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jackal2006

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For the married folks on here both male and female a simple question for you: do you regret getting married or having children? If so, why? What do you know now that you wish you knew then?

I myself have never been married but I'd be open to it with the right person and I'd like to have children. I think I'd have a lot to offer and teach them. Yet, I see the low quality of women and all the divorces and it just seems like a risky move in Canada and especially Toronto. Too many lazy, money hungry, opportunists out there.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.
 

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For the married folks on here both male and female a simple question for you: do you regret getting married or having children? If so, why? What do you know now that you wish you knew then?

I myself have never been married but I'd be open to it with the right person and I'd like to have children. I think I'd have a lot to offer and teach them. Yet, I see the low quality of women and all the divorces and it just seems like a risky move in Canada and especially Toronto. Too many lazy, money hungry, opportunists out there.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.
Having kids is one of the most rewarding experiences this life has to offer and one of the highest joys to experience and see them grow, develop and understand and reach for their potential. You have a lot of influence on them and how they develop, and realizing that precious relationship and how much it can affect the rest of your life by affecting theirs really puts your life and meaning into perspective. Once my kids grow up and are self sustaining I will have accomplished my last remaining goal in life and come full circle. Already got the degrees, already got the career now it’s realizing the impact you have on others and the purpose. Knowing this makes all the problems go away and helps deal with any obstacle life throws your way. I tried the selfish life however I find greater rewards putting others ahead of my own, and I think my kids are a key part if this.
 

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Getting married yes, having kids definitely no.
 

jackal2006

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@koreanjames I'm in the 35 to 45 age range.

That's why I was curious. I'm at an age that having children the window may be closing. But, I haven't found someone I can trust to marry and not clean me out with a divorce the first sign of trouble. I think my biggest regret will be not having kids.
 

yomero5

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I have 2 kids but if I didn't have them I would still be happy - and a lot richer!!!
 

bazokajoe

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@koreanjames I'm in the 35 to 45 age range.

That's why I was curious. I'm at an age that having children the window may be closing. But, I haven't found someone I can trust to marry and not clean me out with a divorce the first sign of trouble. I think my biggest regret will be not having kids.
Stay single and never have kids.If you can;t be happy alone,you never will be happy.
 

Perry Mason

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Getting married is sometimes a pain in the ass...

Having children is a joy, and sometimes a pain in the ass...

Having grandchildren is a joy unsurpassed!!!! But impossible without, first, marriage and children... :adoration:

Perry
 

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I myself have never been married but I'd be open to it with the right person and I'd like to have children. I think I'd have a lot to offer and teach them. Yet, I see the low quality of women and all the divorces and it just seems like a risky move in Canada and especially Toronto. Too many lazy, money hungry, opportunists out there.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.[/QUOTE]
I think you answered your own question. I was married long ago and long divorced...never again. I never did the kids thing, sometimes I wonder what if. I`ve numerous friends that say they wouldn`t have them if they had a second chance. I think many guys never consider the enormous financial cost, might not seem important at 30 but at 60+, like myself, I`ll bet you look at the $$$$ end of it a lot differently.
 

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I myself have never been married but I'd be open to it with the right person and I'd like to have children. I think I'd have a lot to offer and teach them. Yet, I see the low quality of women and all the divorces and it just seems like a risky move in Canada and especially Toronto. Too many lazy, money hungry, opportunists out there.

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.
I think you answered your own question. I was married long ago and long divorced...never again. I never did the kids thing, sometimes I wonder what if. I`ve numerous friends that say they wouldn`t have them if they had a second chance. I think many guys never consider the enormous financial cost, might not seem important at 30 but at 60+, like myself, I`ll bet you look at the $$$$ end of it a lot differently.


Keep in mind it takes two for marriages to work. You will find problems on both sides of the coin. Women and Men both are to be blamed for failure in their marriages. The biggest problem I find is the lack of communication. Marriages with kids can be beautiful, but takes a lot of work. You have to decide for yourself if it's worth it for you. But don't blame one side or the other. You have to find the right person that you can communicate openly and honestly with (no judgments). You both have to be understanding of each other.
 

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Sounds like a job with long hours and negative financial pay with potentially a bad boss. You better want that kid with your whole heart.
 

penelopebloom

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any guy who comes on here complaining of "low quality women" while wondering if he should get married already should know the answer: no. if you can't find someone who you actually respect to marry you, then why would you even bother? at the same time, if the only kind of women you can attract are the money hungry bitches, then you should probably be asking why that's the case for you when plenty of other men in this world are able to find kind, compassionate and financially-independent women to marry. is it because financially-independent women want nothing to do with you? is it because women who don't have to be economically dependent on a man have better options than "low quality" you? lol

i just noticed you also have another thread complaining about feminism and how it's producing "low quality" women lmao. you are like the definition of what feminists talk about when they talk about fragile masculinity. stop being such a suck and man the fuck up. you only have yourself to blame if you can't attract "quality" women. instead of blaming an entire gender for your own issues, maybe YOU need to work a bit harder on attracting a better mate. stop complaining on the escort board and work on your character or your looks. go talk to a therapist, get some hobbies, go to the gym. if all you have to offer to women is money, of course those are the only type of women you're going to attract.

if you want to skip the wife part and you just want kids and think you can be a good father - surprise, you can do that now, it's called hiring a surrogate. you might be doing any potential future wife of yours a favour anyway.

"Too many lazy, money hungry, opportunists out there." lol well they definitely aren't after you for your personality.
 

steve bettman

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any guy who comes on here complaining of "low quality women" while wondering if he should get married already should know the answer: no. if you can't find someone who you actually respect to marry you, then why would you even bother? at the same time, if the only kind of women you can attract are the money hungry bitches, then you should probably be asking why that's the case for you when plenty of other men in this world are able to find kind, compassionate and financially-independent women to marry. is it because financially-independent women want nothing to do with you? is it because women who don't have to be economically dependent on a man have better options than "low quality" you? lol
She can be kind, compassionate and financially independent, but if she isn't attractive most men won't want her unless its for their own economic security, and most of the financially independent women i've met or had as clients are usually not attractive, just the way it is.
 

penelopebloom

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She can be kind, compassionate and financially independent, but if she isn't attractive most men won't want her unless its for their own economic security, and most of the financially independent women i've met or had as clients are usually not attractive, just the way it is.
right so if you aren't able to date the ATTRACTIVE, financially independent women, that's your own problem, not the fault of "low quality" women lol. i know plenty of financially independent hotties both in and out of the legal field and they're all sexually active or in LTRs.

also it is completely untrue that men are more selective when it comes to appearances - most studies i've read has shown time and time again that men are the less choosy ones:

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedate...ably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

so if you've been paying for sex for a while, you probably have distorted expectations compared to the men who don't do this on a regular basis.

here's another article about how women in the dating market today compare to men in terms of selectiveness:

https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/
 

Smallcock

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Where should one go to meet financially independent women? Do you guys meet lots of those women like this in the workplace?

By financially independent, I don't mean a woman that pays her own rent and has her own car. I mean someone that has actual assets, and has been more interested in life goals than riding the cock carousel.

As for kids, I've known people on both sides. Those that regret, and those that don't. Both acknowledge the financial cost and enormous time consumption required to raise kids.
 

likwid

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I’m not married and pretty sure I don’t want children but I think this is also a difficult route to go. I get that marriage and children take a lot of sacrifice and by being alone, you’ll miss out on one of the best things in life (in theory), a successful loving relationship and raising offspring. It’s biologically baked in our genes, however if you pick the wrong partner and don’t raise the kids properly, it could definitely be bad. Ultimately it’s whether you want to take the risk and how confident you are with your relationship with your SO. Being alone will have its hardships but is definitely doable, either path is meaningless in the relative context of the entire cosmos.
 
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