Bumping into SP in public place when you are with your wife

I think any reputable SP would just pretend they didn't know you. The last thing they want is your drama.

To be honest, though, most likely if you saw them "sometime ago" a lot of them might not even remember you.

Give them a hug and say, "nice seeing you again!".

Bluerabbit said:

What do generally Adult SP's do if you and your wife bump into an SP ( in a public place ) you had seen sometime ago and your wife is unaware about your hobby. Do they greet you or just don't say anything or something else?

Also how do you deal with this awkward situation at that time (your wife is totally unaware about your hobby)?

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A real pro will not acknowledge....and same goes for you too. Don't acknowledge her. She may be around folks who don't know she works in the industry....just walk on by with a smile solely in your mind...

Whether you are with your wife or by yourself, girls are going to ignore you. I’ve had the reverse situation when someone saw me in public and started yelling out Courtney. I was alone but still a disaster lol
It took me a min to realize someone was yelling “my name” once I leave my incall, shocker I’m not Courtney so I’m not expecting someone to call me it lol
Also seeing clients outside of our lil world/environment we may not recognize you. Not in a rude way, but we just are expecting to see a client in our “normal” life

Best to not even look at her again and keep it moving lol. You might be the one making it weird if you stare to see how she is reacting. Your wife is more likely to notice you acting awk

The lady doesn’t want you to acknowledge her either, trust me

I ran into Lady Shayne when I was with my girlfriend at an event just last month. I don't know if she recognized me because I only saw her once four years ago, but if she did, she didn't acknowledge me. And I didn't acknowledge her. She wouldn't have known my relation to the girl I was with, and I didn't know her relation to the people she was with. Safest course of action in that circumstance is to ignore each other.

Even if neither of us were with someone, I wouldn't have acknowledged her, unless our relationship extended outside the industry.

This reminds me about an encounter I had a few years ago with the owner of an agency. I took my 7 yrs old son to the Blue Jays playoffs, she was sitting right beside my son.
The lady was amazing, my son kept talking to her the whole time and he had a great time interacting with her. I don’t know much about baseball so she spent the whole game explaining him the game. On my way to drop him off at my ex’s he couldn’t stop talking about how great she was.

I’d say usually it’d best best to just ignore each other.

I have had this happen once with one of my regulars in Amsterdam. In this case it was a bit different, because I’d been seeing her for years, she knew I came to Amsterdam alone, and when I bumped into her, she was alone. It was at a restaurant I frequent that I had actually told her about. I’d just gotten a table, and in she walks. Wound up sharing the table and having a nice dinner together. As I said, though, we both knew we were alone, no one who really knows either of us around (she’s from Russia, so all her friends and family are there), and we do talk on whatsapp sometimes, so it was more like bumping into a friend.

In almost any other case (especially in Toronto), I’d ignore her. Safest for everyone.

courtneypowers said:

Whether you are with your wife or by yourself, girls are going to ignore you. I’ve had the reverse situation when someone saw me in public and started yelling out Courtney. I was alone but still a disaster lol
It took me a min to realize someone was yelling “my name” once I leave my incall, shocker I’m not Courtney so I’m not expecting someone to call me it lol

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This guy must have been a real bright bulb! lol

courtneypowers said:

The lady doesn’t want you to acknowledge her either, trust me

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Exactly this. It's all about discretion whether someone has an SO or not.

Although a lot of guys pay to play, and ladies get paid to play, no one wants to get outed as doing so!


Davis

Treat it like Fight Club

The first rule of Fight Club, don’t talk about fight club lol

courtneypowers said:

Treat it like Fight Club

The first rule of Fight Club, don’t talk about fight club lol

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In the movie, almost nobody followed that rule.

It depends if you are brave or have balls.

If you are brave,
You smile and say hello. When your wife asks you tell her. That's my service provider, when you are not in the mood.

If you have balls.

You introduce her to your wife and tell them, let's get out of here we are doing a threesome.

What if the SP was your ATF whom you considered a
friend? You would be hurt if she just ignored you.

oil&gas said:

What if the SP was your ATF whom you considered a
friend? You would be hurt if she just ignored you.

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While you're with your wife? Are you kidding?

Be polite and introduce them. Honey, this is the woman I pay to fuck when you say you have a headache.

An affluent man married to a trophy woman who
was attracted to his wealth should have little to worry
about. He just had to see to it a prenup is in place so she
couldn't use infidelity as a factor contributing to the divorce.

You treat this the same way as you would when you meet a civilian you've had an affair with... You avoid until you cannot, then you sort of introduce them to your SO when you cannot avoid and then move on quickly while sweating buckets inside.

Funny enough, but I think it is important to be honest with your fellow "Fuckee"/cheater/SP. They'll know your alternate reality and most will be cool with it.

If you tell them that your wife is a cold bitch that has become asexual and they see otherwise... You'll be fucked! If they see that you were telling the truth... You might just be 'golden'.

Of course, if the lady is bat-shit crazy - you'll be fucked!!!

Usually they just look your wife up and down, say "Figures!" and walk on.

yomero5 said:

Give them a hug and say, "nice seeing you again!".

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Then dive in for the DFK and say “wow you taste great - congrats on a busy day at work.”

Sometimes I will conclude with an (optional) ass-squeeze.

Been there... seen her at the Eatons centre the day after. Mind you Im single, and I was by myself.

SP merely gave me that walk-by grin! I did the same! Our paid time was over, no need to stop and talk, until I pay for more time with her!