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Time Wasting & Deposits - Nahla

RebelinBed

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I don’t know if anyone has seen her or not. Attempted to see Nahla tonight for an outcall after not having any luck on my first few choices at SPs. Responded promptly, there was a little back and forth. Didn’t respond for about half an hour. Finally got a response. Asked how soon she could be here and then told me that she requires a $50 deposit for transportation & confirmation that I’m serious and not wasting her time (it is in her ad). Well... she certainly had no issue wasting mine. 2 hours of being strung on later I got a text telling me she was ready and said “Is it safe? I hope I’m not walking into anything bad”. BIG RED FLAG. Like the deposit wasn’t bad enough, which normally I wouldn’t do for this reason. I told her it was safe then she stops replying.

It is becoming commonplace that SPs don’t want us to waste their time but don’t seem to have any issue wasting ours like it’s not important too. So here’s a little PSA for all the SPs. (I mean no disrespect to any reputable SPs who may read this) Our time is equally as important as yours. We pay you for not only for your time with us but also for your professionalism, courtesy and respect that we have decided to see you specifically in the first place. Stop leaving us waiting in parking lots, lobbies, at home, etc. Respect our time and our money please. Speaking of money it is also commonplace now for SPs to ask for deposits for things like transportation, security, confirmation, etc. When it comes to reputable SPs I have learned to not have an issue with that. But my standpoint on it is this: have to rely on Uber for outcall transportation? Don’t offer outcalls or have the client send it for your confirmation( it’s cheaper for us than the deposit), Security? If you’re insecure about it, you’re in the wrong industry. Confirmation? There are other ways to confirm. Call, send pictures holding a piece of paper with the date time and name on it, etc. I apologize for the tangent and frustration as normally I wouldn’t post something like this but I’m tired of these now common misused and abused practices and it needs to be addressed. What’re your thoughts?
 

squeezer

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I have never given a deposit or given my real information. That so-called reputable provider can turn on a dime or have her own database compromised. Also be aware they share your info with their core group via Twitter, DMs and other platforms.
 

justplainbob

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I have never given a deposit or given my real information. That so-called reputable provider can turn on a dime or have her own database compromised. Also be aware they share your info with their core group via Twitter, DMs and other platforms.
Which is why I burn my "research" number every couple weeks. I use my real hobbying number after the first visit if it goes well.
 

squeezer

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I'm only stating this because it seems some who are quoted like to give men the impression that ALL indie escorts share info, ALL indie escorts will out you at some point or that they ALL keep records and ALL indies escorts will fuck you over in some way, shape or form and not in the way you are paying for. Apparently a reputable escort such as myself is a danger to all who hobby. LOL
Maybe someone will quote me and you can see this Jessica.

No, not all but the risk is always there when one's information is out. It's akin to putting your nude pic on the internet, once there you can never take it back.

OP - having your time wasters, being scammer or ripped off is not right at all. I say this a lot. There are bad apples on. Both sides of the fence. And it is sad because it ruins it for good people. I will agree with sending no deposits. I'm an outcast to some in my field for saying this but there is too much risk in my opinion. And you are correct, if for whatever reason an SP can't do something for what ever her personal reasons are, then don't offer it. Offer what you can and work your way up from there just like any other industry.

I'm sorry this happened to you, but not all of us are like that. It was good for you to warn the others here.
Glad to see we at the very least agree on deposits and even though you have me on ignore, I still enjoy your posts because at least you say what's on your mind and are honest about it.

Signing off- Voldermort AKA Squeezer!
 

Nomdomnom

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I don’t know if anyone has seen her or not. Attempted to see Nahla tonight for an outcall after not having any luck on my first few choices at SPs. Responded promptly, there was a little back and forth. Didn’t respond for about half an hour. Finally got a response. Asked how soon she could be here and then told me that she requires a $50 deposit for transportation & confirmation that I’m serious and not wasting her time (it is in her ad). Well... she certainly had no issue wasting mine. 2 hours of being strung on later I got a text telling me she was ready and said “Is it safe? I hope I’m not walking into anything bad”. BIG RED FLAG. Like the deposit wasn’t bad enough, which normally I wouldn’t do for this reason. I told her it was safe then she stops replying.

It is becoming commonplace that SPs don’t want us to waste their time but don’t seem to have any issue wasting ours like it’s not important too. So here’s a little PSA for all the SPs. (I mean no disrespect to any reputable SPs who may read this) Our time is equally as important as yours. We pay you for not only for your time with us but also for your professionalism, courtesy and respect that we have decided to see you specifically in the first place. Stop leaving us waiting in parking lots, lobbies, at home, etc. Respect our time and our money please. Speaking of money it is also commonplace now for SPs to ask for deposits for things like transportation, security, confirmation, etc. When it comes to reputable SPs I have learned to not have an issue with that. But my standpoint on it is this: have to rely on Uber for outcall transportation? Don’t offer outcalls or have the client send it for your confirmation( it’s cheaper for us than the deposit), Security? If you’re insecure about it, you’re in the wrong industry. Confirmation? There are other ways to confirm. Call, send pictures holding a piece of paper with the date time and name on it, etc. I apologize for the tangent and frustration as normally I wouldn’t post something like this but I’m tired of these now common misused and abused practices and it needs to be addressed. What’re your thoughts?
What were the pricings she told you?
 

RebelinBed

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I have never asked for a deposit, only ever canceled once in the 5 years I have worked. Never shared client info with anyone unless given prior permission for checking references.

I have shared two bad clients in my career.

I'm only stating this because it seems some who are quoted like to give men the impression that ALL indie escorts share info, ALL indie escorts will out you at some point or that they ALL keep records and ALL indies escorts will fuck you over in some way, shape or form and not in the way you are paying for. Apparently a reputable escort such as myself is a danger to all who hobby. LOL

OP - having your time wasters, being scammer or ripped off is not right at all. I say this a lot. There are bad apples on. Both sides of the fence. And it is sad because it ruins it for good people. I will agree with sending no deposits. I'm an outcast to some in my field for saying this but there is too much risk in my opinion. And you are correct, if for whatever reason an SP can't do something for what ever her personal reasons are, then don't offer it. Offer what you can and work your way up from there just like any other industry.

I'm sorry this happened to you, but not all of us are like that. It was good for you to warn the others here.
I agree with you 100%, Jess. I know that it’s not all because i’ve had twice as many good experiences as I have bad. This is just my opinion on the matter because I think these practices are a bunch of bs.
 

Kattsmassage

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I also agree that this whole deposit thing is quite ridiculous and not necessary at all..
Now with that being said..this biz is all about risks and both men and women take a "chance " when booking appts..its 2 sided..I get many who pull no shows and clients face the same thing with the ladies..some girls even double book just in case 1 doesnt show..
I've been in and out of this biz for many yrs and on every appt you take ur chances..you're either a solid provider/client or your not!!!
It takes a few mins to book an appt,it takes less to quickly text the provider or client to say something came up and u cant make it or that a provider is running behind schedule..
Theres a very simple word for all of this and it's called RESPECT..
Everyone should and needs to respects the others time..its really that simple..
I dont think theres a single client out there that can say I didnt follow threw with my commitments..
Always remember guys if a certain amount of time has past we dont feel comfortable returning ur trxt as we dont k ow if ur situation has changed, so if u dont hear back from a provider within the hr then text her back..at least that's what I tell ppl to do..sometimes I'm so busy that I cant even keep up with the texts..I personally do the best I can when it comes to fast repays and being ready in our booked appts..
Be careful out there guys..but always remember the door swings both ways..
HAPPY THANKSGIVING everyone..
 

Jasmine Raine

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I also agree that this whole deposit thing is quite ridiculous and not necessary at all..
Now with that being said..this biz is all about risks and both men and women take a "chance " when booking appts..its 2 sided..I get many who pull no shows and clients face the same thing with the ladies..some girls even double book just in case 1 doesnt show..
I've been in and out of this biz for many yrs and on every appt you take ur chances..you're either a solid provider/client or your not!!!
It takes a few mins to book an appt,it takes less to quickly text the provider or client to say something came up and u cant make it or that a provider is running behind schedule..
Theres a very simple word for all of this and it's called RESPECT..
Everyone should and needs to respects the others time..its really that simple..
I dont think theres a single client out there that can say I didnt follow threw with my commitments..
Always remember guys if a certain amount of time has past we dont feel comfortable returning ur trxt as we dont k ow if ur situation has changed, so if u dont hear back from a provider within the hr then text her back..at least that's what I tell ppl to do..sometimes I'm so busy that I cant even keep up with the texts..I personally do the best I can when it comes to fast repays and being ready in our booked appts..
Be careful out there guys..but always remember the door swings both ways..
HAPPY THANKSGIVING everyone..
Well said.

And Happy Thanksgiving to you too!

I'm think I'm going to put on 30lbs with all these dinners. Hahahahaha
 

RebelinBed

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Update: I tried contacting her again to see if I could work this out and have set an appointment with her tonight.
 

MojoRisin'

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Update: I tried contacting her again to see if I could work this out and have set an appointment with her tonight.
Sooooooo? Interested in details. She's hot but never give deposit or do outcalls. I'd try incall maybe.
Review? Thanks
 

Marky--mark

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I've worked the phones for an agency a couple years ago. I see it from both sides of the table. In my opinion if a lady asks for a deposit on an incall it's 100% a bs scam. Asking for a small amount on an outcall (with good intentions from a well known/reviewed provider) is acceptable. I can't even count the amount of times I've driven an outcall with a no show, more than one person there or the client has been totally hammered with not nough $$$ or could even comprehend what was going on. After a while I had to leave due to me not being able to take the frustration. Again, not all clients are brutal and same with the girls. But buyer beware and do your homework first if your unsure.
 

Horny_gentleman

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I've worked the phones for an agency a couple years ago. I see it from both sides of the table. In my opinion if a lady asks for a deposit on an incall it's 100% a bs scam. Asking for a small amount on an outcall (with good intentions from a well known/reviewed provider) is acceptable. I can't even count the amount of times I've driven an outcall with a no show, more than one person there or the client has been totally hammered with not nough $$$ or could even comprehend what was going on. After a while I had to leave due to me not being able to take the frustration. Again, not all clients are brutal and same with the girls. But buyer beware and do your homework first if your unsure.
I’ve yet to meet 1 sp that requires deposit that was a scam, but I do do my homework and make sure the sp I am going to see is in fact real and I won’t be scammed. There are ways of verifying SPs before meeting them.
 

RebelinBed

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I seen nahla recently in Whitby and she took my money and ran with it She is a drug addict and looks nothing like her pics her pics are so edited and when she takes her robe off boobs drop too to her belly button she is probably at least 200 pounds heavier than her pics not worth it don't waste your time 6477384857 she is in Whitby again DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME
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This is such a bs statement imo because I did not have that experience with her at all. In fact quite the opposite. She smokes cigarettes but that’s about it to my knowledge.
 

MojoRisin'

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This is such a bs statement imo because I did not have that experience with her at all. In fact quite the opposite. She smokes cigarettes but that’s about it to my knowledge.
Also the person just signed up with 1 post....lol
 
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