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mellowjello

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That is basically my question as well. What is the purpose? What does it accomplish?

But the responses have given me some ideas. I get the macho thing, I didn't think about the thank you aspect and I can admit that while low in probability it does happen where women do respond on a connection happens.

Side note: I do have to ask, did you really feel the need to make note that I personally said I looked like shit? Meaning, did you feel I was going to attack you for the comments if you didn't remind me they were my words? I would like to try and change some of my posting behaviour if I think it will help explain myself better to others. I find Or I think anyway, that I am misunderstood sometimes. I don't want people to feel they have to do or say something to prevent backlash. Sorry to put you on the spot, but this is the perfect chance for me to ask. PM if you can please. Thanks.



Thanks! It is nice to know some do get me. LOL.

I know some women just can't or don't want to handle the general negative tone that comes across from some members. Also, this is a business for most and they can't risk a business opportunity on personal opinion. I don't have to worry about that and I never worry about the haters period. That is something that is not worth anyone's time. ;)
That sounds a little naïve.
I think the great majority of men don't condone this stuff either, but to expect everyone to be perfectly rational and deliberate
when it comes to physical or sexual attraction sounds naïve coming from someone who should realize the full range of masculine
responses.
 

Jasmine Raine

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That sounds a little naïve.
I think the great majority of men don't condone this stuff either, but to expect everyone to be perfectly rational and deliberate
when it comes to physical or sexual attraction sounds naïve coming from someone who should realize the full range of masculine
responses.
It is naive to be curious and want to hear from men directly?

Usually when I do things, there is some purpose behind it. I don't see the purpose, I'm asking. I would rather ask then guess. I can list a whole ton of possible reasons, of course but I just find it is better to ask then assume if I can help it.
 

mellowjello

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It is naive to be curious and want to hear from men directly?

Usually when I do things, there is some purpose behind it. I don't see the purpose, I'm asking. I would rather ask then guess. I can list a whole ton of possible reasons, of course but I just find it is better to ask then assume if I can help it.
Of course not.
But I didn't suggest you were naïve for being curious, just for not knowing.
If the reasons aren't as obvious as I think they are, then I stand corrected.
 

spraggamuffin

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Sometimes we guys like to take a break from stroking our cocks and stroke our egos instead by being the playa in the neighbourhood.
Some men are overconfident that they can get any woman and wear big fake diamond earrings.
Other guys are not confident in most circumstances face to face with a woman for fear of being rejected.
Behind the wheel of a car though confidence rises because there is no pressure and it's simply flirting and makes for a quick get away if things get uncomfortable.
In his car he can speed off before getting rejected so it's like it never happened but face to face this can be a real problem, or she can respond favorably and stroke his ego making him feel like a conqueror.
He also gets to see if she is "easy", attracted to him or his valuable assets like his car, when he honks and she responds thus auguring well for his ego, plus no potential rejection if he wanted to meet her face to face, get bolder with her etc.
He now be a stud.
And well women are always supposed to be subservient to men, using every possible opportunity to make him feel like everything he wants to be but is not.
It's also the manly/macho thing to do and like a pissing contest without the piss, to delusionally impress his friends that "look at how she really likes me" "want's me" etc when her reaction is furthest from.
 

Smallcock

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As for your guy this morning, ever think he might be an acquaintance or client that was trying to get your attention? Or perhaps some other reason.
This happened to me once. I saw an old female acquaintance from school heading into a mall and she was walking with another girl from our school. I honked and waved trying to get her attention. Looking halfway in my direction, her face turned sour like she was appalled that someone would honk at her. While she was all offended and angry, the other girl was smirking. Neither looked back at my vehicle to get a better look at me. This was about 5 - 10 years ago. I'm sure female reactions have gotten worse.

This is when I realized that even women I knew could be normal in certain contexts and act like irrational imbeciles in others.
 

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Paradise by the dashboard light.
Hailey♥4U;6479896 said:
Cat calling has probably been going on since horse and buggy days. It may be a trait.
I was once with a driver downtown who literally steered into a cop car because of staring down a girl.
Some can't help themselves.
damn boobs can be hypnotic

 

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Side note: I do have to ask, did you really feel the need to make note that I personally said I looked like shit? Meaning, did you feel I was going to attack you for the comments if you didn't remind me they were my words? I would like to try and change some of my posting behaviour if I think it will help explain myself better to others. I find Or I think anyway, that I am misunderstood sometimes. I don't want people to feel they have to do or say something to prevent backlash. Sorry to put you on the spot, but this is the perfect chance for me to ask. PM if you can please. Thanks.
No not really, it just came out naturally since I have no idea what you looked like that day. Also worth saying because you might have thought you looked like shit but that guy may have found you ravishing that day. Hard to know for sure.
 

Smallcock

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I am a guy and I would love to get honked at by girls all day. Also, A few years ago I was in a bar and girl grabbed my ass... I was confused at first but did not really mind. Another gender stereotype view of event that are seeing differently.
But that's because men are horny and are ready at the drop of a hat. Imagine not being sexually inclined (which is the case for most women), and having men essentially throw their hotdogs at you every day everywhere you go. It'd be annoying because quick non-attached sex is non-existent on your priority list. On the other hand, that desire is right at the top for a typical man.

Men and women share the same space but we live in very different worlds because of our gender/sex, and the way that our biological gender dictates our desires.
 

John Henry

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Wow . Didn't know that there are so many licensed psychologists on this board being able to explain a simple horn honk by a guy DRIVING by .

Small dick thingy , look at me thingy , afraid of rejection , look at what I'm driving , pissing match and many more . You can see all of this from a simple horn honk while driving by . Well done .
 

richaceg

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Its just a way of saying thanks you for being beautiful
I am not a honker
But i do offer up a thank you (to who i do not know as i am not religious) when i see a beautiful women
thank you for adding to the beauty of my day and putting a smile on my face
This...ladies...sometimes you don't know how guys think, just like we don't know how you ladies think. Sometimes I see nice looking women in bus stops. I'd be inclined to honk but never did. It's like saying "damn girl!" You may think you look like crap but maybe not to those guys...
 

John Henry

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Probably because for most it's the only way they can interact with women- with a getaway van.
No I really don't think so . I think it's more like there's a good looking lady . Honk honk just to let her know . And away he goes .

You're reading more into it than what's really is there
 

mellowjello

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Guys honk because they’re not confident enough to start a conversation, but they’re horny so they can’t do nothing.

As as comedian put it (I think Bill Barr), a guy’s penis is a motivational speaker. It tells him to “come on, do it!” Even when the odds are very long and the methods are hopeless.

But to answer your other questions, the answer is sadly - no. She doesn’t have to be attractive, dressed up, or any way his type. He may not even want to get with her. There’s just something about her that brings up the topic of sex.

As an analogy, imagine you’re drenched in sweat from a humid day and someone brings up the topic of air conditioning…you’re like “YES! YES! Now, damn it. I need it now!” … that’s what it’s like to be a horny man when something brings up sex.

These men are (nearly all) harmless, and respectful when you know them. They’re just struggling with two small balls that control a 180 pound body.

My two cents.
What are they supposed to do, slam on the brakes, get out of the car, and start chit chatting?
 

chafien

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lol this is so elementary.

Guys honk because they are amused by it. It is more entertaining for them to honk and see your reaction. Call it trolling in real life if you will.

Notice how majority of "trolls" on the internet, troll posts, troll topics are probably started by guys. Honking is just trolling in real life.

I doubt most guys are actually trying to make you uncomfortable but more so in their minds, "wow this is funny!"

Like when a guy trolls a liberal or conservatives by posting something like "wow Justin Trudeau sucks balls so deep, blahblah" I doubt they are thinking, wow will I make liberals uncomfortable?

Why do guys troll? Well it is the same personality which makes guys so ridiculous stuff that makes you laugh.
 

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what I have learned from this thread is that no one knows why guys honk and catcall
 

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There should be a name for this effect, perhaps someone knows:

Basically, if only 15% of the male population catcall or honk (draw attention) and the rest do not; from a relative perspective (ie the females), it would seem like “all men” do this. When they actually don’t, your mind only retains 13% of each day and what stands out, stands out for a reason. It’s not like every 5th male driven car that passed you, honked at you, right?



As to why they do a catcall or honk, specifically, can be reduced to simply getting the attention of the female. A innate mechanism driven by base instinct. No thought needed.
 

mellowjello

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There should be a name for this effect, perhaps someone knows:

Basically, if only 15% of the male population catcall or honk (draw attention) and the rest do not; from a relative perspective (ie the females), it would seem like “all men” do this. When they actually don’t, your mind only retains 13% of each day and what stands out, stands out for a reason. It’s not like every 5th male driven car that passed you, honked at you, right?



As to why they do a catcall or honk, specifically, can be reduced to simply getting the attention of the female. A innate mechanism driven by base instinct. No thought needed.
That sounds about right.
 
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