Looking for an SP solely for drinks and possible work events

You do not want an SP.

Get an arrangement with a babe on Seeking. Lots of hot chicks that would love to not have to sleep with the guy and still get $$$.

danmand said:

You do not want an SP.

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Why? I thought escorts were paid for their time.

Young_City said:

I'm in my early 30s and not looking for a relationship. How common is it for men to see an SP for coffee, drinks, or dinner? I'm also not sure where to start, or what to look for, as far as women who are comfortable with this type of arrangement. I also love my colleagues, who often try to introduce me to women they know. I know, it's extremely sweet and kind of them. I just prefer not to go into the reasons why I'm not looking to date at the moment.

Any tips or suggestions would be much appreciated.

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Most of the well reviewed Indy ladies here will happily do this. Some of the agency ladies too. Some even have slightly reduced rates for strictly public/social engagements. Key is find a sharp witty lady who is easy to be with. Just find one you like and explain what you want. They are used to it. They've heard it all.

kherg007 said:

Most of the well reviewed Indy ladies here will happily do this. Some of the agency ladies too. Some even have slightly reduced rates for strictly public/social engagements. Key is find a sharp witty lady who is easy to be with. Just find one you like and explain what you want. They are used to it. They've heard it all.

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This.What Kherg said.
It would be a good idea if you went out 1 on 1 before you go to a work function together to see if you mesh.Just so you don't feel awkward meeting for the first time in front of alot of other people.

How would you introduce the SP to others at
a work function?

What is the point of hiring an SP at a work function?
I though SPs were just for getting your dick wet?

Someone enlighten me.

Young_City said:

Much appreciated. I'll do some research and send out some emails. (I was about to send Charlotte an e-mail, but I'm just shy of her minimum age requirement.)

Thank you.

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Charlotte is exactly the type of lady you would want for this sort of thing very smart well educated socially skilled very classy...I'd email her anyhow - just be honest and see what she says and let her know you're the bloke in the thread cuz you come across as a decent sort of bloke....

Buddy, if you want a SP who doesn’t look too edgy ( no fake boobies and very little tats), who looks like the hot chic @ The office, take a look @ Erika from Hush companions.

Anya from sexy friends Toronto is quite exotic looking and very outgoing. She’s the type who if you showed up with to the Christmas party would no how to work a room and have your bosses bringing her drinks..

I don't think you should have much trouble finding an SP who would be interested in entering this kind of arrangement with you!

Although I totally support sugar relationships, I think there are some less-thought-about benefits to seeking the company of an SP over an SB for the engagements you desire. Mainly: unless giving gifts is one of your primary love languages, I'd suppose an SP's rate may be more economical than maintaining an ongoing sugar relationship where gifts and/or a certain stipend might still be expected whether or not intimacy is desired on your part. Also worth noting, many of us are already well equipped with wardrobe options to appropriately blend in (or if you prefer - tastefully stand out!) at all kinds of functions.

My best suggestion would be to reach out to those who you share common interests with (more likely to also share equal enthusiasm during conversations and outings!), and pay close attention to when they list they are available. For example, if you like to have coffee at 1pm and dinners around 9pm or you can only meet on Sundays, but an SP is in school or is someone's primary caregiver at those times of day and goes out of town every weekend to ride horses, you may both experience frustration trying to get a hold of each other.


In any case, Toronto is a gold mine of providers who are not only gorgeous, but are also educated, well spoken, and genuinely interesting individuals! There is someone amazing for everyone.

Last little insight: not every SP particularly advertises* a social rate, but many are happy to offer* one once invited on a legitimate date

- Addilyn Castle

oil&gas said:

How would you introduce the SP to others at
a work function?

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"Hey colleague, I'd like to introduce you to my friend "Jane". We met at [yoga / book club / my 3d cousin's wedding] and she works in [insert "Jane's" second job here, or area of great interest & knowledge] "
Easy! :encouragement:

AddilynCastle said:

I don't think you should have much trouble finding an SP who would be interested in entering this kind of arrangement with you!

Although I totally support sugar relationships, I think there are some less-thought-about benefits to seeking the company of an SP over an SB for the engagements you desire. Mainly: unless giving gifts is one of your primary love languages, I'd suppose an SP's rate may be more economical than maintaining an ongoing sugar relationship where gifts and/or a certain stipend might still be expected whether or not intimacy is desired on your part. Also worth noting, many of us are already well equipped with wardrobe options to appropriately blend in (or if you prefer - tastefully stand out!) at all kinds of functions.

My best suggestion would be to reach out to those who you share common interests with (more likely to also share equal enthusiasm during conversations and outings!), and pay close attention to when they list they are available. For example, if you like to have coffee at 1pm and dinners around 9pm or you can only meet on Sundays, but an SP is in school or is someone's primary caregiver at those times of day and goes out of town every weekend to ride horses, you may both experience frustration trying to get a hold of each other.


In any case, Toronto is a gold mine of providers who are not only gorgeous, but are also educated, well spoken, and genuinely interesting individuals! There is someone amazing for everyone.

Last little insight: not every SP particularly advertises* a social rate, but many are happy to offer* one once invited on a legitimate date

- Addilyn Castle




"Hey colleague, I'd like to introduce you to my friend "Jane". We met at [yoga / book club / my 3d cousin's wedding] and she works in [insert "Jane's" second job here, or area of great interest & knowledge] "
Easy! :encouragement:

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There ya go young_city another great option! Clearly bright, lovely, and grounded. (Heard really good things about addilyn too). See? There is no shortage of smart interesting ladies in the GTA. For my money the best in the world. The cold must keep all you ladies super fresh!

So I am in a similar situation, <35 and not interested in relationships for my own reasons.

I have had a SB before , finding the right person was very time consuming and I have gotten scammed. The girl I was with multiple times tried to cross boundaries and I eventually ended things (she still tries to reach out ...) To me I regretted the SB thing but that could be because I couldn’t find the right person.


I have done multiple social dates with escorts. I mainly use Cupid’s since I have had good experience with them but there are lots of independents and other agency girls that will do social dates for sure.

You have to make sure you get along with the person. For social dates to work there has to be some connection I find. My recommendation is to find girls your interested in who do social dates and see a few for shorter sessions privately untill you feel a connection with one to take out. My usual thing to do is a 3hr drinks /dinner then private time at my place.

many indy and agency escorts have a "social date" rate,

it might still be expensive if you are hiring for multiple hour events, but do your research

Tessa Virtue is looking for a date to take her to Scott Moir's wedding. Just saying.

I could understand doing this if you are already a regular with an SP, have a good rapport with her, and think it might be nice to take her to a social function.

But I can’t see paying an SP that you have never met to go out on a blind date to a social function unless your sole purpose is to walk around with some eye candy on your arm and show all your friends and co-workers what a stud you are.

Knuckle Ball said:

I could understand doing this if you are already a regular with an SP, have a good rapport with her, and think it might be nice to take her to a social function.

But I can’t see paying an SP that you have never met to go out on a blind date to a social function unless your sole purpose is to walk around with some eye candy on your arm and show all your friends and co-workers what a stud you are.

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Consider the risks.