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MrGIN

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I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
 

oil&gas

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I use my cell phone but not my residential phone.
Since no one has access to my cell I have little to worry.
 

Knuckle Ball

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Get yourself a burner phone to hobby with.

Keep your regular phone and continue to use it for your own personal life. If you haven’t had any problem with it as yet then you are probably fine.

Always remember this song by Kevin Gates:

 

oil&gas

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Apr 16, 2002
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Ghawar
Every endeavour in life carries risk. What matters
is how you manage the risk. For me the risk with
using my mobile phone to book appointment with
a MP or to contact my regular MPA is acceptable.
If you are not attached to someone who may
demand you to share your personal phone
the risk of using it for hobbying is manageable.
 

G.D. Gentleman

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Jun 24, 2019
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I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
Now is as good a time to start a new second hobby only phone number as any. I shared much of your concern a few years ago and finally setup a simple VOIP App on my phone at the time - text and phone calls supported, even photo transfers (grin) - and sure, at the time I had to be 'screened' as a first time client for a couple of the agencies I visited - but being respectful as you have shared you are, won't be an issue.

The beauty of the dedicated Texting/VOIP number is if you ever need/want to change your personal number, you can and yet keep your hobby number. It can be the number you give to strippers, escorts you communicate directly with (Indy bookings or other) and keeps everything in a safe place, all for a few bucks a month (or free), no second phone to carry - works really well.

And...if you ever need to in a pinch (i.e. girlfriend is getting nosy), just delete the APP for the time being and *poof* all your history and evidence (haha) is gone. You can always install the app later and sign in - hell there are gents who do this regularly (install/uninstall/install) as they only hobby time to time and the app/login is always there for them.

So much better than having to explain a 'burner' phone if ever found, or as one of my idiot long time buddies did, put the sim on the 'family plan' with his wife not knowing when she paid the bill she could see the history/use of the phone...that didn't end well.


Good on you to be paranoid. First time you have a disagreement with a SP (it will happen if you do this long enough) and she starts blowing up your phone/threatening to out you or such - you will be damn thankful you took the time to setup a burner phone/app.
 

mark_m

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Jun 18, 2019
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I use my personal phone, but I also don't have a SO that is nosy.

If a SP were to call/text me during inappropriate time I would probably just block the number. This has not been an issue though.
 

rhuarc29

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Apr 15, 2009
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I used to use my personal phone as well. Eventually I started using an app that gave me a separate number, but that was too much of a hassle and the connection wasn't great. So I picked up a burner phone a year or so ago.
My main concern wasn't agencies, but indies. There was one woman I went to see that I actually backed out of (the place was a dump, she looked rough, and I wanted to be out of there as soon as possible). Afterwards, I hated the fact that she had my personal number, even though I didn't go through with anything.

I'd suggest getting a burner phone. I wouldn't worry overly much about what you've already done. Most likely nothing will come of it. But always best to do better in the future to keep yourself safe.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Jul 28, 2014
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Butler had a great excuse for having a burner phone.

Put it in your car with an emergency car kit. Blanket, first aid kit, roadside stuff. Even cash. If found, you can just say it is for emergency situations. You can go as far as putting one in the SOs car as well.
 

autumn96

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Jun 13, 2017
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No you didn't fuck up all that badly. For my first two years of hobbying I used my personal phone number, which was way riskier in my case because I was booking a lot of Backpage women.

It is highly unlikely that a reputable agency or lady would publicize your phone number for some slight that you are not aware of. Even in cases where it has happened (which are rare), it's usually been because a guy no-showed or behaved in a massively inappropriate and abusive way.

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of men who hobby with their personal phones. You'll be fine.

Get a burner phone like I did and use it going forward if it will help you sleep better at night.
 

richaceg

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Feb 11, 2009
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Nothing to worry about unless you have a crazy SO...just don't be lazy not to delete history...there ain't going to be a concern from the providers end, agency or not...
 

J.A. Prufrock

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Feb 27, 2018
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I don’t have a SO but my lone cell phone is company issued (I’m allowed unlimited personal use) and don’t want to risk the chance that some accounting geek will pore over the numbers called (or even recognize one, LOL!) if I use it to call an agency. Thus far I’ve used it to book a few massage appointments but I plan on getting a burner before my first escort agency experience. For me, it’s worth the extra expense for peace of mind.
 

lomotil

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Mar 14, 2004
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I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
Use a burner phone from playing. Google your personal number and see what comes up on you?
 

rhuarc29

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Apr 15, 2009
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I don’t have a SO but my lone cell phone is company issued (I’m allowed unlimited personal use) and don’t want to risk the chance that some accounting geek will pore over the numbers called (or even recognize one, LOL!) if I use it to call an agency. Thus far I’ve used it to book a few massage appointments but I plan on getting a burner before my first escort agency experience. For me, it’s worth the extra expense for peace of mind.
Eesh, yeah, don't use a company phone, unless you want all your coworkers to know.
I was working in the office when my boss was going over the various phone calls people issued company cell phones had made. He did it for the sole reason of determining who was making non-work related long-distance calls. And while he didn't Google any of the numbers, it was just a small step away.
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Read this thread and don't give any personal info:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?681017-SPs-posting-numbers-on-the-internet


I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
 

voldomort

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Jun 28, 2009
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I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
I wouldn't worry about the agencies. Might be a bit risky with independents whho aren't known quantities. Blackmail is still very much alive in our society.
 

MrGIN

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Aug 14, 2012
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Thank you everyone who responded. I feel so much better and instantly relieved with how I have been handling myself. As some messages suggest, just don't be an asshole and keep things comfortable for all parties and there won't be an issue with my number getting out. Many people hobby, I'm not special so just continue to be respectful and post those reviews!
 

richaceg

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Feb 11, 2009
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I don’t have a SO but my lone cell phone is company issued (I’m allowed unlimited personal use) and don’t want to risk the chance that some accounting geek will pore over the numbers called (or even recognize one, LOL!) if I use it to call an agency. Thus far I’ve used it to book a few massage appointments but I plan on getting a burner before my first escort agency experience. For me, it’s worth the extra expense for peace of mind.
My phone is also company issued...like I said, keep it lowkey...and mellow down on porn...so what if you use if for other stuff when you're out of the office...Unless it was disclosed that you only use it during work time...mine is issued which I can also use for personal stuff....Just don't use the data on your plan to browse porn or use it on escort review boards...
 

J.A. Prufrock

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Feb 27, 2018
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My phone is also company issued...like I said, keep it lowkey...and mellow down on porn...so what if you use if for other stuff when you're out of the office...Unless it was disclosed that you only use it during work time...mine is issued which I can also use for personal stuff....Just don't use the data on your plan to browse porn or use it on escort review boards...
Fuck, I've been browsing porn and accessing sites like this with my company-issued phone for years. They can't determine what sites you access from the bill, can they? They don't have access to the phone itself. Nobody has ever said anything to me during all this time.
 

jcpro

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Jan 31, 2014
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I am a younger hobbyist and as you can see from post history, haven't been doing this for very long or seen many SPs however I definitely want to increase my reviews and see more wonderful ladies. I think I fucked up though, because in my ignorance, I have been using my personal phone and number. Should I be worried and what could this do to me? At this point should I just keep using it, considering I have only booked with agencies and they already have it?

Any advice would be great and to help me sleep at night knowing I will be fine. I feel as if I have always been respectful to the ladies and agencies, but for whatever reason if I missed a sign, they would've reached out to me to remedy, right? I'm just getting paranoid about my number, even though I haven't received any negative feedback as a hobbyist.

I am actually looking to book for this Friday night or Saturday morning and realized I need to make sure everything is safe and secure before doing so.

Thank you.
MrGIN
Re. missing signs, etc. and the unpredictable consequences. Never give away your TERB handle to the SPs. Never review on the same day- a) you have to cool down and b) protect your anonymity. Write the reviews in a way that cannot identify you and attract wrath in the case when something does go wrong. And never forget what you have decided to step into- a community that has a few great people and a majority of human debris. Thread lightly and carefully.
 
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