5 Ways To Stop Being "The Nice Guy"
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Well, if you wouldnt get mad, what are you doing tonight, baby?
lol
giving you a blowjob and sniffing your farts, it would seemWell, if you wouldnt get mad, what are you doing tonight, baby?
Exactly.... all these stupid advice videos and columns. If you're a "nice guy" and can't find someone to compliment that, then partnership isn't in the cards for you.
This goes for any personality trait. If you're an introvert by nature, don't try to act and live as an extrovert. You won't be happy. It's not you. The only thing that it'll get you is therapy.
what about fathammer? lol he made just as many posts as I did. plus he proposed!
typical. women talking just as much as men and men thinking we're talking more.
You are a very wise man and see things pretty clearly.
If you end up in therapy because you are trying to be someone you aren't, there really isn't any hope for you. Be yourself and don't try to conform to what other people expect/want.
If you're looking for a bit more pussy, her advice might 'work' for younger women. If you're middle-aged and trying to find a partner, her advice is lame... As a guy, I think you'd wind up with a shitty partner.
Just be yourself... Be kind because that's proper behaviour. If you're available and not busy, pick up the phone when she calls as those time slots are infrequent. To say you're tired? WTF?
If she makes you dinner (or even a sandwich), you better lick her pussy real special.
Just be yourself... Be kind because that's proper behaviour. If you're available and not busy, pick up the phone when she calls as those time slots are infrequent. To say you're tired? WTF?
If she makes you dinner (or even a sandwich), you better lick her pussy real special.
One of the advantages of age is you come to grips with who you are, and not only learn to live with it, but learn that others have to live with it too. Take me or leave me, but what you see and hear now is what you get. If someone doesn't like you the sun will still come up tomorrow. Doesn't mean you have a licence to be an ass, but just OK w being yourself.
i could think of 101 ways not to be nice, but i could just be nice one real good time to have her sit on my face
Saw this on fb this morning:
“I'm gonna explain why "women dont like nice guys."
It's not "women like assholes instead of nice guys."
Its "women are attracted to actual personality traits, and nice is not one. Not really."
"Nice" just means "not an asshole." People arent attracted to "nice" because it doesn't *mean* anything.
People are attracted to Funny. Witty. Sweet. Thoughtful. Compassionate. Interesting. "Nice" isn't a personality trait. It's a default setting. The bare fucking minimum.
If all you bring to the table is "nice," you're fucking boring.
And if you have to tell people you're nice, your'e... probably not as nice as you think you are.
For example if you think women owe you sex over someone else because of your perceived niceness, you're a giant bag of dicks.”
“I'm gonna explain why "women dont like nice guys."
It's not "women like assholes instead of nice guys."
Its "women are attracted to actual personality traits, and nice is not one. Not really."
"Nice" just means "not an asshole." People arent attracted to "nice" because it doesn't *mean* anything.
People are attracted to Funny. Witty. Sweet. Thoughtful. Compassionate. Interesting. "Nice" isn't a personality trait. It's a default setting. The bare fucking minimum.
If all you bring to the table is "nice," you're fucking boring.
And if you have to tell people you're nice, your'e... probably not as nice as you think you are.
For example if you think women owe you sex over someone else because of your perceived niceness, you're a giant bag of dicks.”
^ this should be in your ad!!! It'll be really good business...
Most women are intolerant to this. LOL
everyone makes mistakes
also when people ask "what are your extras" and I say I can't possibly list them all this is why.
Anything you have to tell yourself to make it through the day I guess.
Plenty of women do like assholes over nice guys.
Plenty of women even go through the lengths of making up bullshit like how nice guys assume they are owed sex because they are nice to justify slagging on nice guys. If we are to be honest it's either something completely made up, or something a guy thought after being told over and over how awesome he was and how a girl wished all guys could be as nice as him and complaining to the poor bitch about what an asshole her boyfriend is. Gee after being buttered up and praised like that, he thought maybe a girl would be interested in him after being told she was interested in him. What a cunt.
Being nice is all too often not a bare fucking minimum, but hey it must be nice to live in a world without domestic violence, cheating and emotional abuse.
Also I find nice to not only be a bare minimum but an attractive trait. Niceness is hot.
Also if all you bring to the table is nice you are boring. Really? How many of those nice guys that get slagged on are just nice and nothing else. I mean fuck, you might as well start saying all black people are criminals and all Moslems are seconds away from putting on a stap on [bomb] for Allah.
I've known many nice guys, most dudes I hang with would be considered nice and all of them are multi dimensional. If you can't see that, the problem lies with your attitude towards niceness. About the only unidimensional dude I've known was actually a bit of a bitter cunt, not a nice guy. To suggest that nice is all a nice person brings to the table is bigoted.
But again, whatever you have to tell yourself to get through the day.
