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22 percent of millennials say they have ‘no friends,' according to study

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https://www.ktvu.com/amp/news/the-l...s-say-they-have-no-friends-according-to-study

"Additionally, 25 percent of millennials in the poll say they have no acquaintances, 27 percent say they have no close friends and 30 percent say they have no best friends. 22 percent of the millennials surveyed report that they have zero friends."

Detachment, mental illness, loneliness, involuntary celibacy. Could these thing be contributing to mass shootings and other deviant behaviour? Or maybe it's just "those damned Americans and their guns" liberal explanation?
 

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Cazzelino you were doing good until the last sentence. You really should consider changing your handle to Rocco Siffredi.
 

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https://www.ktvu.com/amp/news/the-l...s-say-they-have-no-friends-according-to-study

"Additionally, 25 percent of millennials in the poll say they have no acquaintances, 27 percent say they have no close friends and 30 percent say they have no best friends. 22 percent of the millennials surveyed report that they have zero friends."

Detachment, mental illness, loneliness, involuntary celibacy. Could these thing stand be contributing to mass shootings and other deviant behaviour? Or maybe it's just those damned Americans and their guns liberal explanation?
I thought you were going to tell us.lol.
 

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https://www.ktvu.com/amp/news/the-l...s-say-they-have-no-friends-according-to-study

"Additionally, 25 percent of millennials in the poll say they have no acquaintances, 27 percent say they have no close friends and 30 percent say they have no best friends. 22 percent of the millennials surveyed report that they have zero friends."
Kids are stuck in front of screens (TV, computer, game consoles) by themselves instead going out and playing with other kids. Interpersonal skills do not develop and people become isolated as adults. Learning how to get along with others and problem resolution skills suffer, leading to more intractable positions and disputes of a more extreme nature.
 

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Cazzelino you were doing good until the last sentence. You really should consider changing your handle to Rocco Siffredi.
I should have included liberal explanation, "orange man racist, America bad".

Let's be honest, liberals have become simpletons.
 

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That's sad. Isolation does terrible things to most human beings. We are programmed to be social creatures.

Kids are stuck in front of screens (TV, computer, game consoles) by themselves instead going out and playing with other kids.
Computers and game consoles can be social activities. Hell, I'd argue multiplayer gaming is as healthy, from a social perspective, as other types of activities. Not physically healthy, of course, unless done in moderation and in conjunction with other, physically-demanding activities.

Social media, on the other hand, seems to be a destructive force that feeds on our worst social tendencies. Certain social media are like a popularity contest on a global scale. Those at the top of the ladder become delusional and conceited. Those further down have feelings of inadequacy and desperation.

Others are ideological echo chamber "safe spaces" where you can voice whatever opinion you want, heinous or otherwise, and have others support you for it and feed your narrow-minded thinking. The problem isn't so much social media as it is a problem with how we teach our kids. We don't tell our kids how to think, we teach them what to think. In this way they are somewhat defenseless to propaganda. When you can't understand other perspectives, you'll never grow your own. At the same time, when you can't see other's motives, you can't properly gauge their intentions.

When you can't recognize your own cognitive biases, you can't overcome them. Instead, you tend to reinforce them through the bandwagon effect (particularly striking on social media), confirmation bias, and many other cognitive deficiencies. And social media rewards this kind of ignorance.
 

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Best way to overcome this is through hobbies and sports. Its a great way to meet people of a similar mindset in a particular area.

What you say above is true except your last part. I hate being fake with people or having fake people in my life even if family. video games or computers are not the issue. We are more aware now, are brains and eyes are more open and we have a greater choice to pick with who we want to spend our time with. I’d rather be alone then spend time with fake people and I think others probably feel the same. Its unfortunate that some people don’t know what to do when they become free to choose their friends and give back to the friend collective vs. just using and taking advantage of people for own personal benefit.
 

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IMO, a very poor substitute.
Nonetheless, a high-tech future is where we're headed. We need to focus on finding healthy ways to incorporate it into our lives, rather than outright resist it.
 

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It's funny, but I will bet that these same kids have 500 "friends" on facebook. Like some sort of bragging right.

No-one has 500 hundred friends.

If you have 5 honest to goodness friends in life, you're doing pretty good.
 

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They just need to buy more 'likes' and 'followers' on Instagram.
 

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The focus on self esteem over accomplishment has made many of them narcissists. (Not all, know a number of fantastic people who are millennials). That hasn't helped.
 

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I'm surprised it is not higher.

It seems like despite the easy access to technology that allows people to connect to anyone (we all have computers, smartphones, facebook twitter etc.) Yet ironically people are more lonelier and disconnected then ever.

This is why I have always had problems with social media. It provides this false sense of social connection. It's nice to send someone posts, or like their picture, but it is just not the same thing as talking to a real live person.

There is actually this book called The General Theory of Love by Thomas Lewis he talks about this thing called limbic resonance that happens when two people are close to each other and interacting. The limbic system is the emotional part of our brain and when two people are interacting closely this system activates in our brains and it creates closeness and bonding and connection which in tern makes us feel good. In order for this reaction to happen you have to be in person or at least hear their voice in a live connection so it works even over the phone or skype because you know you are talking to a real person and not some bot. There is something still "living" about hearing a person's voice rather then just text on a screen.

You just don't get that with social media. You think you are connected, but you're really not.

I seriously blame social media for this epidemic of lonliness. In the "old days" before facebook people had to go outside and interact with people nowadays it seems like people don't feel like they have to because they already talked to their friend on facebook.


People are so obessed with the rat race, gaining status, getting a bigger house, getting a bigger stock portfolio bigger this bigger that, that they focus more on accomplishments and getting "things" as oppose to people and relationships. Despite the failing housing and job markets, people are still more materialistic then ever. Life is just one big monopoly game really, get as much stuff as you can because once it's over it all goes back in the box. Honestly this is what western culture is teaching us.

Honestly? I don't really have any friends or at least anyone I would call a friend, and I am very lonely as a result. So I am part of the problem.

and to the people who blame video games lol these are the same people binge watching net flix for several hours a day, at least video games can be social.
 

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I was listening to the CBC a while back. Apparently there is a suicide epidemic among the types that are "self sufficient, loner, old white guy, long gun owners that live in rural areas." They apparently have trouble handling their wives leaving them or losing their jobs, etc.
 

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They are so spoiled and self entitled they can't even stand each other
 

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Some See Millennials as Lazy and Entitled. Yet They May be the Most Successful Generation of Our Time

Millennials are often stereotyped as lazy, entitled, and narcissistic. Put these puzzle pieces together and you'll see a very different picture.

By Marla Tabaka@MarlaTabaka

A recent discussion with a successful entrepreneur of the Baby Boomer generation led me to write this article. Like many Boomers, this man worked hard, sacrificed, and paid his dues for many years (his words, not mine). Based on his life experiences he believes that success means you must relentlessly sacrifice. Also, that Millennials aren't willing to sacrifice enough, therefore they don't deserve success. (Again, his words, not mine.)

I find that Millennials are often stereotyped by Boomers and Gen-Xers as lazy, entitled, and unwilling to conform. They seem to cite the same tired examples of a generation who only comes to work if and when they feel like it. And, that they have no idea of how to communicate because they are glued to a device.

Is any of this true? Sure, but it only applies to some, not the vast majority of individuals born of this generation. And, let's face it, every young generation has demonstrated behavior that challenges the values and beliefs of their elders.

As Baby Boomers entered their teen years, boys grew their hair to previously unheard-of lengths. Some dodged the draft when their fathers had loyally served to protect their country. Couples lived together before walking down the aisle. Never mind the evolution of rock 'n roll and the public protests against the government. According to the late social scientist, Lewis Yablonsky, approximately 400,000 young people participated in the counterculture in 1968. As for holding down a steady job, Gen-X and those born during the baby boom were job-hopping long before Millennials made it the popular thing to do. A 2015 study from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics shows that the average American born between 1957 and 1964, the latter years of the baby boom, held nearly a dozen (11.7) jobs between the ages of 18 and 48. Today, since employers no longer offer hefty pensions and other golden opportunities, job hopping is simply inevitable. Yes, the world has changed.

It's admirable that some of our more experienced entrepreneurs and executives worked so hard for what they have today. Yes, success is hard work, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy it. Millennials have mastered the art of doing what they love and making money at it. Perhaps this fact makes it seem as though they aren't working hard and making the same sacrifices that previous generations have made.

Another often discussed issue is the lack of a dedicated workforce for lower level jobs. One thing to consider is that Millennials don't need these jobs as much as we did. Yes, it's partially because some parents are supporting their children into later years than our parents did. It's also never been easier to work from home, earn a good living, and make the time to smell the roses too.

The fact that 51 percent of Millennials own or intend to own a business states loud and clear that people of this generation want to make their own rules. They have already launched twice as many businesses than boomers ever have. And get this: they see a much larger gross profit margin than boomer entrepreneurs. If you believe they don't know how to communicate, know that these young managers are successfully leading larger teams: staffs of about 122 people, compared to boomers' 30. Yes, they are bullish and driven--but they go about earning success in a different way.

In my experience of working with entrepreneurs for over 15 years, I can say that this generation of young entrepreneurs is incredibly creative and innovative. Yes, they are breaking rules and patterns--like the one that says you will be in business for at least three years before making a decent profit. I've worked with 20 and 30-somethings who have not only turned a generous profit within six months but have hit the seven-figure-mark in under a year. Trends are changing. Boomers waited until their 40's and 50's to achieve success, Gen-X trended in the 30's and 40's. Millennials aren't having any of that--they are hitting the same benchmarks in their 20's and 30's.

Gross generalizations aside, many Millennials work very hard. They do make sacrifices, but they do it on their own terms. As employees, the problem with Millennials may not be in their attitude, but in how they are managed.

How do you inspire your employees? Is your culture an inclusive one? Do you invest in your employees with education and training so they may thrive and grow? What do you do to support their values and beliefs?

As you consider the differences in the generations, remember, we don't have to follow in someone else's footsteps. Millennials are blazing their own, sometimes unconventional, paths to success.

https://www.inc.com/marla-tabaka/some-see-millennials-as-lazy-entitled-yet-they-may-be-most-successful-generation-of-our-time.html
 

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Has the meaning of friendship significantly changed between to-day's society and the days of the hippies?
 
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