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Tashki

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Ever since I have been watching porn as a teenager, I've always became a big fan of women with breast implants, who got their nails done long and prop themselves up with heavy make-up, wear high heels and wear sexy outfits. As time went on, aesthetics developed over the years and pornstars started getting lip fillers, botox and a Brazilian butt lift which generally made me cater to liking women who get their work done their body.

A few years ago, I went to strip club right outside of Toronto for the first time in a couple of years, nearly every single stripper there had their boobs done, nails done long and a few had their butt done. I felt like I was a kid at a candy store; Nearly every single stripper was exactly my type. I never liked the concept of getting lap dances from a stripper whom you're sexually attracted to and then going home with blue balls but I only went that one night so I know what it feels like to be with a chick whose body is built like a pornstar. I spent about 80 bucks on dances and getting to feel up on fake tits and kissing them.

There was one stripper I liked the most. I didn't want to just be her customer only spending money on her dances she was too sexy for that. I wanted more from her so I thought it was a good idea if I went on Google to search up tips on how to get out of the customer-zone, get a stripper's phone number and possibly go out on a date with them. Little did I know, the customer/stripper dynamics in Canada and be turned up a lot more notches compared to the stripper/customer dynamics in the states from what I understand. Which gave me a reason to stay as a customer with few of my favourite strippers.

What sucks about seeing most strippers especially at the strip clubs right outside of Toronto is that most of them are totally against kissing customers, not even a smooch on the lips. I'm a huge sucker for strippers that look like pornstars that sometimes I don't just want to be "physical" with my regulars. I would love if I could get a bit of some intimacy action from them and no matter how many years you've been seeing them, they still won't give you that even if you paid them. For that reason, sometimes I wish what it could be like if I was their boyfriend so I could experience full intimacy with them.
 

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Bro, welcome to the club.
Everything you're talking about is covered in the Strip Club section. You just have go back further in time.
 

bazokajoe

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Hate to disappoint the OP, but strippers are professional hustlers. It's all about getting your money and moving on to the next wallet,I mean customer. Getting their # is easy. But if you don't come to the club to spend money on them......forget it. They won't give you the time of day.
Guys will tell you that they see dancers outside the club all the time. I call BS on that. Only way a dancer would do that is for money.Either the guy is paying her inside the club or for her time outside the club(free meals,gifts,outcalls to a hotel).She isn't going to waste her time with no $$ being exchanged.
It's a business for them.Don't get sucked into their hustle.
 

Jasmine Raine

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You want to be their BF? See them of the clock? Get sexual services beyond dances?

Am I reading this right???

What world are you living in? They are dancers. They don't want you as a BF. They don't want to date you and if they wanted to offer sexual services for money, they would.

You would have a better chance of learning how to accept that they don't want you like that then you will trying to figure out how to change their mind.

Change your own mind. It is easier.
 

G.D. Gentleman

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You want to be their BF? See them of the clock? Get sexual services beyond dances?

Am I reading this right???

What world are you living in? They are dancers. They don't want you as a BF. They don't want to date you and if they wanted to offer sexual services for money, they would.

You would have a better chance of learning how to accept that they don't want you like that then you will trying to figure out how to change their mind.

Change your own mind. It is easier.
I think what he meant in his own words was looking for more of a GFE experience with the ladies he has met in the strip club that are to his particular body type/look preference.
 

G.D. Gentleman

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Ever since I have been watching porn as a teenager, I've always became a big fan of women with breast implants, who got their nails done long and prop themselves up with heavy make-up, wear high heels and wear sexy outfits. As time went on, aesthetics developed over the years and pornstars started getting lip fillers, botox and a Brazilian butt lift which generally made me cater to liking women who get their work done their body.

A few years ago, I went to strip club right outside of Toronto for the first time in a couple of years, nearly every single stripper there had their boobs done, nails done long and a few had their butt done. I felt like I was a kid at a candy store; Nearly every single stripper was exactly my type. I never liked the concept of getting lap dances from a stripper whom you're sexually attracted to and then going home with blue balls but I only went that one night so I know what it feels like to be with a chick whose body is built like a pornstar. I spent about 80 bucks on dances and getting to feel up on fake tits and kissing them.

There was one stripper I liked the most. I didn't want to just be her customer only spending money on her dances she was too sexy for that. I wanted more from her so I thought it was a good idea if I went on Google to search up tips on how to get out of the customer-zone, get a stripper's phone number and possibly go out on a date with them. Little did I know, the customer/stripper dynamics in Canada and be turned up a lot more notches compared to the stripper/customer dynamics in the states from what I understand. Which gave me a reason to stay as a customer with few of my favourite strippers.

What sucks about seeing most strippers especially at the strip clubs right outside of Toronto is that most of them are totally against kissing customers, not even a smooch on the lips. I'm a huge sucker for strippers that look like pornstars that sometimes I don't just want to be "physical" with my regulars. I would love if I could get a bit of some intimacy action from them and no matter how many years you've been seeing them, they still won't give you that even if you paid them. For that reason, sometimes I wish what it could be like if I was their boyfriend so I could experience full intimacy with them.
First, I and many others understand your experience. We all appreciate the strip club experience of meeting the ladies first, even getting to talk to them and such - before spending time with them - then in some of the clubs (guessing outside of Toronto you mean the famous clubs in Mississauga) you can for a price enjoy lots of 'fun' in the VIP but no damn kissing.

Just to understand - if a lady is seen kissing a client by another dancer - there is hell to pay (possible physical harm can occur as well) as it's the stripper code. Dances or Extras, no kissing.

For what you are seeking the best solution would be, and you're in the right place to do your research - is escorts that have the 'porn star, done up stripper' look and vibe. Here are a couple quick examples that came to mind:

Mirage - Love - http://mirage-entertainment.cc/escort/love/ - Been described in reviews as a tall stripper build and lots of fun. -Decent to good reviews that you can find here but not seen myself.
TDL - Alice - http://www.topdrawerladies.com/alice24/ - Like them petite? Mixed reviews but may be worth a try.

and why I thought of replying to your thread when I saw your post - here is a lady I saw couple weeks ago and thought to myself she has such a stripper vibe to her, like I would see in the club, and I just saw her as an escort.

HPL - Sienna - https://hotpinklist.com/model/sienna/ - Known for her amazing enhanced breasts and overall good looks.
Review: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?668377-Sienna-hpl&highlight=sienna

$200 for 45 minutes of full on GFE with Sienna will quickly change your perspective of your experiences in the club's VIP....I suspect.

Hopefully you see with a bit of research and testing the waters, just like you did with the strip clubs, you will find escorts who fit your preference and enjoy GFE sessions with them.


As for becoming their friends and/or boyfriend - if that is what you really want based on your post and not just the 'GFE' experience when you see them - then as Jessica said, you really need to check your expectations and understand you're just a client to the 'work' these ladies have chosen.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I think what he meant in his own words was looking for more of a GFE experience with the ladies he has met in the strip club that are to his particular body type/look preference.
So why not see an escort? I don't get trying something with a stripper that is meant to be for an escort?

And his last lines says he wishes he was their BF, simply for the sex but BF none the less. So I don't think we can count out him unrealistically looking for something that will simply never be there.

I'm not trying to be a bitch here. I think a 25M house on the lake would be awesome too but I know my reality is simply not there.
 

VIPhunter

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So why not see an escort? I don't get trying something with a stripper that is meant to be for an escort?

And his last lines says he wishes he was their BF, so I don't think we can count out him unrealistically looking for something that will simply never be there.
Because it's easy, fun, and does not require the jumping through hoops (didn't we Talk about this regarding Amber Alerts?) that some escorts require to book...Aint nobody got time for THAT!

Look, run your business as you like, more power to you....My business allows me an extended lunch. Sometimes I like the parade of naked ladies as distraction, sometimes I like a dance, and sometimes I like a HJ or BJ.

Why, respectfully, would this bother anybody in the Sex Work business?
 

VIPhunter

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And I've had a few dancers who seemed to want to make-out. A couple have taken me by surprise with their aggressive kissing.

Not really what I had in mind.
 

J.A. Prufrock

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Not sure how it is in Canada, but in the U.S., if you want a stripper as a girlfriend, you need to be a useless, unemployed, video-game playing, drug-using low life who will treat her like shit and whore her out. Because that’s the kind of scum those women are attracted to, for some inexplicable reason.
I’m being serious.
If you’re a normal guy (you can read and write), don’t entertain the notion of having a stripper as a girlfriend. Keep it professional and detached emotionally. She’s providing a service and you’re providing her income.
For GFE and kissing, see escorts instead. In fact, I’d recommend escorts and MPs over strippers anyway, at least in Canada. It’s different in the U.S. due to the laws (the escort and MP scene isn’t anywhere close to what it is in Canada).
 

dvdies

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You should try some of the Asian massage parlors, some of the women are actually really nice.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Because it's easy, fun, and does not require the jumping through hoops (didn't we Talk about this regarding Amber Alerts?) that some escorts require to book...Aint nobody got time for THAT!

Look, run your business as you like, more power to you....My business allows me an extended lunch. Sometimes I like the parade of naked ladies as distraction, sometimes I like a dance, and sometimes I like a HJ or BJ.

Why, respectfully, would this bother anybody in the Sex Work business?
I have heard from dancers that they strip for a reason and it is not to provide sexual services. It seems many in the industry get upset when clients try to push boundaries in strip clubs. Well with anyone but I always thought that stripper dance, MA - give hand release and escorts give FS.

So I don't get wanting and wasting time and money looking for services that dancers just don't provide.

And again, he is talking about being their BF. That is not even pay for play.
 

MojoRisin'

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Not sure where this no kissing is "dancer code" It happens a lot. Maybe dancers that don't, don't like it but it's out there and available for sure.
 

MojoRisin'

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Also a SC has its experience different than an sp or mp. Sometimes "escort action" happens but not why I go
 

Jasmine Raine

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Also a SC has its experience different than an sp or mp. Sometimes "escort action" happens but not why I go
This is exactly what I mean! You go, you have fun, if it happens then great but this guy seems to be prurposely looking for an escort experience at strip club. Or more, looking at how to become their BF. That is what is not making sense to me.
 

MojoRisin'

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This is exactly what I mean! You go, you have fun, if it happens then great but this guy seems to be prurposely looking for an escort experience at strip club. Or more, looking at how to become their BF. That is what is not making sense to me.
I agree, his pov is a bit strange and creepy
 

VIPhunter

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I do not have the time, energy or inclination to be a Stripper's BF.

BUT the VIP reminds me of high school dates, parked somewhere with some hot young lady. The anticipation and teasing is all part of the fun for some of us. Things are never forced.

I have made a personal decision not to engage in FS with other women (I know I am deluding myself and what I'm doing is wrong ), and I see a HJ or BJ that just kinda happens as a bit of harmless fun and nobody get hurt. I never ask for these extras....I keep paying for dances as long as they are interesting.

SC allow me to 'be bad' a little.

(I see my fondness for strippers and Scs as a serious character flaw and weakness. But it's probably better than an affair)
 

curr3n_c1000

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Ever since I have been watching porn as a teenager, I've always became a big fan of women with breast implants, who got their nails done long and prop themselves up with heavy make-up, wear high heels and wear sexy outfits. As time went on, aesthetics developed over the years and pornstars started getting lip fillers, botox and a Brazilian butt lift which generally made me cater to liking women who get their work done their body.

A few years ago, I went to strip club right outside of Toronto for the first time in a couple of years, nearly every single stripper there had their boobs done, nails done long and a few had their butt done. I felt like I was a kid at a candy store; Nearly every single stripper was exactly my type. I never liked the concept of getting lap dances from a stripper whom you're sexually attracted to and then going home with blue balls but I only went that one night so I know what it feels like to be with a chick whose body is built like a pornstar. I spent about 80 bucks on dances and getting to feel up on fake tits and kissing them.

There was one stripper I liked the most. I didn't want to just be her customer only spending money on her dances she was too sexy for that. I wanted more from her so I thought it was a good idea if I went on Google to search up tips on how to get out of the customer-zone, get a stripper's phone number and possibly go out on a date with them. Little did I know, the customer/stripper dynamics in Canada and be turned up a lot more notches compared to the stripper/customer dynamics in the states from what I understand. Which gave me a reason to stay as a customer with few of my favourite strippers.

What sucks about seeing most strippers especially at the strip clubs right outside of Toronto is that most of them are totally against kissing customers, not even a smooch on the lips. I'm a huge sucker for strippers that look like pornstars that sometimes I don't just want to be "physical" with my regulars. I would love if I could get a bit of some intimacy action from them and no matter how many years you've been seeing them, they still won't give you that even if you paid them. For that reason, sometimes I wish what it could be like if I was their boyfriend so I could experience full intimacy with them.
Congratulations on finally making it to Fantasy World. Let me show you around.
 
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