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Advice for buying a home and how to protect it in case of separation

Smallcock

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If you are looking for an agreement to sign with her then it's called a cohabitation agreement.

"A cohabitation agreement, sometimes called a domestic contract, is a written contract that non-married partners can make that says how they will deal with their issues while they are living together, after they stop living together, or if one of them dies. They can make this kind of contract before living together, or while living together. For example, a cohabitation agreement can say how much spousal support one partner will pay the other if they separate. It cannot say who will have custody or access to any children."

You don't have to put it in your parents name, at least I wouldn't and I didn't. At the time when I was just living with my significant other, I didn't allow him to receive any mail at my house, this way he couldn't claim that he was living there. After being together for 3+ months I asked him to sign an agreement that said:

1. He had no claims to Hands from Heaven Spa or any of my businesses
2. He had no claims to my property or finances and we kept our bank accounts separate

Right before we got married, we signed a prenup that pretty much said the same thing so if we ever separated or divorced, he could never come after me for alimony or any financial support or any part of my businesses.
Sounds like you don't have kids and don't plan to have any.

Also, I think your house is considered a matrimonial home and a judge might tear apart your pre-nup agreement upon divorce.

It's so sad how complicated this has all become. It was so much easier when women were the property of their husbands.
 

Ginomore

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If you live with a woman there is a good chance that some day she will divorce rape you.
Just go mgtow-problem solved.
 

malata

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Spend a few thousand bucks.....set up a family trust.

Buy the property in the name of the trust. You as trustee can be the underwriter of the trust of the mortgage....but the ownership is in your family trust, not you. Problem solved. ....(I learned the hard way in the first round of marriage.....had great lawyers who set me up properly for the future
you had a smart lawyer

 

Smallcock

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lomotil

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Spend a few thousand bucks.....set up a family trust.

Buy the property in the name of the trust. You as trustee can be the underwriter of the trust of the mortgage....but the ownership is in your family trust, not you. Problem solved. ....(I learned the hard way in the first round of marriage.....had great lawyers who set me up properly for the future
This sounds sound or does it ? So you got fucked the first time around but has this scheme concocted for your second go around actually been tested in court?
 

Smallcock

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Agreed. I think a court would see right thru the scheme, similar to "piercing of the corporate veil", and rule in favour of the spouse.

Simply go in 50/50 with your girl on the purchase. If you split, it goes right down the middle, as it should. Both parties gain or lose equally which can be a great incentive to work things out rather than divorcing.

Sucks that whatever gains you make in the investments that you put the rest of your cash into becomes subject to splitting.

Love is so beautiful and pure until it isn't.
 

TFZL1

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A single woman with her own home? Easier said than done.
I know some single women who own there own home. And another who is not single, her and her bf each own homes and don’t live together.
Another lady I know is lesbian and owns house. Got married to a young girl. They broke up and she is concerned about her ex taking half.
A prenup is required if you want to protect yourself. If your future spouse doesn’t agree to a prenup, end that relationship.
My Ex took half, but the agreement was no problem, we didn’t spend any money on lawyers.
 

richaceg

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Put it in your name. Avoid any contributions from her...bills etc etc. even when you're ready to tie the knot...whip out the pre-nup...
 

jazzbox

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What's the real deal on pre-nups? The buzz is that they are all but pointless, but the buzz isn't always right.

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Pointless. You can't write a contract that contradicts the law and the law says - after a period of time living together - you are as good as married and entitled to a share of property...probably half of everything. If you are worried live in separate homes, keep separate bank accounts and live discernibly separate lives. That said, why bother with the relationship then?
 
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