LOL you started off well but than your reply went to shit in the second part. Maybe you never experienced deep friendships.
You don’t choose who to develop a deep connection with. It chooses you, it develops over time and grows. It doesn’t matter if she works at the library, dentist office, is an MPA or SP, or you met her in the grocery store or park. Your problem is that you judge her and thus block yourself out of experiencing deep friendships. With a comment like that you have no idea what it is to be deep friends. People like you can’t comprehend that it is possible just to be friends with a woman and develop deep connections without the physical intimacy.
There are many guys on here that have confirmed they maintain friendship way past the point the girl has left the industry and were even invited to their wedding because they developed a true plutonic friendship. Have you ever experienced this? Likely not.
I still remain friends with one of my ATF’s even though she has stopped being MPA since 2013 and we stopped the MPA part.
Its sad that you never got to experience true dynamic deep friendship that has no expectations and limitations. Such a lonely life.
Many of the guys who hobby are married. They hobby because they cannot get enough sex. Do you think we want to make friends and cause complications in our life and create unnecessary drama. Why do you think we want to put ourselves in this situation? Like I said in the beginning, true friendship chooses you, you don’t choose it.
You have started to project, I guess I triggered you by saying that you are naive and delusional, I apologize, I should attack the idea and not you. However, you don't do much better.
I can agree with you on friendship choosing you, not you choosing it.
Although, I hate to see someone have a warped perception thinking just because someone isnt asking for money now or favours now doesn't have ulterior motives.
I think erring on the side of caution is the best to keep the relationship from spoiling.
Given how it started, both parties want something and know exatly what they want, who is to say this will magically stop?
You lose the freedom to allow things to just be, but you gain the freedom of not being inclined and compelled to do anything for them.
If you can develope a true plutonic friendship as you state, then the power to you both and I envy you.
I just find it very unlikely and rare it could evolve to this given how it started.