This is a review of Sadi - 5053. Moderators I am completely new here so if I wrote something wrong below please let me know and I will edit however you need me to. Thanks in advance.
A lot of anxious firsts for me lately it seems. Hi I'm about as new as one can possibly be to this scene. I want to frame this properly: I'm a 40-year-old professional who went back to work a few months ago after spending 5 years in terrible pain, barely able to function, due to a misdiagnosis by an idiot GP. During that time I was reduced to poverty living off disability and the idea of dating women wasn't feasible. Once I resolved the issue and was back on my feet I found myself really hurting in terms of my ability to approach women, get back into the game of dating, etc. I couldn't get connections with girls, I couldn't find the groove if you understand. I'm convinced there's something chemical - pheromones and the like - that signal "This guy ain't been laid in 5 years - something's off" and that, combined with my own visible nervousness and bottled insecurity about the drought squeaking through, I was having no luck making even the most basic connections with the single women in my social sphere. Because I'm not bad-looking at all, I make good money, I'm smart and I often hold the room with interesting stories. But even I could tell that I wasn't myself around single women I was interested in - I didn't recall who the person I used to be who could confidently behave in that context. That guy was gone - not even a distant memory. Even with a supportive female wingman (winggirl) it wasn't happening - and it was my winggirl who told me there's just something I give off in terms of the sheer desperation that these girls are sensing and reacting to. I couldn't disagree.
So with that information in hand I decided that what I needed was to just get the biology cycling in the right direction again and some friends suggested some classified sites and I stumbled into the world of escorts and massage and sugar babies and you folks here. When I last checked 10 years ago all of this activity was perfectly above board but when I checked again was horrified to discover the law had changed, sort of, in a really confusing way that was difficult to interpret. I was concerned that some fine law enforcement officer might get the wrong idea and think I was trying to do something not 100% legal in every way. I was more worried about that than fake escorts and massage services that were looking to steal my money. I knew nothing and still know very little of this world - all I knew was that I needed to hold, touch, be touched by, smell and just BE with an attractive girl and these services were available. The girlfriend experience was exactly what I felt I need to jump-start my completely dead lobster brain that Jordan Peterson always talks about if you have any idea what that means. I contacted a few girls based on classified ads on a popular site - somethinglist I think it was called
. Some escorts were verified and others weren't in terms of their photos, but I didn't know whether verified photo meant verified escort. I was worried about misunderstandings with law enforcement. I was concerned about being robbed in some way - I had no idea what to expect or how to navigate the space wisely. The verified girls spooked me with the long list of acronyms for the rules - had no idea what they meant, and thought that could be some form of entrapment that might lead to a terrible misunderstanding with LE. But truth is my gut-flags weren't thrown by anything other than that with the verified girls. About half the unverified girls set off red flags for scamming - signs of dishonesty. Also the unverified seemed to me to be opportunistic in terms of scheduling - like any are indeed legit but doing it adhoc and they'll see a client if it serves their purpose at the time but aren't regularly on the clock. Btw I read a cool guide on here about verified vs. unverified and agree that unverified is more gambly but I can see the potential for it to be more rewarding as well at the individual level.
Now, at this point I've texted with about 7 girls and the one I have the best feeling about is called Sadi - except she sent me a bunch of acronyms that spooked me because I was so uninitiated to the lingo and this scene. Then I found this site, and once I got my account I searched most of the girls I had been texting and found reviews for several of them including Sadi. Once I knew Sadi was real she became my sole focus. First of all, take if from a first-timer to all of this in so many ways - Sadi has a heart of gold and a warm, bubbly, playful and inviting spirit. She is also lol patient - through the scheduling, my questions and fumbling, my screwing up the buzz-in process Sadi was understanding, patient, and instructive. She opened the door with a smile and gave me a big hug - Sadi ushered me into a nice, clean room that smelled like sweet coconut (sorry terrible with describing smells but it was nice) with a large bed with clean sheets and we chatted for a bit. She asked me if this was first time having an escort provide services (I had hinted as much in texts) and I confirmed, and interestingly she asked me to tell her why I had decided to spend time with an escort because she was naturally curious. I didn't want to tell her about my health condition (it wasn't contagious but I just didn't want to bring that subject into it) so I told her that I had been out of circulation for several years and found it difficult to connect with women now that I was able to date - that I had lost my mojo. She smiled and said she could definitely help with that. Sadi told me to take off my clothes and lay on the bed to get ready for a massage while she took a moment to prepare. She returned after a few seconds and did the same, and then said she would go over the rules of her services since I was new to ensure no misunderstanding. Sadi does this in a very charming way - I'll listen to all the rules you have while you smile at me and massage like that. None of the rules were of any concern to me, and as a newby to this space I was very pleased to find out that available services satisfied my most optimistic hopes.
I spent an hour with Sadi. There was no clock - nothing was rushed. Everything I needed so badly was provided. This site helped me get that done without wasting money or getting in trouble, and Sadi made this first experience as relaxing and as fulfilling as I could have possibly hoped. Her rates are very good, and she is exactly how she looks in the verified pics - oh here I think I have a link to that list site thing check it out: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe..._sadi_15_min_specials_ottawa_west_end-3905576
Very pretty and accommodating and I think if I may provide the only value I really can provide here - perfect for first-timers like me who need to turn it around and are not yet *ahem* experienced to the point where all of this amazing service industry is taken for granted and dudes start focusing on the semantics of fringe service details instead of the character, attitude, presentation and personality of the escort herself. If you want a real time with a real girl who just happens to be gorgeous and smells like heaven, I recommend Sadi. Sure I have no frame of reference but I'm doing it anyway!!
I don't want to get into any specific in terms of services, but I can say that for the last 20 minutes of my visit I asked if we could spoon for a while and just chat, like she was my GF (while reassuring her that this was role play) and although she seemed initially surprised she was happy to do so. For me, part of what I needed to experience again was just that - holding a girl and listening to her talk about what she finds interesting. What a sweetheart to chat with - that was the final component that made this time with Sadi so incredibly worthwhile. Any of you been deprived for 5 years or more? Completely deprived? The entire world looked different when I walked out of there and the effect continues unabated. I had a conversation with a girl who lives close-by that I couldn't connect with and it was easy-breezy, completely different feeling for me on the inside and what I projected on the outside. I could tell that she could tell that something was different (btw, don't ever tell them what it is specifically lol). Sadi did that for me - she's real, she's good, and thanks guys for helping me find her. I'm going back soon.
A lot of anxious firsts for me lately it seems. Hi I'm about as new as one can possibly be to this scene. I want to frame this properly: I'm a 40-year-old professional who went back to work a few months ago after spending 5 years in terrible pain, barely able to function, due to a misdiagnosis by an idiot GP. During that time I was reduced to poverty living off disability and the idea of dating women wasn't feasible. Once I resolved the issue and was back on my feet I found myself really hurting in terms of my ability to approach women, get back into the game of dating, etc. I couldn't get connections with girls, I couldn't find the groove if you understand. I'm convinced there's something chemical - pheromones and the like - that signal "This guy ain't been laid in 5 years - something's off" and that, combined with my own visible nervousness and bottled insecurity about the drought squeaking through, I was having no luck making even the most basic connections with the single women in my social sphere. Because I'm not bad-looking at all, I make good money, I'm smart and I often hold the room with interesting stories. But even I could tell that I wasn't myself around single women I was interested in - I didn't recall who the person I used to be who could confidently behave in that context. That guy was gone - not even a distant memory. Even with a supportive female wingman (winggirl) it wasn't happening - and it was my winggirl who told me there's just something I give off in terms of the sheer desperation that these girls are sensing and reacting to. I couldn't disagree.
So with that information in hand I decided that what I needed was to just get the biology cycling in the right direction again and some friends suggested some classified sites and I stumbled into the world of escorts and massage and sugar babies and you folks here. When I last checked 10 years ago all of this activity was perfectly above board but when I checked again was horrified to discover the law had changed, sort of, in a really confusing way that was difficult to interpret. I was concerned that some fine law enforcement officer might get the wrong idea and think I was trying to do something not 100% legal in every way. I was more worried about that than fake escorts and massage services that were looking to steal my money. I knew nothing and still know very little of this world - all I knew was that I needed to hold, touch, be touched by, smell and just BE with an attractive girl and these services were available. The girlfriend experience was exactly what I felt I need to jump-start my completely dead lobster brain that Jordan Peterson always talks about if you have any idea what that means. I contacted a few girls based on classified ads on a popular site - somethinglist I think it was called
. Some escorts were verified and others weren't in terms of their photos, but I didn't know whether verified photo meant verified escort. I was worried about misunderstandings with law enforcement. I was concerned about being robbed in some way - I had no idea what to expect or how to navigate the space wisely. The verified girls spooked me with the long list of acronyms for the rules - had no idea what they meant, and thought that could be some form of entrapment that might lead to a terrible misunderstanding with LE. But truth is my gut-flags weren't thrown by anything other than that with the verified girls. About half the unverified girls set off red flags for scamming - signs of dishonesty. Also the unverified seemed to me to be opportunistic in terms of scheduling - like any are indeed legit but doing it adhoc and they'll see a client if it serves their purpose at the time but aren't regularly on the clock. Btw I read a cool guide on here about verified vs. unverified and agree that unverified is more gambly but I can see the potential for it to be more rewarding as well at the individual level.Now, at this point I've texted with about 7 girls and the one I have the best feeling about is called Sadi - except she sent me a bunch of acronyms that spooked me because I was so uninitiated to the lingo and this scene. Then I found this site, and once I got my account I searched most of the girls I had been texting and found reviews for several of them including Sadi. Once I knew Sadi was real she became my sole focus. First of all, take if from a first-timer to all of this in so many ways - Sadi has a heart of gold and a warm, bubbly, playful and inviting spirit. She is also lol patient - through the scheduling, my questions and fumbling, my screwing up the buzz-in process Sadi was understanding, patient, and instructive. She opened the door with a smile and gave me a big hug - Sadi ushered me into a nice, clean room that smelled like sweet coconut (sorry terrible with describing smells but it was nice) with a large bed with clean sheets and we chatted for a bit. She asked me if this was first time having an escort provide services (I had hinted as much in texts) and I confirmed, and interestingly she asked me to tell her why I had decided to spend time with an escort because she was naturally curious. I didn't want to tell her about my health condition (it wasn't contagious but I just didn't want to bring that subject into it) so I told her that I had been out of circulation for several years and found it difficult to connect with women now that I was able to date - that I had lost my mojo. She smiled and said she could definitely help with that. Sadi told me to take off my clothes and lay on the bed to get ready for a massage while she took a moment to prepare. She returned after a few seconds and did the same, and then said she would go over the rules of her services since I was new to ensure no misunderstanding. Sadi does this in a very charming way - I'll listen to all the rules you have while you smile at me and massage like that. None of the rules were of any concern to me, and as a newby to this space I was very pleased to find out that available services satisfied my most optimistic hopes.
I spent an hour with Sadi. There was no clock - nothing was rushed. Everything I needed so badly was provided. This site helped me get that done without wasting money or getting in trouble, and Sadi made this first experience as relaxing and as fulfilling as I could have possibly hoped. Her rates are very good, and she is exactly how she looks in the verified pics - oh here I think I have a link to that list site thing check it out: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe..._sadi_15_min_specials_ottawa_west_end-3905576
Very pretty and accommodating and I think if I may provide the only value I really can provide here - perfect for first-timers like me who need to turn it around and are not yet *ahem*
experienced to the point where all of this amazing service industry is taken for granted and dudes start focusing on the semantics of fringe service details instead of the character, attitude, presentation and personality of the escort herself. If you want a real time with a real girl who just happens to be gorgeous and smells like heaven, I recommend Sadi. Sure I have no frame of reference but I'm doing it anyway!!I don't want to get into any specific in terms of services, but I can say that for the last 20 minutes of my visit I asked if we could spoon for a while and just chat, like she was my GF (while reassuring her that this was role play) and although she seemed initially surprised she was happy to do so. For me, part of what I needed to experience again was just that - holding a girl and listening to her talk about what she finds interesting. What a sweetheart to chat with - that was the final component that made this time with Sadi so incredibly worthwhile. Any of you been deprived for 5 years or more? Completely deprived? The entire world looked different when I walked out of there and the effect continues unabated. I had a conversation with a girl who lives close-by that I couldn't connect with and it was easy-breezy, completely different feeling for me on the inside and what I projected on the outside. I could tell that she could tell that something was different (btw, don't ever tell them what it is specifically lol). Sadi did that for me - she's real, she's good, and thanks guys for helping me find her. I'm going back soon.
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