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wazup

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Came across this and found it interesting from the other side of things. Sure she would probably react differently if the guy was handsome and her age but it's not the point really. Or for the few women on here, do you get unwanted compliments from gross dudes, and do you react differently if he's handsome? Nobody really wants a compliment from someone they think is ugly, do they?

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I try to be complimentary but usually not to complete strangers. I don't recall any negative reaction but of course I have no idea what is in their head.

A shame in today's world everyone has to be skeptical of all sort of actions, no matter how well intended.
 

wazup

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I worked in a camp a few years ago, there was a female engineer late 20s. Guys around 50 used to tell her to smile more, she fucking hated it. Camp environments aren't fun to begin with. She didn't last long. I don't think I've ever complimented a random woman, ever.

Figure we all have our space.
 

jdeck

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Genuine compliments never get old. All people like to be complimented for pleasant parts of their personalities, things that they do well or choices they've made (like their car, style, etc.). Only when you enter into intimate territory might it become an issue. I freely compliment people and always get positive feedback and have made tons of friends from such a beginning. I have even said to a beautiful woman passing by that she looks great and have had huge smiles back and waves. It's genuine appreciation and delivered with a smile. The key is know the difference between being genuine and being creepy.
 

bazokajoe

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I guess it depends on what the compliment is about and what kind of day they are having.
Wonder how she will feel when the compliments stop coming.
Personally I never compliment women I have never meet.
 

JackBurton

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In this day and age? Absolutely not.

Other than “good job”, I don’t need the headaches of some woman misinterpreting anything like “you look nice today” . Not in any professional setting. Things got so bad at my work with accusations against a couple of men I worked with by female employees looking for a payout that none of the guys I know will even be in the same room with a woman alone.

This’d were great, professional men with high standards who’s reputations were ruined and let go. Turned out the accusations were baseless but they still lost their jobs.

This is the world we live in.
 

superstar_88

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I worked in a camp a few years ago, there was a female engineer late 20s. Guys around 50 used to tell her to smile more, she fucking hated it. Camp environments aren't fun to begin with. She didn't last long. I don't think I've ever complimented a random woman, ever.

Figure we all have our space.
She probably couldn't take it anymore being around annoying 50 year old guys telling her to smile more when she's just probably just grossed out.
 

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A quick 1 -1.5 second glance is what I do, no verbal compliments at all especially in this day and age.

Pretty soon quick glances will be considered sexual harassment.
 

explorerzip

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IMO, the key to giving compliments in addition to being genuine is to be specific. "Good", "great", etc are basically pointless and takes no effort at all.
 

kherg007

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Not if I want to keep my job. Friends and family only. And SP's cuz they're awesome.
 

Euro Male

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concrete jungle of toronto . . .
Toronto women have to 2 distinct vibes . . . . .

Fun, friendly, flirty . . . . .

example 1# . . . . . . last summer I was totally just casually walking along the east-end around the Gerrard Square Mall area. Some random Buxom Blonde out of nowwhere, we start chatting it up. Bubbly vibe, problably totally stoned, we're goofing around, talking, laughing. Next thing you know she starts popping off about her boyfriend. How he thinks she should lose weight! I'm like, WTF????? promise me you're gonna dump the loser! I'm like, you're shapely, womanly, sexy as hell! I must've been telling her this with a twinkle in my eye looking down at her big bodacious rack! What happens next? Swear to god, second laters, shes yanking down on her lil pink top thingie and flashes me her massive milky white cans! It was awesome!!!!

example 2# . . . . . . similar experience 2-3 summers ago. Again, casually just doing my thing, just hoofing it along on foot around the Dupont and Landsdowne area of all places. On the opposite side of the street, 3 women, girlfriends lying back on lawn-chairs, problably crushing cans, popping bottles. They were saying something to me, traffic wizzing by, I couldn't make out what they were saying. Next thing I know, BOOM. all 3 of them are flashing me their boobies! They were all giggling, laughing, totally shit disturbing, drunk out of their fuckin minds and it wasn't even noon yet! Hahaha

180' the other direction . . . . . cold, mechanical, cyborg-android's

Sure some of these women are deeeeeelusional . . . . . . they walk around distant, detached, disconnected.

Completely devoid of a sense of being human . . . . . soulless . . . . . . spiritually hollow

Why am I tossing this out there? . . . . . . guys, grow a fuckin nutsack!

Compliments are awesome, we ALL love them!

Ignore the Debbie-Downers!

Gobs of gorgeous, fun, friendly women out there who love getting juice'd up while 'others' are sooooooooo jelly! :biggrin:
 

Smallcock

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Yes...

It was around 2am in the morning and I found myself at that seedy 24/7 McDonald's restaurant at Yonge & Gerrard. At those hours, the place is packed with strange degenerates that live in the underbelly of society - tough guys, club girls, hookers, drug dealers, homeless, party animals - all fast-moving and boisterous. Their idea of a conversation is a shouting match. As I was entering the store thru the first set of double doors, this young woman (early to mid twenties) with a banging body (somewhat beat up face) was walking out of the store with food and drink in hand. She oozed sex, drugs, music...

I looked at her and enthusiastically asked, "Hey, where did you get that???"

She looked at me and at the items in her hands and kindly replied "Where'd I get what?"

"Where did you get that pretty face?" I continued.

"Oh" she says with a tiny smirk/sigh, looked straight forward and kept walking quickly to a muscle car waiting outside for her. I turned back and followed her for a few steps amidst the small noisy crowd of people between us in the double doors area, and shouted, "I just want you to know that I appreciate you!"

She entered the car and her male partner at the wheel drove into the night with an urgency that made the tires squeal against the asphalt.

She's one of the great ones that got away. We could have had something special!
 
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J.A. Prufrock

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No. I wouldn’t compliment strangers and especially not co-workers, in this day and age. Only close friends I know won’t take it the wrong way, an SO (if I ever get another one, which is unlikely) and I certainly have no qualms about complimenting SPs, MPAs, strippers and the like. I think they appreciate it and from my experience it helps warm them up to you.
 

Euro Male

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concrete jungle of toronto . . .
Sorry bro, no disrespect, but complimenting strippers, spa-girls, shemales is waaaaaay too safe!

Fun, adventure, excitement, the thrill, the rush is rolling up on random strangers . . . . . street, subway, stores etc.

I'll never buy the bullshit we're supposed to be sooooooo sophisticated and civilized! (balls castrated w/ dull clever --- sanitized, dicks scrubbed down w/ bleach)

We're primal, animal . . . . .
 

J.A. Prufrock

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Sorry bro, no disrespect, but complimenting strippers, spa-girls, shemales is waaaaaay too safe!

Fun, adventure, excitement, the thrill, the rush is rolling up on random strangers . . . . . street, subway, stores etc.

I'll never buy the bullshit we're supposed to be sooooooo sophisticated and civilized! (balls castrated w/ dull clever --- sanitized, dicks scrubbed down w/ bleach)

We're primal, animal . . . . .
No doubt it’s safe complimenting SPs and the like (it’s probably not safe if you don’t compliment them).
To each his own and whatever works for one guy doesn’t always work for the next.
But here’s what I vow never to be: the creepy old guy who flatters pretty, young girls. For example, there’s this fat, old, greasy guy at work and who apparently thinks he’s hot shit. I’ve heard him a couple of times telling well-dressed, attractive interns how “nice” they look. It’s clearly an awkward moment, they say thank you, but I don’t think they need that affirmation from some over-the-hill slob. And while I’m not that asshole (I’m 10 years younger and in eminently better shape and well-groomed), I refuse to be that creepy guy in every office or every gym or every bar or coffee shop.
If it’s cost me a chance at young pussy, I’m fine with it. I’ll just see an SP or MPA.
 

VIPhunter

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Never: "Hey you have a great set of tits!", "Nice ass, babe!"/ Better: "That is a very attractive blouse" ... "Very attractive shoes" (Makes her bum look nice, she knows it, you know it but it's left unsaid.

Dangerous; "Smile!"/ Better: "You have a lovely smile"

Best: "Very nice earrings/necklace other type of jewelry. (It's my estimation women wear jewelry specifically to be noticed.

Seems to be working these days (Since every woman seems to be obsessed with her nails): "That is a lovey colour on your nails..."
 

kherg007

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Long ago jerked around a Filipino liaison officer...after a beer or three told him American women love it when you compliment their breasts. So he goes up to a US air force female tech sergeant and pays the compliment and she slaps him. We're roaring ...he comes back and we told him he's doing it wrong - gave him a few pointers sent him over to a female staff sergeant... "slap!" We almost pissed ourselves laughing. Only then did he realize we were taking the mickey out of him ....such yobs back then...lol
 
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