What about true love, Does it still exsist ?

True love in the sense that there is one person you're destined for? No. Setting aside that it'd be a statistical improbability just to cross paths with that person, let alone be in such circumstances to develop a relationship, there's no logical reason for there to be a single "true love" for you unless it was directed by a divine being, which I don't believe exists.

Instead, I believe we are capable of falling in love with many different people.

Sadly, individuality seems to be on the decline. I believe media (social and otherwise) is conducing people to be one homologous mass. This is how to be happy. This is how you should act. This is what you should like. This is how to raise a family. This is the type of friends you should cultivate. This is what's most important in life. If you don't love the prevailing mantra of modern times, it becomes very difficult to fall in love. And being jaded from the process makes it even more difficult.

True love does exist.
Love yourself, respect yourself, be happy and transmit happiness to others. Be humble and don't try to shape others the way you want them to be. Fears and lies have no room in true love.
Love is within and can't never depend of someone else. Give and don't expect something in return. Love and happiness of one self will bring true love.

"I'll love what you do when you eat my pussy but I won't love you in the morning. LOL"

Promise S.H. I'll be gone long before morning.

"Love is a strange emotion. It is ever evolving. Lust is transient. With time, one realizes that love and togetherness are two different things. Very few people are lucky enough to experience the two emotions simultaneously." Randeep Hooda

"True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen." Francois de La Rochefoucauld

"Romantic love is mental illness. But it's a pleasurable one. It's a drug. It distorts reality, and that's the point of it. It would be impossible to fall in love with someone that you really saw." Fran Lebowitz

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John Henry said:

You wish to find true love than get a dog . Loyal to the end .

That ladies and gentleman is true love . The love of a pet and the love that pet gives you day in and out .

You will never find that kind of love from a person .

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Could that be because dogs can't talk? If they could, they might say things like:

Hey, you didn't play "chase the tennis ball" with me today!

or

The dog next door has a bigger bowl than mine and gets to eat human food. Don't you love me as much as his owners do?

or

Why did you say "good boy, wotta good boy" all the time, and then cut my nuts off?!?

So even if they're disappointed or angry with you, dogs can't express it, and can't "roll their eyes" like your spouse or SO can, all of which tend to tear down "true love".

Oh yeah. And cats don't give a shit!

Btw I'm nuts for dogs. Obviously not so much for cats...

But dogs are also on a leash. Can't do anything without owners consent.

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superstar_88 said:

But dogs are also on a leash. Can't do anything without owners consent.

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Dogs are mostly present in their being. We humans like to live in the past and the future without being present in the now. Always thinking about the past and anticipating the future that we miss being present at the moment. Best way to enjoy your love is by being fully present and in the moment when you are with them. Kind of like how dogs act with their keepers.

D.J. Trump loves himself. E.O.A. Q.E.D

I see "True love" as a perception of the eyes who beholds him. So I am answering from how I perceive it to be from my eyes.

It is seeing a woman and she gives you an instant erection.

You think about wanting to have sex with her all the time.

The more orgasms she gives you, the more you love her.

That's how I perceive what love is to me personally.

Tashki said:

I see "True love" as a perception of the eyes who beholds him. So I am answering from how I perceive it to be from my eyes.

It is seeing a woman and she gives you an instant erection.

You think about wanting to have sex with her all the time.

The more orgasms she gives you, the more you love her.

That's how I perceive what love is to me personally.

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I remember a toast an older relative made at my wedding:

"May your passion last as long as your life together"

It didn't, and from what I've seen around me usually doesn't. You're confusing true love with true lust.

Imho true love requires a lot more than just that. A great genuine friendship and caring for each other's well-being as well, at a minimum.

xmontrealer said:

I remember a toast an older relative made at my wedding:

"May your passion last as long as your life together"

It didn't, and from what I've seen around me usually doesn't. You're confusing true love with true lust.

Imho true love requires a lot more than just that. A great genuine friendship and caring for each other's well-being as well, at a minimum.

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Then true love is true lust to me.

The true love that you’re talking about doesn’t sound interesting to me.

I like the kind of girls where if I see a picture of them, she will almost make me fap to her.

That’s why I fall in love with Pornstars and SPs very easily.

Tashki said:

Then true love is true lust to me.

The true love that you’re talking about doesn’t sound interesting to me.

I like the kind of girls where if I see a picture of them, she will almost make me fap to her.

That’s why I fall in love with Pornstars and SPs very easily.

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You have much to learn grasshopper.

I'm jealous of your obvious youth. ENJOY!!

But please don't make passion the sole reason you commit yourself to an SO when that time comes, for both your sakes.

dawnlee said:

i was only describing a girl i know (who also happens to be an SP on here) who i used to be friends with but then i ended that shit quick because i realized what a fake and morally deficient person she was. and when she wasn't getting enough love from the middle-aged, married guy she was stupidly chasing, she parasitically attached herself to my friend. he needed a little help to see the light.

not all women are like her. but if you only waste your time on people like her, then you kind of had it coming.

love is possible with many people at once, but it's not possible with everyone. it was a hard lesson for me to learn earlier on in my life, but once i figured it out, i learned to stop wasting my time on the people that don't matter.

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Fair. We meaning I should never answer in absolute terms because I don't know all, or have all the necessary info.
We really should be loving everyone the same instead of just one or a few and realistically we cannot do it on human strength alone.
So we opt for the next best thing off course.
In todays world one should be commended for making themselves vulnerable and attempting to love though.

spraggamuffin said:

Fair. We meaning I should never answer in absolute terms because I don't know all, or have all the necessary info.
We really should be loving everyone the same instead of just one or a few and realistically we cannot do it on human strength alone.
So we opt for the next best thing off course.
In todays world one should be commended for making themselves vulnerable and attempting to love though.

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Or how about just giving more than we take from people we care about such as time, emotional capital, love, mental support, helping hand etc...I think it really is this simple provided we stop complicating shit.

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Or how about just giving more than we take from people we care about such as time, emotional capital, love, mental support, helping hand etc...I think it really is this simple provided we stop complicating shit.

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Sounds easy in theory but then there lies the ego which can see every fault in others that is very much in himself, we must possess, control, exert our dominance over others etc.
Certainly Love is about giving, but it should also be gentle and not forceful, forgiving but not giving up your "power".
It should not be a slippery slope nor a balancing act.
As you said above in past posts it can exist, but by a marginal few who know not to take it all upon their limited human self to do it without divine help.
IT's a marginal few because, well few are willing to travel the narrow path and the do the work required to get to the rewards, of peace, joy and happiness that compliment true Love.

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art found in the Indy sector,
Rough reviews about thy skills when lay,
And white knights scream "why- you wrecked her!"

Sometimes too hot the eye of reviewer shines,
And often is her text communication dimmed;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance, or pubic hair, thus untrimmed;

But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st,
Nor shall death brag thou wand'rest in his shade,
When in eternal lines to Time thou grow'st.

So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee. - mildly touched up Billy Shakespeare....

no, I tried dating and am bored after the 2nd or 3rd date. might as well stick to this, lol.

I think most of us are looking for love so that we can live happily together as a couple. The key here is that you want to be happy. Even when you failed to find love you still want to feel happy for being alone. Therefore, in search of your happiness..you need to find love within yourself. Believe it or not, real love will find you once you becoming loved. We all have two SELF. One is real. The other is your ego. Get rid of the egos and what you have left is a REAL you. What you think you become. So, train your mind to raise your level of consciousness. Learn to control your mind instead of your mind controlling you. You can't find love because you don't know who you are. You don't respect yourself. You need to respect yourself. Respect others. And, responsible for whatever you do. Don't blame others for your failures. I've been with my marriage for close to 30 years and I have no ideas what love is. Until now because I find myself. She is not the problem. The problem is my thinking of her. I fix my thinking and the problem fixed by itself! Yes, once you conquered your mind you can conquer love!

sex is more fun