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Jasmine Raine

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So out doing the dog walk this morning. On a major busy road during what would be rush hour morning traffic.

I get honked at. I don’t get it.

First, I look like a bag of shit. I’m wearing tights with basically a nightgown style shirt, hair in a bun covered by a hat because I haven’t showered yet. I pee then they pee, that is the first thing we do in the morning. So I’m not looking pretty.

Second, it is not like he would turn around if I waved him down. He was clearly headed to work in a work truck.

So I don’t get it. Why? What is the purpose? What are you guys expecting? I’m going to wave you down and blow you in the street while holding a dog on a leash??? LMAO

It is the same with cat-calling. I don’t get the purpose. It is not for us women. We don’t like it for the most part. I would guess that 90%+ of women hate being honked at or catcalled. Personally I think it is for guys more then us.

So what do guys get out of it? Why can’t guys just look and appreciate in silence.

Now to be clear, I’m not trying to start a bashing thread against men. I am truly trying to understand the reasons why and what the expectation is. Also, if guys know that most women don’t like, why purposely subject them to it? Or is it a absent-minded thing where they just don’t think of the women they are bothering?

Opinions, please.....
 

icespot

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I know eh! It's so annoying walking on Bay Street and Young Street, with every car drivien by guys blasting their horns at every woman, regardless of beauty.

I have never seen my friends catcalls or honk at any women. Matter of fact I notice that most men now a days do everything possible to avoid women.

As for your guy this morning, ever think he might be an acquaintance or client that was trying to get your attention? Or perhaps some other reason.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I know eh! It's so annoying walking on Bay Street and Young Street, with every car drivien by guys blasting their horns at every woman, regardless of beauty.

I have never seen my friends catcalls or honk at any women. Matter of fact I notice that most men now a days do everything possible to avoid women.

As for your guy this morning, ever think he might be an acquaintance or client that was trying to get your attention? Or perhaps some other reason.
That is why I asked why.... LOL. I like to hear from other men what the reasoning is behind doing this.

I’m not saying all men do this and I said this is not a male bashing thread so I don’t know why you got so defensive. I have underlined my comment now so maybe you guys can have an open discussion without getting pissy. This is not a bashing thread!

This guy was not a client or anyone I know. I know when I’m being honked at. It happens more then you seem to think. Maybe because you have a cock and balls and not breasts with a vagina, you would not know the amount of times it actually happens.

If you are not the type of guy to do this, then I get you being just as confused as me.

I just don’t get the point of it. The purpose. Why do it? What do men get out of it?
 

squeezer

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I have a friend who when he's in the car with me and sees a pretty woman, reaches over and honks my horn. It drives me insane and I've threatened to throw him out of my car although I never have. In public he's quiet and doesn't approach the ladies at all but in the car, he's a player. I don't get it either Jess but rest assured, I'd never honk at a woman with the morning look going on. LOL
 

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I am a guy and I would love to get honked at by girls all day. Also, A few years ago I was in a bar and girl grabbed my ass... I was confused at first but did not really mind. Another gender stereotype view of event that are seeing differently.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I am a guy and I would love to get honked at by girls all day. Also, A few years ago I was in a bar and girl grabbed my ass... I was confused at first but did not really mind. Another gender stereotype view of event that are seeing differently.
Very true, this is a gender view difference. Women often do not like it and most men would.

I wonder if it is because women are taught it is wrong to seek attention and therefore we don’t like when get it. But at the same time, we do like attention in other ways, so I don’t know if that is it.

For me, this morning my first reaction was “Ugh” and then I thought the guy was nuts because I’m ugly in the morning. LOL I know he was totally just checking out my body. I can’t hide my curves and I have a few hourglass shape that is appealing so I get the attraction but I don’t get the reason for the honk.

Women see men all the time too, but they don’t honk. I check out construction workers all the time. Have no problem with slowing down and it is not for their safety. It is for me to get a nice look. I like a working man, it is turn on {and no, not for the money, it is the look} but I only look. I don’t shout out the window, or honk the horn. I enjoy in silence as most women do.

It is interesting that women watch in silence and don’t like being honked/cat-called, and yet some men don’t look in silence and would like the attention in the reverse.

Just makes me go hmmmmmm????? I wonder why.
 

bazokajoe

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So out doing the dog walk this morning. On a major busy road during what would be rush hour morning traffic.

I get honked at. I don’t get it.

First, I look like a bag of shit. I’m wearing tights with basically a nightgown style shirt, hair in a bun covered by a hat because I haven’t showered yet. I pee then they pee, that is the first thing we do in the morning. So I’m not looking pretty.

Second, it is not like he would turn around if I waved him down. He was clearly headed to work in a work truck.

So I don’t get it. Why? What is the purpose? What are you guys expecting? I’m going to wave you down and blow you in the street while holding a dog on a leash??? LMAO

It is the same with cat-calling. I don’t get the purpose. It is not for us women. We don’t like it for the most part. I would guess that 90%+ of women hate being honked at or catcalled. Personally I think it is for guys more then us.

So what do guys get out of it? Why can’t guys just look and appreciate in silence.

Now to be clear, I’m not trying to start a bashing thread against men. I am truly trying to understand the reasons why and what the expectation is. Also, if guys know that most women don’t like, why purposely subject them to it? Or is it a absent-minded thing where they just don’t think of the women they are bothering?

Opinions, please.....
What makes you think the driver was honking at you and not another driver for something they were/weren't doing? It's not uncommon especially at rush hour.
 

Jasmine Raine

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What makes you think the driver was honking at you and not another driver for something they were/weren't doing? It's not uncommon especially at rush hour.

He turned right from the interaction a bit behind me and was the only car passing at the time. Plus he slowed right down and it is a 70 on that strip of road.

Trust me, we know when it is meant for us. I promise, I’m not trying to just be conceded here. LOL
 

John Henry

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So out doing the dog walk this morning. On a major busy road during what would be rush hour morning traffic.

I get honked at. I don’t get it.

First, I look like a bag of shit. I’m wearing tights with basically a nightgown style shirt, hair in a bun covered by a hat because I haven’t showered yet. I pee then they pee, that is the first thing we do in the morning. So I’m not looking pretty.

Second, it is not like he would turn around if I waved him down. He was clearly headed to work in a work truck.

So I don’t get it. Why? What is the purpose? What are you guys expecting? I’m going to wave you down and blow you in the street while holding a dog on a leash??? LMAO

It is the same with cat-calling. I don’t get the purpose. It is not for us women. We don’t like it for the most part. I would guess that 90%+ of women hate being honked at or catcalled. Personally I think it is for guys more then us.

So what do guys get out of it? Why can’t guys just look and appreciate in silence.

Now to be clear, I’m not trying to start a bashing thread against men. I am truly trying to understand the reasons why and what the expectation is. Also, if guys know that most women don’t like, why purposely subject them to it? Or is it a absent-minded thing where they just don’t think of the women they are bothering?

Opinions, please.....
You would guess that 90 % of woman don't like it . Really . Have you spoken to that many women in taking a survey ? Maybe he was honking at your dog .

I was at the dump the other day . Emptied 3 cans of garbage into the bin . A young lady maybe in her 30's was standing across the lot watching us . She was working there wearing her work cloths , hard hat and safety vest. People pulled up and did there thing and left .

When I left I tooted my horn , waved and gave her a big smile . Guess what I got back ? A really big smile and a nice hello hand wave . Gee maybe she was one of the 10 % who like being said hello to . Funny thing I didn't expect her to run over to me and give me a blow job .

When shopping in a store and I see a lady and our eyes may connect . I'll give the lady a big smile . Guess what I always get back . A nice smile . Gee I wonder why . Because ladies like attention . That's why they get all dolled up before they go out . Colour their hair because they are ashamed of the true colour grey . Put on their war paint , get their nails done and all of that woman stuff . Why do many women wear heels . First of all they are not good for their legs and feet and they hurt wearing them all day . Gee maybe they are looking for a bit of attention .

Why do you ladies do that . Who's attention are you trying to get . Is not your natural skin , hair colour good enough out in public . Who are you getting all dolled up for ?

Why do some men honk their horns ? Because they can . Like who really cares if they do or not . Oh yea . There is one lady who hates it . She perceives a bit of attention from a guy as him wanting sex from her . Give me a break .

Seriously , I think you have a big problem with men . A bit of attention from them and you always think that they want to have sex with you . This isn't the first time that you have perceived a hello from a guy or a nice gesture from him wanting to get in your pants .
 

mellowjello

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I am a guy and I would love to get honked at by girls all day. Also, A few years ago I was in a bar and girl grabbed my ass... I was confused at first but did not really mind. Another gender stereotype view of event that are seeing differently.
Until it's women that you find unattractive.
Never bothered me either until it was unwanted, it really pissed me off.
 

mellowjello

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So out doing the dog walk this morning. On a major busy road during what would be rush hour morning traffic.

I get honked at. I don’t get it.

First, I look like a bag of shit. I’m wearing tights with basically a nightgown style shirt, hair in a bun covered by a hat because I haven’t showered yet. I pee then they pee, that is the first thing we do in the morning. So I’m not looking pretty.

Second, it is not like he would turn around if I waved him down. He was clearly headed to work in a work truck.

So I don’t get it. Why? What is the purpose? What are you guys expecting? I’m going to wave you down and blow you in the street while holding a dog on a leash??? LMAO

It is the same with cat-calling. I don’t get the purpose. It is not for us women. We don’t like it for the most part. I would guess that 90%+ of women hate being honked at or catcalled. Personally I think it is for guys more then us.

So what do guys get out of it? Why can’t guys just look and appreciate in silence.

Now to be clear, I’m not trying to start a bashing thread against men. I am truly trying to understand the reasons why and what the expectation is. Also, if guys know that most women don’t like, why purposely subject them to it? Or is it a absent-minded thing where they just don’t think of the women they are bothering?

Opinions, please.....
I've always thought of these guys as jerk offs.

So some weeks back, I'm driving on a main road, and walking on the sidewalk towards traffic, I see this fat ass black chick,
tight clothes, humungous tits totally on display, and she was owning it, walking with a friend.
Don't I honk. I NEVER do that. It was so impulsive, and at the same time I thought that she would love the attention.

I know that you didn't present yourself the same way but guys can sense when a chick has it going on regardless of dress and makeup.
Sometimes guys just can't help themselves.
 

3wire

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I have a theory on this. If you are raised by strong women (and a gentlemanly man), you don't pull this kind of shit. I was raised largely by a mother, a grandmother, and a sister. If I had ever got caught doing that kind of crap, I'd have gotten a cuff on the ear. Well, maybe not a cuff on the ear, but a blistering lecture on the nature of respect. The old man would have cuffed me for sure. It's like socializing dogs. If they don't experience certain situations and get good training when they are puppies, they can have problems later. If I were in the shrink business, I would run an analysis on the behavior, and correlations to early exposure to women. I know it's not in the same category, but spousal abuse is most often learned in the home. It's pretty well documented that wife beaters beget wife beaters. It does all go back to respect however, and that is a learned thing. Also, in my limited experience, the behavior doesn't accomplish anything. No woman in her right mind is going to respond to some yahoo honking at her. If you are seriously interested, the most effective thing is to make her laugh. Not laugh at you.
 

kherg007

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Dated a very busty lady like yourself...she had to give up jogging because of the catcalls.

I think guys w less impulse control do this. You know....morons.

I agree w the earlier post that if you're raised to respect women you don't do this. But you find a lady attractive...you feel an urge to say something or vocalize your feelings but you also then take her POV and honour it and STFU.

It's like those old movies where the guy and the glad slap each other in the face then they make out. Sorry...that doesn't compute. But in some people's minds it does. And honking and a "hey baby" fits into this same delusion.
 

Ginomore

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Men would love that kind of attention from women so they think that women would also enjoy the same.
Men are idiots sometimes.
 

renaissance

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Its just a way of saying thanks you for being beautiful
I am not a honker
But i do offer up a thank you (to who i do not know as i am not religious) when i see a beautiful women
thank you for adding to the beauty of my day and putting a smile on my face
 

John Henry

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What happened to you was annoying but I have heard/seen much worse (any man who has ever had a mother, sister, GF, daughter, etc. can attest to that). Here are examples that make women feel uncomfortable, even fearful.

1) You're the only passenger on a streetcar. A man gets on and has a choice of 100 empty seats but decides to sit right next to you.

2) You're at the beach. Your closest neighbors are at least 50 yards away. A man in a skimpy transparent swim trunk decides to place his towel 6" away from yours.

3) You're walking alone on a dark street. A man decides to walk 6" behind you.

Why? Some men are simply jerks. Some men never shed their primal instinct to mate with anyone who has a vagina.

A recent survey of women by CP 24 showed a majority do not want go out at night and/or unescorted.
Really , a skimpy transparent swim trunk on a public beach . I don't think so .

Walking 6" behind a woman . I don't think so .

Have seen many women going for walks in my neck of the woods at night by themselves . It made me feel good that they felt safe doing that . Where did CP 24 do the survey to conclude their findings .

So someone honked the horn . Big deal . Does that mean that he wanted a blow job from her like she says ?

Every time a guy gives her a bit of attention she right away thinks about sex . This isn't the first time she has said that . She has a problem with men.

Oh my God . A guy honked his horn . Men are so bad . Why doesn't she bring up the other side in how many women treat men .
 
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