Agree for the most part with what the guy in the first video said: If your girlfriend is acting cold and distant, dump her like last week’s trash, do no attempt reconciliation because it’s a waste of time and money.
My situation was different because we had been married for 14 years before she inexplicably tuned me out (no infidelity; I’d have dumped her in a NY minute if there was. For reasons I’ll never fully comprehend, she just stopped loving me, caring about me and respecting me like she used to.)
I tried to make it work because we have two kids and didn’t want to just throw it all away, but after about four years of absolute misery, it just became untenable and she left with the kids.
DO NOT MARRY anyone who becomes cold and distant while dating because breakups become so much more complicated.
Took me about three years to get over it and start living life again. Now I’m spending two hours a day in the gym and I’m in better shape than most guys half my age. My self-esteem is higher than it’s ever been. I’ve made three trips to Tijuana and the men’s Disneyland known as Club Hong Kong. I make regular weekend trips to the GTA to experience beautiful, young MPAs who lift my spirits. I doubt I’ll ever enter into a relationship and I can 100 percent guarantee you I ain’t getting married again and risk dealing with that shit again.
I didn’t seek this lifestyle. It was shoved up my ass by someone I never in a million years thought would have done this to me.
But life is too short to be crying in your beer about someone who did you wrong.
I am highly motivated to enjoy the rest of life, much of it in the company of lovely ladies.