It always helps to have something to fall back on when conversation starts to fail. Besides, the common talk like what is your job, hobby, how often do you come here drivel is stuff I avoid. I want to come across as differentSure, but standing out doesn’t help much if you’re the sort of person that makes up the majority of “seduction community” followers, namely incels with such poor social skills that they couldn’t possibly hold a conversation with a woman anyway. A flashy outfit or accessory is not a substitute for a good personality. The sort of person who can just casually chat with women doesn’t tend to need a gimmick to help them do it.
If I wear my leather jacket and they comment on it I tell them how soft it is then suggest they feel it. When they touch it I say "MOO". Silly but it gets them laughing and if they like you they want something to laugh at to show interest and how nice they are.
Look at the situation through from their perspective, not yours