married men or men in serious relationship who hobby, do you partake BBBJ with sp's? And what is your justification behind your choice of BBBJ or CBJ?:wave:
If you are in a serious relationship and you hobby, you play with fire. I guess the relationship isnt that serious if you're looking elsewhere?married men or men in serious relationship who hobby, do you partake BBBJ with sp's? And what is your justification behind your choice of BBBJ or CBJ?:wave:
Thats not the point.If you are in a serious relationship and you hobby, you play with fire. I guess the relationship isnt that serious if you're looking elsewhere?
BBBj or covered, if you get caught hobbying, it doesnt matter if its covered or bare at that point.
Same with me (at least you get a hand job)... I couldn't care less now.As my wife and I no longer have sex (except the odd handjob maybe a couple of times per year), I don't think it's gonna affect her at all.
Lucky. I don't even get that. The last time I mentioned that was what I would like she made a joke about it. I take a calculated risk with BBBJ action, but since there's not much going on at home the risk of passing something on is slim to none.As my wife and I no longer have sex (except the odd handjob maybe a couple of times per year), I don't think it's gonna affect her at all.
Yet some will pretend women get hornier after 40 years old haha.As my wife and I no longer have sex (except the odd handjob maybe a couple of times per year), I don't think it's gonna affect her at all.
O&G,Why do married people feel the need to find an
excuse for or justification of their hobby?
My previous incarnations whom I contact once
in a while with a Ouija board had one thing in
common-- Alexander the Great, Caesar Augustus,
Genghis Khan and Napoleon all had multiple
women other than their wives. Being a man of
destiny like them I never understand how receiving
BBBJ could make me feel guilty. I believe
Bill Clinton also shared my sentiment.
Horniness is in the mind. Met many horny 40+ ladies who said they got hornier as they matured. Some even post menopause.Yet some will pretend women get hornier after 40 years old haha.
True, but it's also selfish. It's saying you care more about getting your rocks off than the emotional health of the partner you agreed to be faithful to. While risking their emotional health may be better than risking their physical health (in the case of an STD), it's still not great.Thats not the point.
Cheating is a matter of perspective. Some people are fine as long as they pay and there is a transaction, so treat it like a service but for both the body and mind. Like getting a massage, or seeing a therapist, a dentist, etc...everyone needs some maintenance. Now if you make someone else sick because of your careless actions then this is fundamentally flawed and you have hurt another person because of your actions. This is beyond cheating.
A lot of people who hobby and are in happy marriages and/or relationships and are not looking for an out.
This is in part because they no longer have to worry about pregnancy and can set themselves free so to speak.Horniness is in the mind. Met many horny 40+ ladies who said they got hornier as they matured. Some even post menopause.
Never believe what women say, only what they do.Met many horny 40+ ladies who said they got hornier as they matured.