When I use the term "open-minded" in reference to myself, I would like the reader to know that I am happy to consider their ideas and suggestions without prejudice, judgement, or shaming.
Although this does not mean that I've agreed to every suggestion I've ever been offered, I AM responsive about exploring your curiosities with you and/ or offering similar suggestion that are in line with both our interests. Of course, this excludes requests to engage in unsafe or indiscreet practices (such as bb-fs or meeting for lunch in obviously revealing/ provocative clubwear, for example), in which case I *politely* decline. The objective is that our exchange remains free of judgement or anxiety surrounding your intimate requests.
A quote I love so much that I've kept it posted on my site for years:
"If only, on the first day of sex ed, you were told that, 'You will be aroused by things that are taboo,' maybe fewer people would have anxiety over what is quite normal and healthy" -B. Ross
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Addilyn Castle