So I've reflected upon my past year in this hobby, and I've recently came to truly realize that there are many pimps around. The results of a girl being coerced into being a sex worker (aka being pimped) are numerous, but for us as customers on the receiving end, it often translates into a general bad attitude from the SP towards us, a mismatch between the services promised by text (often by the pimp) and what the girl truly feels comfortable with during the session and some other potentially dangerous situation (a pimp once came out of the closet on me before the session started).
I'd like to start a discussion into how do we figure out (or get hints) that a girl is being pimped.
For me, here are my cues, which are sadly far from being 100% conclusive :
1) Good old ''No black men'' listed on the adds (unless it says no black men under XX age)
2) Very robotic tone during texting, no emoji, yes/no answer (either it's the pimp handling it, or the girl just isn't into it. Either way, better pass)
3) As stated in the introductory statement, mismatch between services offered via text and what she actually says she will do when asked upfront upon meeting her
4) Language mismatch (ex : I once texted a girl to know about her, she'd respond in French which I speak. Upon meeting her, she doesn't speak a single word in French. Pretty big hint that there was a handler/pimp behind)
5) Upon getting there, the girl makes you wait and you see some activity in the building (that one time a pimp got out of the closet on me, I actually saw him enter the building as I was waiting for her to give me the go ahead. I should've known better aha)
6) Private house/condo vs. hotel : Imo, girls hosting in hotel are less likely to be pimped, as the pimp would probably prefer to run his business in his own place as to have better control over the environment.
7) Fake picture : Even though a fake pic is a hard pass for me, I feel like pimps are even more likely to use fake pic as their only end goal is to keep customers lined up one behind another. Thus, using pic of a much cuter girl is a valid strategy for them. For girl, it could be as well, but I can hardly imagine a girl willingly to pass herself as completely someone else. She might photoshop her pics sure, but going straight up for another girl seems like big step which I assume only a small minority of the non-coerced girls do. For the pimped girls, my bet is that this percentage encompass a much larger share of their respective pool.
That's pretty much it for me. Overall, I rely on my gut feeling. Sometimes sadly, I only realize after the fact that I probably fed some guy behind that girl, and that she didn't enjoy a single bit of our encounter because she didn't get to choose in the first place to be a SW and to have sex with me.
Let me know what you think.
Cheers !
Edit : contributions by others :
8) Minimal information in the ad. 4 or 5 words in the entire thing
9) Mismatch in name on the ad, and name in the profile
10) please text me 5 mins before arriving, I want to make sure I'm ready for you!?!??!????!!!
11) sorry you were texting with my girlfriend, she does the bookings for me (see point 3)
12) asians who don't speak speak a word in English, yet she texted you in English (see point 4)
I'd like to start a discussion into how do we figure out (or get hints) that a girl is being pimped.
For me, here are my cues, which are sadly far from being 100% conclusive :
1) Good old ''No black men'' listed on the adds (unless it says no black men under XX age)
2) Very robotic tone during texting, no emoji, yes/no answer (either it's the pimp handling it, or the girl just isn't into it. Either way, better pass)
3) As stated in the introductory statement, mismatch between services offered via text and what she actually says she will do when asked upfront upon meeting her
4) Language mismatch (ex : I once texted a girl to know about her, she'd respond in French which I speak. Upon meeting her, she doesn't speak a single word in French. Pretty big hint that there was a handler/pimp behind)
5) Upon getting there, the girl makes you wait and you see some activity in the building (that one time a pimp got out of the closet on me, I actually saw him enter the building as I was waiting for her to give me the go ahead. I should've known better aha)
6) Private house/condo vs. hotel : Imo, girls hosting in hotel are less likely to be pimped, as the pimp would probably prefer to run his business in his own place as to have better control over the environment.
7) Fake picture : Even though a fake pic is a hard pass for me, I feel like pimps are even more likely to use fake pic as their only end goal is to keep customers lined up one behind another. Thus, using pic of a much cuter girl is a valid strategy for them. For girl, it could be as well, but I can hardly imagine a girl willingly to pass herself as completely someone else. She might photoshop her pics sure, but going straight up for another girl seems like big step which I assume only a small minority of the non-coerced girls do. For the pimped girls, my bet is that this percentage encompass a much larger share of their respective pool.
That's pretty much it for me. Overall, I rely on my gut feeling. Sometimes sadly, I only realize after the fact that I probably fed some guy behind that girl, and that she didn't enjoy a single bit of our encounter because she didn't get to choose in the first place to be a SW and to have sex with me.
Let me know what you think.
Cheers !
Edit : contributions by others :
8) Minimal information in the ad. 4 or 5 words in the entire thing
9) Mismatch in name on the ad, and name in the profile
10) please text me 5 mins before arriving, I want to make sure I'm ready for you!?!??!????!!!
11) sorry you were texting with my girlfriend, she does the bookings for me (see point 3)
12) asians who don't speak speak a word in English, yet she texted you in English (see point 4)
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