
Originally Posted by
G.D. Gentleman
That helps.
I know a few gents in their 50's who have SB's. What they have shared with me when we chatted over dinners together are things like - SP's get used to fairly quickly seeing men in their 30's through to 60's as they generally are the SP clients for various reasons (more disposable income, lower interest in traditional dating and the SP route works best for them, etc) so they (SP's) respond really well to older gents like yourself.
For SB's - who do not have the experience I just spoke of - especially first timers SB's - may struggle with it. Some list in their profile the age range they are looking for which is most helpful (ie. 30-45). Some are naturally attracted to the older gents by default. From my friends, what they found is SB's who have been in a few arrangements before, mirroring the SP's experience, open up to and even seek out the older gents like yourself.
The best bet if I might suggest, is going on the website and if you prefer, keep your photos as private, but do have some good photos of yourself there (accurate and variety showing you up close, full standing, etc) and pick ladies who list age ranges of interest that include yours and if they don't list their interest, get a feel from their profile words and worse case - just say hello and be ready to discuss the age gap in the emails if she replies - to ensure both of you are comfortable with it.