Conversations with Escorts without Paying

feet licker · Oct 13, 2019

I keep seeing people say that they had conversations with an escort on here, on Twitter, or through text, etc. and that she sounds like a very smart person, friendly, or whatever, without even making a booking in the end. Isn't that time wasting?

I thought escorts only wanted to talk to clients if they are getting paid for it. I see some escorts throwing hissy fits over simple questions and ridiculing their potential clients by posting screenshots online. For that reason, I don't contact escorts other than for booking, and I am reluctant to ask more than a few questions. Am I doing it wrong?

shack · Oct 13, 2019

feet licker said:
I keep seeing people say that they had conversations with an escort on here, on Twitter, or through text, etc. and that she sounds like a very smart person, friendly, or whatever, without even making a booking in the end. Isn't that time wasting?

I thought escorts only wanted to talk to clients if they are getting paid for it. I see some escorts throwing hissy fits over simple questions and ridiculing their potential clients by posting screenshots online. For that reason, I don't contact escorts other than for booking, and I am reluctant to ask more than a few questions. Am I doing it wrong?

It's like most things in life, different people deal with situations in different ways. Some SPs will get annoyed and some won't. If, however, you come off as a time waster, most of them will likely figure it out and act accordingly.

Lovely_Lovelynn · Oct 13, 2019

feet licker said:
I keep seeing people say that they had conversations with an escort on here, on Twitter, or through text, etc. and that she sounds like a very smart person, friendly, or whatever, without even making a booking in the end. Isn't that time wasting?

I thought escorts only wanted to talk to clients if they are getting paid for it. I see some escorts throwing hissy fits over simple questions and ridiculing their potential clients by posting screenshots online. For that reason, I don't contact escorts other than for booking, and I am reluctant to ask more than a few questions. Am I doing it wrong?

If you were a real estate agent, would you like to send a million listings to someone and show them a bunch of places when they have no intention in purchasing through you?

If you were a hair stylist, would you like to fill up your chair all day with consultations and not have anyone get their haircut?

Point made.

Jasmina · Oct 13, 2019

No, you are doing it right.

Now, that's not to say some social media banter is not okay, but be mindful of her time and if you truly don't intend to book don't waste her time with more than likes or the odd casual page comment. You really should not be DMing unless you have a session related inquiry or are an existing client.

feet licker said:
I keep seeing people say that they had conversations with an escort on here, on Twitter, or through text, etc. and that she sounds like a very smart person, friendly, or whatever, without even making a booking in the end. Isn't that time wasting?

I thought escorts only wanted to talk to clients if they are getting paid for it. I see some escorts throwing hissy fits over simple questions and ridiculing their potential clients by posting screenshots online. For that reason, I don't contact escorts other than for booking, and I am reluctant to ask more than a few questions. Am I doing it wrong?

glamphotographer · Oct 14, 2019

feet licker said:
I keep seeing people say that they had conversations with an escort on here, on Twitter, or through text, etc. and that she sounds like a very smart person, friendly, or whatever, without even making a booking in the end. Isn't that time wasting?

I thought escorts only wanted to talk to clients if they are getting paid for it. I see some escorts throwing hissy fits over simple questions and ridiculing their potential clients by posting screenshots online. For that reason, I don't contact escorts other than for booking, and I am reluctant to ask more than a few questions. Am I doing it wrong?

Some of them will tell you to go to their snapchat and boom that's where you pay them $$$.

oil&gas · Oct 14, 2019

Isn't it great to be a neighbour or civilian friend of
an escort? For every hour of chatting you are spared a
payment of several hundred bucks.

mandrill · Oct 14, 2019

Jasmina said:
No, you are doing it right.

Now, that's not to say some social media banter is not okay, but be mindful of her time and if you truly don't intend to book don't waste her time with more than likes or the odd casual page comment. You really should not be DMing unless you have a session related inquiry or are an existing client.

Pretty much. If you have something nice or amusing to say about 1 of her posts, go for it. But she isn't your best friend, unless you've seen her a dozen times and have a connection w her. Then maybe you can chat it out a little on DM.

It's a business and Twitter is advertising.

Jasmine Raine · Oct 14, 2019

You have to find the balance. That is all.

When first starting out, make sure to read everything he has available so you don’t have to ask questioned all ready answered. Comment on her post if you like.

When you have seen her, you can ask her directly what she prefers for communication.

Always best to let her lead in this regard. Start small, grow from there. But remember, she is not your best friend, your GF and she doesn’t OWE you conversation because you have slept with her. If you keep that in mind, take it slow and don’t over crowd her with messages, you should be fine.

spraggamuffin · Oct 14, 2019

Probably why you don't believe everything you read on the internet.
A guy could smile with a woman or say hello and write up a whole Penthouse forum type article on the internet.
There are guys who spend big and do multiple hours, dinner dates and overnights off course, but one would think these guys would be sophisticated enough, to not head to the internet to blab all that took place.

squeezer · Oct 14, 2019

Lovely_Lovelynn said:
If you were a real estate agent, would you like to send a million listings to someone and show them a bunch of places when they have no intention in purchasing through you?

If you were a hair stylist, would you like to fill up your chair all day with consultations and not have anyone get their haircut?

Point made.

Very good points!

FL, to have a conversation it must be a two-way street. Yes, it can happen but not off the cuff and usually not with a provider that doesn't know you except through a follow on Twitter. I don't blame the ladies one bit for ignoring long-winded DM's just trying to have a chit chat from an ass kisser.

oldjones · Oct 14, 2019

If your conversation is interesting enough to be worth her investment of time, she won't ask for money. If it's boring, she'll resent to discomfort of having to. It's no different that any other social situation, the SP just has one more exit line available than most women have.

And similarly, you have a way of ensuring her interest in what you have to say, that isn't available with civilian women.

hedo rick · Oct 14, 2019

I like to converse with girls on twitter before booking with them. Let’s me get to know them a bit and them me, so that when we first meet in person we’re not perfect strangers.

It’s also a useful screening tool, because if you’re instantly branded a “time waster” for daring to communicate with her for any reason other than an immediate booking.. that attitude means you’re probably not going to have a good time of you do book with her. I liken it to the “vanna dance” girls at SCs.

hedo rick · Oct 14, 2019

Lovely_Lovelynn said:
If you were a real estate agent, would you like to send a million listings to someone and show them a bunch of places when they have no intention in purchasing through you?

If you were a hair stylist, would you like to fill up your chair all day with consultations and not have anyone get their haircut?

Point made.

If you were an employer, would you hire someone without an interview?

Point made.

Jasmina · Oct 14, 2019

Not really an apt comparison. It's more like you are a customer buying a product/service from a small business. In this case, that's where reviews come into play. You wouldn't do more than maybe send an inquiry about product/services to the company itself, you'd want to vet by checking out what other customers have to say. Sorta like yelp. LOL.

hedo rick said:
If you were an employer, would you hire someone without an interview?

Point made.

G.D. Gentleman · Oct 14, 2019

hedo rick said:
If you were an employer, would you hire someone without an interview?

Point made.

If you are hiring for a position, you post an ad, accept resumes and applications - then select from the candidates who you wish to interview.

You do not post your work email address and accept all forms of emails, conversation attempts or other - with the expectation to respond and converse with everyone who is applying for the position, that would be a huge waste of time. Oh wait...that's what this thread is about.

Food for thought.

Jasmine Raine · Oct 14, 2019

G.D. Gentleman said:
If you are hiring for a position, you post an ad, accept resumes and applications - then select from the candidates who you wish to interview.

You do not post your work email address and accept all forms of emails, conversation attempts or other - with the expectation to respond and converse with everyone who is applying for the position, that would be a huge waste of time. Oh wait...that's what this thread is about.

Food for thought.

^^^^
Someone understands. Lol

explorerzip · Oct 14, 2019

How do you know these chats between escorts and clients (assuming they are all clients) never turn into appointments? How do you know if they are even guys? How do you know that they are not regulars that the lady actually enjoys talking to? There are countless possibilities of who these people could be. What difference does it make to you? If it truly is a time-waster the lady will likely not engage in the first place or block that person.

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