I agree that typically an SP would not see someone from their civie life but at that same time she could out him as well, especially if he has an SO.I doubt it.
It's 2 completely different and separate worlds colliding in a very uncomfortable way. And that's leaving aside the risk of the girl being blackmailed or outed to her familhy.
lol you're making quite a few leaps there but point taken. i'm not interested in outing anyone or manipulating a friend into doing something they don't want to do. i value my friendship with this person more than the idea of a potential session. thanks for the feedback everyone!!!What do you mean by 'honest and upfront'?
Is that you want to go tell her something like
"I know you have been moonlighting as an escort
and you know I have the hots for you. Let's talk how
I am going to book a session with you. Can I just
call your personal number? Would you give me
a discount or better if I can get it free? I promise
I won't tell anyone else about your second job."?
thanks! at this point i haven't approached her about it at all, so there's been no conversation or chance for her to express her feelings on the issue. i thought i would field the question here first before i took that chance and i'm glad i did because i think it'll save us both an awkward moment.absolutely not ! I had this one friend I knew from high school try to book me several times. He told me we knew each other and that it shouldn't matter because he was paying. However it DID matter because the fact was I knew him & I never ever thought that someone from my school would contact me.
The main concern is exactly what @oil&gas said people who know you could possibly use it against you.
My suggestion to the op is if you know the girl from school and shes told you she doesn't want to see/ service you then respect her wishes and leave her be.
No. I would not. It cross the lines to business from personal in an strange and uncomfortable way.. That is not something I am willing to do. Money is not everything.this is a question for the SPs in the room:
if someone from your civvy life knew what you did and wanted to book you, should they? would you let them if they were honest and upfront?