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  1. #73
    I've said it before...

    Quote Originally Posted by Kawailuvr View Post
    Dating in Toronto is like playing baseball ..
    If you only talk to one or two what are you odds gonna be like ( especially with how judgemental mostly all the women are here )
    But ,, let’s say you go out and talk to like 10 ladies and three of them give you a number and one is sucking your dick in the future than as far as I’m concerned you in the hall of fame lol.
    ...and it holds forever true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexhungry View Post
    But men mostly seek love and a meaningful relationship when they date.
    What world do you live in?

    Quote Originally Posted by sexhungry View Post
    If men were only interested in sex then why date? Just use escorts exclusively and spare yourself the headaches of dating
    They date because that is what they need to do to have sex without the business like experience of seeing pros.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shack View Post
    What world do you live in?
    The world he lives in is called REALITY.

    An escort will have SEX with you, not intimacy, for money. It's a great 'Plan B' or 'C' or even 'D'.

    I've had SEX with civilians. I've had INTIMACY with civilians. With civilians, there was no monetary transaction involved.

    The sex was good. The intimacy was better.
    "Elegance is achieved when all that is superfluous has been discarded and the human being discovers simplicity and concentration...



    ...the simpler and more sober the posture, the more beautiful it will be."


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    Quote Originally Posted by Don Draper View Post
    The world he lives in is called REALITY.

    An escort will have SEX with you, not intimacy, for money. It's a great 'Plan B' or 'C' or even 'D'.

    I've had SEX with civilians. I've had INTIMACY with civilians. With civilians, there was no monetary transaction involved.

    The sex was good. The intimacy was better.
    In all seriousness though, even with civilians, money is virtually always involved. It just takes the form of dinner, gift, chauffeur, drinks, and an entire night of your time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Smallcock View Post
    In all seriousness though, even with civilians, money is virtually always involved. It just takes the form of dinner, gift, chauffeur, drinks, and an entire night of your time.
    Well, that works both ways doesn't it?

    My lovely S.O. is as generous with her time and $$$ as I am with her. Trips to other cities, my bete noir likings (watches, suits, cufflinks, shoes, etc), meals. Always available to satisfy my needs in bed.

    This is how it has to work. If she isn't generous and she's stringing you along then you only have yourself to blame for falling for it. Respect yourself.
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    ...the simpler and more sober the posture, the more beautiful it will be."


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    Quote Originally Posted by Don Draper View Post
    Well, that works both ways doesn't it?

    My lovely S.O. is as generous with her time and $$$ as I am with her. Trips to other cities, my bete noir likings (watches, suits, cufflinks, shoes, etc), meals. Always available to satisfy my needs in bed.

    This is how it has to work. If she isn't generous and she's stringing you along then you only have yourself to blame for falling for it. Respect yourself.
    Anyone foolish enough to get stringed along quite frankly deserves it.

    Great thing about Toronto is that there will always be the other one regardless of strings.

    Some guys can’t let go and keep on harping on the past and what could have been.

    I just say it was probably not meant to be and give the other one a chance without having the previous one affect the future ones.

    Feelings are not exclusive and nothing wrong with keeping them open to new relationships even if you are already involved with someone else. Each relationship is unique and is important to keep it balanced regardless if money, meals, sex, trips favours are involved, it needs to feel balanced to both. Once one parter starts to exploit the relationship and dynamics and tries to control/manipulate is when the toxic initiates.

    I just move on when I feel the other is trying to exploit and wait if she is ready again at some future date even if it means years into the future. If she never comes through it wasn’t meant to be and I just fully commit to the relationships at hand.

    I think guys eventually end up getting hurt because of exclusivity principles.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kawailuvr View Post
    Dating in Toronto is like playing baseball ..
    If you only talk to one or two what are you odds gonna be like ( especially with how judgemental mostly all the women are here )
    But ,, let’s say you go out and talk to like 10 ladies and three of them give you a number and one is sucking your dick in the future than as far as I’m concerned you in the hall of fame lol..

    Not really. By observing signals of interest you greatly increase odds of success. Also, do not have expectations other than talking to an attractive woman. The success will come often when least expected.

    Happiness = reality divided by expectations. The lower your expectations the greater your happiness


    Quote Originally Posted by Kawailuvr View Post


    For any man to say the social structure in this city between men and women is normal that is just insane .
    I have travelled all over the world and imho if you can pick up women in this city you are a world class playboy and I say congrats to you and I envy you.

    What are you saying here? How are women different in other countries? Toronto is so metro there are women from all over the world here

    Perhaps I am confused because you are trying to PU women. I do not pick up women. I meet them.

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    I stand corrected so some visible minorities in high up places. It's a start.

    As an aside, I always thought Canada would have a visible minority prime minister centuries before the USA. Hell even Ireland had a visible minority and gay at the same time head of state before us here. Do you guys think this will ever happen here or will federal politics always be a dull white boys club? Politics aside I can't fucking stand Scheer. He seems so flat and boring he makes Stepehen Harper and Peter McKay seem like Pluto from Animal House.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jackal2006 View Post
    As an aside, I always thought Canada would have a visible minority prime minister centuries before the USA.
    We do have a Muslim mayor but yes we do lag behind the U.S.

    Some ignorant people love to call the Deep South states a bunch of rednecks but both Louisiana and South Carolina have had brown E.I. governors.

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    Don't Chase Women. let them chase you


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    I'm a western woman. Here is what i've learned, both in my own life and from what my girlfriends tell me.
    Women want a man that is worthy of their RESPECT. Period. It doesn't matter to most of us if you drive a fancy car, or if you're 6 feet tall or if you make a gazillion dollars. We want to respect you. As MEN.


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    quote by Steph from Vixens

    I'm a western woman. Here is what i've learned, both in my own life and from what my girlfriends tell me.
    Women want a man that is worthy of their RESPECT. Period. It doesn't matter to most of us if you drive a fancy car, or if you're 6 feet tall or if you make a gazillion dollars. We want to respect you. As MEN.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Darts View Post
    We do have a Muslim mayor but yes we do lag behind the U.S.

    Some ignorant people love to call the Deep South states a bunch of rednecks but both Louisiana and South Carolina have had brown E.I. governors.
    And we have a Muslim prime minister in our beloved mister Trudeau

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    Any city could be named in the OP post. Rant against women not picking you is your own fault. Pushing it down to women will only lead them farther away from you!

    Cheers,

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    He's a moron. Asian and EI women are just as attractive as anyone else.

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    For me there could never be too many Asian or Indian women! But on the main point, I've lived in Canada's three largest cities, and I found Montreal the easiest place to meet people in general, including meeting new people as lovers, and Vancouver the most difficult. I think this is a function of how established a population is overall; the more a place seems like a "frontier", the more suspicious people tend to be of each other, and the harder it is to make friends. Of course, I have no way of demonstrating this, but it works for me as an explanation. As a side note: although I am French speaking, in Montreal the majority of my friends came from immigrant communities, Polish-Jewish, in particular. Unlike Ontario or the West, I would say that French Quebec is fairly closed to outsiders.

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    Fucking losers like Roosh V start with the assumption that they DESERVE attention.

    PUA sell snake oil to losers who think there's a trick to meeting women.

    You can meet women you just have to put yourself out there.

    You have to understand what your worth is on the dating market.... if you are a 6/10 and you are approaching 9/10 women cool go for it! Just be okay that your odds are smaller than approaching a woman who is more equal to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by frankcastle View Post
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    You have to understand what your worth is on the dating market.... if you are a 6/10 and you are approaching 9/10 women cool go for it! Just be okay that your odds are smaller than approaching a woman who is more equal to you.
    ^ this!

    Many people are delusional to this fact and get spoiled when they see SPs and go to countries that are under extreme conditions of poverty such as Venezuela which distorts their perceptions of reality.

    I agree know your worth and be prepared for rejections if you are trying to approach women of equal or higher status that are much more attractive then you socially are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Rig View Post
    The lower your expectations the greater your happiness.
    Completely and absolutely wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

    Extend your expectations as high as you can go. Don't settle for less than what you want.

    Don't settle for the 6. Go for the 10.

    Totally attainable unless you don't think YOU are.

    Respect yourself!
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    ...the simpler and more sober the posture, the more beautiful it will be."


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    quote by Steph from Vixens

    I'm a western woman. Here is what i've learned, both in my own life and from what my girlfriends tell me.
    Women want a man that is worthy of their RESPECT. Period. It doesn't matter to most of us if you drive a fancy car, or if you're 6 feet tall or if you make a gazillion dollars. We want to respect you. As MEN.


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    quote by Steph from Vixens

    I'm a western woman. Here is what i've learned, both in my own life and from what my girlfriends tell me.
    Women want a man that is worthy of their RESPECT. Period. It doesn't matter to most of us if you drive a fancy car, or if you're 6 feet tall or if you make a gazillion dollars. We want to respect you. As MEN.


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    Quote Originally Posted by canada-man View Post
    That was a good video. Really simple effective message.

    I think the main problems with man is the same as it always was, laziness and fear.

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    @Don Draper I 1000% disagree especially in such a bad city for dating and finding good women like Toronto. If you're not good looking yourself a woman that is an 8 or higher would not pay attention for you. Women here want either good looks or they want a guy that will spend money on them. Toronto is a bad place to find real long-lasting love.

    I myself have tried with 8s or higher and no luck here. As a man it is prob better to throw in the towel in Toronto or go elsewhere to find a good girlfriend or wife. Why do you guys think the SP business is so strong here? Cause the women are such a mess to date.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Don Draper View Post
    Completely and absolutely wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

    Extend your expectations as high as you can go. Don't settle for less than what you want.

    Don't settle for the 6. Go for the 10.

    Totally attainable unless you don't think YOU are.

    Respect yourself!
    Same could be said about career or life in general. There are those that just looking for reasons not to push themselves and grow and those that find success no matter how long it takes.

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