by clients I love you 100x a day. It’s no big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by twatjuice View Post
    Escorts get told by clients I love you 100x a day. It’s no big deal.
    It's a big deal if you think the best case scenario will be anything beyond a response of "Aw, that's sweet" and already working out plans in your head for having her move in with you and supporting her while she quits escorting.

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    Uber - listen to these guys!
    It's a temporary thing - just go and fall in love with someone else for awhile.
    Han, ma bukee. Bargon yanah coto da eetha. See fah luto twentee, ee yaba...
    Han, my boy, you're the best.
    So, for an extra twenty percent...

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    This is going to be a train wreck. You sound like you’ve already made up your mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishman527 View Post
    Don't do it. Never say it or you'll ruin everything. Just keep being a regular and enjoy her one hour at a time.
    +1

    UberDriver don't do it! You will regret it, guaranteed!
    people don't remember what you said or what you did. they remember how you made them feel !

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    Link?

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    DON'T DO IT Uber!! There is one that I see on a regular basis. She told me that I am her only client and she only went down the SP route cause times were tough. I would never think of a relationship coming out of this sort of business.
    That would only lead to devastation!!

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    I fell hopelessly for someone I was seeing and made mistake of telling her. She and I have had an amazing relationship, but love is not on her agenda. I still see her both professionally and outside her work. She has been to my place and I to hers. We are extremely close but she wants just friendship, as she has been horribly burned in two previous marriages. Most wonderful woman I have ever met, but my feelings has at times caused considerable strains between us. She is an MA, not a SP, so no sex has happened. She is uncomfortable when I bring up my feelings so my advice do not do it. Not worth it. Suffer in silence or walk away.

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