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Negan692

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Does anyone here have experience on this site. I have been using for couple weeks and that’s a lot of girls interested in PPM casual arrangements. The only negative is that is timing consuming to find girls e negotiate. But I have been lucky.
 

Capital Amatuer

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The formula isn't going to change; there are bots, there are pros, there are nut cases and there are hidden gems. The variable is how much time (and cash) you want to invest in your search.
Anyway, good luck. In the end you'll have wasted your time and your cash.
 

walk

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There was a very good and informative thread discussing Seeking Arrangement and sugar dating generally on the Ottawa reviews forum a couple of years ago. The mods decided it wasn't appropriate and deleted it, I believe there were some complaints that the thread advocated exploitation or something along those lines though I didn't see it. There's still a stickied notice saying further sugar dating threads will be deleted. The sugar dating thread in the lounge forum was started later and allowed to continue for some reason.
 

Capital Amatuer

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Seeking Arrangements is or was an advertiser here on TERB. AdultFriendFinder maybe a sister site of Seeking Arrangements. I suspect TERB is a little more lenient with the earlier rules now.
 

Frank Gravey

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The formula isn't going to change; there are bots, there are pros, there are nut cases and there are hidden gems. The variable is how much time (and cash) you want to invest in your search.
Anyway, good luck. In the end you'll have wasted your time and your cash.
Inclined to agree with all that has been said above. Wish I could say it wasn't so. The Kingston scene of course includes the university/college contingent, as well as those pretending to be part thereof - likely the vast majority. Always cracks me up how someone in Venezuela messages me as a hot prospect. Also, SA has lousy filtering capability, so anything say for example 40km from Ktown in a search will include a lot of upstate NY girls. Too expensive to go there. Never did find a way to fix that. Past tense, you notice. Yeah, $120 Cdn per month was a little rich for the ROI.
 
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Someone is going to have to help me out here. Isnt a 'sugar daddy' relationship more akin to 'frequent flyer miles' ?

I really dont know so please avoid any derogatory comments directed towards me or anyone that is involved in these sorts of ventures. Literally asking here rather than Googling what it entails. Someone in my past had a family member who was a provider, first I had ever met someone in that world, and she had a client who took her to dinner, bought her dresses, went out of town with her...........lots of that sort of cool stuff, but it sounded like a sweet relationship between the two of them. They knew what they were doing and how it was defined.

That's how I always saw it but it was first explained to me in a more nefarious manner because he was older and married. It is easy to understand how others can find that morally wrong but none the less, that's how I have always understood what a Sugar Daddy relationship is. He was literally referred to as one.

Having said all that, I am assuming it would be far easier for members of this board to find a provider they enjoy and then try to come up with some sort of mutual collaboration. There are enough fakes trying to scam 150 bucks so I imagine there would be WAY more trying to scam more money from individuals seeking some kind of long-term companionship.
 

Capital Amatuer

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Hey Jerry,
I haven't experienced or know much about sugar baby relationships either. My understanding is a client pays an allowance to the sugar baby and the sugar baby is available whenever for whatever occasion. The relationship is supposed to evolve into more than a cash convenient transaction of a traditional pay per meet model.
You summed it up when you said, "They knew what they were doing and how it was defined". And if I may add, they put a price they could both agree on.
I think we both have the general idea without the Hollywood glamorization. But I still fantasize about winning the lotto.
 

fibrewax

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Sugar Daddy / Baby relationships don't apply to most (normal) people.
If a man is wealthy, with a lot of free time (old, widowed, divorced, more money than he knows what to do with it) - then this may work.
Most normal people don't have the kind of expendable income this would require - to pay an (allowance) to someone on a continuous basis for some sort of returned favors.
And to add to this, most men crave "variety" - hence why we are all on this site discussing the many (options) that are out there.
So signing up for a long-term SD/SB arrangement with only one woman may not work for the majority of us - for very long.
Either the thrill of the hunt or the insidious lightening of your wallet, will dictate how long you can stay in that game.
 
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Thank you very much Capital Amatuer.

On a personal level I cant see myself ever getting involved in that sort of engagement, which is summed up very well be in the post above from fibrewax.
 

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Does anyone here have experience on this site. I have been using for couple weeks and that’s a lot of girls interested in PPM casual arrangements. The only negative is that is timing consuming to find girls e negotiate. But I have been lucky.
I've been using SA on and off for over two years. Initially it can take time to find what you want but for me the rewards have been worth it. It's not for everyone, I'm not 'wealthy', but I have time in my life for an SB. I'm not going to post my entire personal experiences with SA but if anyone has any particular questions or looking for tips you can PM me.
 

voyagers

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Not much luck here! last minute cancellations, no shows for the first meeting! Anyone else experienced the same?
 

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I've been using SA on and off for over two years. Initially it can take time to find what you want but for me the rewards have been worth it. It's not for everyone, I'm not 'wealthy', but I have time in my life for an SB. I'm not going to post my entire personal experiences with SA but if anyone has any particular questions or looking for tips you can PM me.
I have questions, will ping you
 
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