I have learned SO MUCH.
I have learned why men cheat. & the answer is that there are so many reasons ! LOL, but to categorize it - it really comes down to a lack of connection(mentally, physically or emotionally). Men NEED sex, and I have also realized that I ALSO need sex.
In the past I had dated many men who cheated on me, and I didn't understand why. Now I do.
They are all different, but I really love the gentle caring ones, but who are also masculine and have the ability to initiate things. I love being in the masculine energy, allowing my submissive side to come out.
I have learned that its not always just about sex, and it is about connection with a soul. The ones I attract are the souls that want something more then just a wam bam thank you ma'am. And I really enjoy getting to know them, getting to know what they like and the hear about their lives.
I have learned that when a man feels seen, heard, appreciated and respected, they will move mountains for you, treat you wonderful, and spoil you, in whatever ways they can, either financially, presents, or just physically they will worship your body if they feel this way.
Men are great. Many of them are just troubled and searching for that connection. I see them, they've just been conditioned to "be tough"