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RebelinBed

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Tried contacting Syriah tonight because I’ve had my eye on her for a while. Sent my normal polite and respectful message asking for rates and menu. Got rates and menu was full service. Idk if it’s just me but I like to know exactly what I’m getting for my money also because every SP’s full service may vary. Some may just be cbj and fs, others it may be dfk and daty as well. So whenever an SP either tells me “full service” or “no Greek no bbfs” I politely ask for more specific details. Which I did. Then got messages back saying “I literally just told you” “Did you not read what I said like what’s up?” “Beat it goofy”. I know and understand that some SPs like to keep it short and sweet but the rudeness was certainly uncalled for. So let’s discuss it. What’re your thoughts?
 

Sribkc

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I agree I like to know what I'm getting for my money
Some of these sps are snobs and think they are the shyt and then u can a cbj...lmao fuk outta here
 

justplainbob

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Tried contacting Syriah tonight because I’ve had my eye on her for a while. Sent my normal polite and respectful message asking for rates and menu. Got rates and menu was full service. Idk if it’s just me but I like to know exactly what I’m getting for my money also because every SP’s full service may vary. Some may just be cbj and fs, others it may be dfk and daty as well. So whenever an SP either tells me “full service” or “no Greek no bbfs” I politely ask for more specific details. Which I did. Then got messages back saying “I literally just told you” “Did you not read what I said like what’s up?” “Beat it goofy”. I know and understand that some SPs like to keep it short and sweet but the rudeness was certainly uncalled for. So let’s discuss it. What’re your thoughts?
In my ideal world every SP would respond with a full list of rates, what they do (in the base rate and/or for upcharges), what their restrictions are, what's YMMV, and all using a standard set of abbreviations.

I respect that many higher end SPs don't have menus, and that's OK too, but I think they should at least disclose their hard restrictions.

It's not hard to put this in the same canned response that they use already, and it would eliminate a lot of the back and forth texting that they complain about. Or it can just all be in the ad up front.

Now on the other hand, that back and forth texting is also the only interaction we get before we're expected to decide. So you still need some way to decide other than reading the menu.
 

Jtrills

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Tried contacting Syriah tonight because I’ve had my eye on her for a while. Sent my normal polite and respectful message asking for rates and menu. Got rates and menu was full service. Idk if it’s just me but I like to know exactly what I’m getting for my money also because every SP’s full service may vary. Some may just be cbj and fs, others it may be dfk and daty as well. So whenever an SP either tells me “full service” or “no Greek no bbfs” I politely ask for more specific details. Which I did. Then got messages back saying “I literally just told you” “Did you not read what I said like what’s up?” “Beat it goofy”. I know and understand that some SPs like to keep it short and sweet but the rudeness was certainly uncalled for. So let’s discuss it. What’re your thoughts?
That’s rude af... We have the right to ask for details so both parties expectations are met...

Almost all SPs send the same pasted response, which is cool with me. Time is money and I don’t like to waste anyone’s time.

I texted Syriah a week ago and got the typical response: 120 hh 200h and no list of services. I asked if bbbj is available and cim? Quick reply 50$ extra for bbbj and no cim. So this example in my case, was fast and straight forward. We both got our info and I told her politely I’m not interested for now.

Comparing scenarios here, I received normal typical response. Yours... rude af. But I wouldn’t pay her 170$ anyway so i slipped her.
 

RebelinBed

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In my ideal world every SP would respond with a full list of rates, what they do (in the base rate and/or for upcharges), what their restrictions are, what's YMMV, and all using a standard set of abbreviations.

I respect that many higher end SPs don't have menus, and that's OK too, but I think they should at least disclose their hard restrictions.

It's not hard to put this in the same canned response that they use already, and it would eliminate a lot of the back and forth texting that they complain about. Or it can just all be in the ad up front.

Now on the other hand, that back and forth texting is also the only interaction we get before we're expected to decide. So you still need some way to decide other than reading the menu.
Exactly! I could not agree with you more. I wish that SP’s would have that specific and detailed pasted response. It would eliminate the back and forth. Most of the more professional SPs that I’ve encountered do have that detailed menu response so we know exactly what we’re getting for our money. Some don’t but like you said, that’s okay. It’s almost like some of them create their own problem by giving a nondescript response like “(enter rates here) no Greek no bbfs” leaving us to be like “Okay, but what DO you provide?” I didn’t ask for your restrictions lol
 

RebelinBed

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That’s rude af... We have the right to ask for details so both parties expectations are met...

Almost all SPs send the same pasted response, which is cool with me. Time is money and I don’t like to waste anyone’s time.

I texted Syriah a week ago and got the typical response: 120 hh 200h and no list of services. I asked if bbbj is available and cim? Quick reply 50$ extra for bbbj and no cim. So this example in my case, was fast and straight forward. We both got our info and I told her politely I’m not interested for now.

Comparing scenarios here, I received normal typical response. Yours... rude af. But I wouldn’t pay her 170$ anyway so i slipped her.

I honestly don’t know why our scenarios differed so drastically but yeah her response was rude as hell for absolutely no reason. I don’t blame you for slipping her either. That’s not worth it to me either. Anyways she’s off my TDL for good. I am always polite and respectful when I message and I expect the same courtesy in return. I don’t know what caused her to respond this way. Maybe she had a bad night? Either way it’s no excuse. You never know who may be on a review board like this ;)
 

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In my ideal world every SP would respond with a full list of rates, what they do (in the base rate and/or for upcharges), what their restrictions are, what's YMMV, and all using a standard set of abbreviations.

I respect that many higher end SPs don't have menus, and that's OK too, but I think they should at least disclose their hard restrictions.

It's not hard to put this in the same canned response that they use already, and it would eliminate a lot of the back and forth texting that they complain about. Or it can just all be in the ad up front.

Now on the other hand, that back and forth texting is also the only interaction we get before we're expected to decide. So you still need some way to decide other than reading the menu.
I believe it is more important for the "high end" (smoke and mirrors) to provide a menu as they are expecting a lot more money for basically the same service.

A cbj vs bbbj, kissing, these for some are a priority. I can understand if hygiene or possible std is an issue for the provider to say no but it should be stated which services are provided.
 

justplainbob

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I believe it is more important for the "high end" (smoke and mirrors) to provide a menu as they are expecting a lot more money for basically the same service.

A cbj vs bbbj, kissing, these for some are a priority. I can understand if hygiene or possible std is an issue for the provider to say no but it should be stated which services are provided.
Well first off, if if an SP doesn't allow kissing, she's not what I consider high end. :) I'm not saying that they shouldn't disclose (for example) "no bbbj, no anal", but somehow having a list of services changes the experience.

It's hard to put into words, but to me it's sort of the difference between a girl with a website and a girl who's only on LL.
 

zorba56

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I have moved on to Asian 3 or 4 years back , I have not encountered any rudeness , in general the service has been good ,the posts may not be as resent as i would like , but in my humble opinion the service is as good as i want or expect ....Recently spent an hr with Mico , as good as I had since Bailey left...:rockon:
 

Melonpounder

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I have seen Syriah and she was absolutely lovely. I had no such issues that the OP mentioned however am not disputing that it happened. That was very rude and inconsiderate but I would vouch that it was probably just a bad night. You're right though there is no excuse.
 

RebelinBed

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I have seen Syriah and she was absolutely lovely. I had no such issues that the OP mentioned however am not disputing that it happened. That was very rude and inconsiderate but I would vouch that it was probably just a bad night. You're right though there is no excuse.
Right. There is no excuse whether you vouch for her being lovely or not. Sorry to be so blunt mate. But if an SP wants to be taken professionally you put your bad night and emotions aside and act professionally. If it’s that bad of a night take the night off and relax. Don’t take frustrations out on potential clients who could become possible regulars.
 
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