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Johnny Utah

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I have asked. Didn't happen.

My guess is it can be awkward for some if they don't do it regularly. If you have a natural rapport and it isn't too fake, I guess it would be easy.
 

oil&gas

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I don't have to ask my friend or acquaintance
to waive the fee for dinner date though.
 

squeezer

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Paying for someone to sit and laugh at my lame jokes, really? If ever I need to resort to have someone sit with me only and have to pay them, please take me out in a humane fashion.
 

squeezer

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no
i mean a party with many providers
Socials are very useful as you get to meet the ladies in person. No photoshopping and you know right away if you click or if you should save your money for someone else.

I was at the big Mirage Christmas party one year. I met this young lady starting out in the industry and we hit it off. She was new to the business and starting directly out as an indy. I remember buying her several drinks, getting her number and nearly begging me to call her. When I did a week later she quotes me $500 an hour LMAO. I politely said, thank you and best of luck with your Escort career and that was that. Then I booked a bunch of the Mirage ladies who came in on a bus looking so fine.
 

unassuming

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I've been to many of them.

The bigger parties put on on by review boards are held at strip clubs, while smaller ones put on by agencies are at a a small night club or sometimes even at their in call location.

It' a great way to check out the ladies/develop a rapport before booking them.
 

Robert Mugabe

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No different than going out with a friend or acquaintances
I have socialized with providers, who have become long time friends, oddly enough. considering a couple of them barely speak English. However, we seem to get along in a friendly and relaxed manner.They just like to go out and eat. Shop at the mall. Go sight seeing. Just like normal people.
 

rc4real

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Have you guys who have been to these socials ever run into anyone you know from "real life"? If so, was it awkward or was there a mutual nod of approval followed by a bro fist bump?
 

AddilynCastle

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Social gatherings that include both SP's and our admirers are a great opportunity for everyone involved to not only put a face to a name/a person's online presentation, but also to observe more subtle nuances that may make a person of interest even more attractive. Does her gait stir something within you? In conversation, is his inquisitive look particularly intriguing? Wow, they have a beautiful laugh! And of course; woah, THOSE LEGS. Not all of these things can be well showcased and properly appreciated through listings, social media, or online banter.

Overall I'd say mixed socials are a good time! People mingle and libations are available, most people are quite open and interested in chatting, and I've met both SP's and admirers in this kind of setting with whom I now have treasured relationships with. I can't say for certain that we would have ever met otherwise.

I think, for some, disappointment may arise after* these socials if:
1. an admirer assumes that an SP's screening practices or listed honorariums should change for them because they've now already met in person, or
2. if an SP perhaps put their best face forward at an event, but later provides a lackluster experience at a subsequent rendezvous.

I don't believe disappointment is the norm for the majority of people who make connections at these kinds of gatherings though. Pro tips for everyone: **smell fresh, but no need to bathe in perfumes**, wear something clean and crisp, don't try to put on a fake facade, be reasonable about how much you may drink, mind your manners. And remember that everyone is there to have a good time, so show that you want to be there and enjoy yourself too!

Lastly, I see both East Indian Latika DD (@dd_latika) and Reina East (@ReinaEast) are hosting socials at the beginning of May!

Cheers,
Addilyn
 

squeezer

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I think, for some, disappointment may arise after* these socials if:
1. an admirer assumes that an SP's screening practices or listed honorariums should change for them because they've now already met in person, or


Cheers,
Addilyn
Web Presence *
Link to a professional website, or personal profile where your name and photo are displayed, such as LinkedIn/ Facebook/Instagram ect

Really? LOL

You would still require this after meeting someone at a social and hitting it off?
 

oil&gas

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Do you guys also social with other guys in the party
and keep in touch? That must be an interesting experience
like getting to know your wife's BFs and lovers.
 

Richard.TO

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Have you guys who have been to these socials ever run into anyone you know from "real life"? If so, was it awkward or was there a mutual nod of approval followed by a bro fist bump?
Went to an Allegra Halloween party a couple of years ago. Had a great time meeting a few new SPs and bought them drinks. Also met a couple of Sp’s I had spent time with before and had a great conversation with them all. There was one guy from my company there, I recognized him but I was wearing a mask so he didn’t see me. I didn’t approach him to say hello as I thought it might be embarrassing for both of us.
Unfortunately, I drank too much too quickly so didn’t stay very long, caught an Uber back home to sleep it off! LOL
 

Danny46709394

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Have you guys who have been to these socials ever run into anyone you know from "real life"? If so, was it awkward or was there a mutual nod of approval followed by a bro fist bump?
This!! I would love to join one, but what if I bump into my coworker or family?
 

oil&gas

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.....I recognized him but I was wearing a mask so he didn’t see me. ....
So the social event is a masquerade ball for those who
don't want to show their face. Sounds like a romantic
setting. Wasn't Romeo wearing a mask too when he caught
sight of Juliet the first time?
 

LatikaDD1

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The socials are good for people who appreciate them. It is that simple.

Individuals who are very shy/introverted may have anxiety around this type of setting or people who feel the need to hide that they engage in this industry in any capacity, obviously would not support or feel comfortable attending a meet and greet social.

On the other hand, there are many clients and SP’s to appreciate going out and having a good time over some drinks and music with their colleagues/clients/service providers.

If you’re concerned about running into somebody from your personal life, then a social isn’t for you. Having said that, if you run into somebody you know at one of these events, they are clearly engaging in the same activities you are.
 

Brianna1

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If I am not mistaken one of the first terb party was hosted at The Hatt when I worked there, thinking 2001? Or 2002
It was extremely small and was actually fun. There were prob about 30 guys that showed. Big difference to a few years ago.
 

rhuarc29

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Not sure if the OP is talking about paid social dates with providers, or social gatherings where providers and clients can mingle. Really no downside to the latter, if that's your thing.

As for paid social dates, I've considered it several times as a way to bypass aggressive screening practices. I'm very careful with what information I hand out to anyone in this industry, which precludes me from seeing certain ladies, unfortunately. But even though I've considered social dates, I've yet to go through with one. Far easier to just go with an agency.

I can see some people being attracted to a social date with a beautiful, attentive woman. But I find the value proposition isn't right for me personally.
 
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