Exactly! And well said.The ladies have the right to request whatever information or donations they want. As customers we have the right to decline and move on. If you don't like what someone is asking for move on.
Exactly! And well said.The ladies have the right to request whatever information or donations they want. As customers we have the right to decline and move on. If you don't like what someone is asking for move on.
You probably are the only one. While I do not see girls who have extensive ID requirements, I do not begrudge them the right to do so. It's their ass (and other body parts) so whatever they feel they need to feel safe is ok with me. I choose to remain as anon as I can, there are plenty enough choices for me. I don't get ticked off, I find someone else and get laid. But I understand why some SP do this and wish them the best.But I guess nobody answered my question which is "Am I the only one who get ticked off" by this. And also, for those who accept to give this information, why do you do it? You don't care about the impact of this information being leaked? Or you don't see it as a real risk?
The question here is not «**why do guys go see sp that verify clients infos**» but more «** Why you did book with someone that could blackmail you .. Guys should do their reaserch as well and look up for reviews to see if the lady is legit , safe and actually well established .. You can put all of us in the same basket because you got a bad experience once.Well... I'm sorry but the one who blackmailed me asked to see me in an hotel. I unfortunately didn't know where she lived because blackmailing is also a crime!!! I understand your safety is important, but so is ours, no? Can't we reach a middle ground?
My point is not you asking, you may ask what you want! It's the men who agree to give this information than ruin it. They expose themselves and, by the same token, encourage this behavior. I am wondering why they accept this.
This echos my thoughts completely. Reasonably professional (has a website, twitter presence, nice pics, etc) is fine, but does not includeThis is just like looks and rates: if you do not like what the sp is providing and/or the process, go elsewhere. She will do what she is comfortable with to protect herself, and the Hobbyist had better as well. If no match, then no match. Move on. It is all about personal choice. Some of us have a lot to lose if caught up in criminality, some no. Some have families, some not. I have a friend who was seeing a "reliable regular" (famous last words) here in Ottawa. The relationship was about a year long, and he had disclosed much of his personal information during the original screening process. Well, the relationship went sour for some reason and the sp outed him to his wife. Bingo, expensive divorce. Do what is comfortable for you boys, and for heavens sake, THINK!
Can you recommend a text app?Those guys probably have nothing to lose or are clueless. There's no pussy in the world worth gambling my life over. I can understand in the US, the law doesn't protect SPs but it does here. It's still illegal to buy services here, so I'm not giving away any personal info until it's legal to buy.
I was once threatened by a shady agency that they would out me and post my info on facebook. Just for complaining about crappy service. Lucky for me I used a text app and didn't give any personal info. Told them to fuck off and post my info anywhere. Things can go down really bad if one is not careful. It's all fun and games until someone outs you. And let's be real, not every SP can be trusted with your info. Heck I don't even tell my friends about seeing SPs. Friends don't always stay friends. However I have shared personal info with some ladies after I got to know them well. Still think that was stupid of me to do.
Reference from other providers should suffice for a booking. Just my 2 cents.
Your screening was painlessPros to screen clients :
- You work in a safe environment
- You don’t have no show or last min cancellations
- You get way less stupid texts from people that just want to waste your time
- You don’t mess up your bookings with people that are not serious
- No fake bookings
Cons
- Some clients will chose to book someone that doesn’t require screening
So to me the pros list is longer , safer and save me from a lot of wasted time ..
Kisses
Ali
So the part of this that makes me laugh is she got beat up ( which is awful and terrible ) but than she continues in this work and now she screens lolI used to be ticked off by it, but then an SP I have quite a good relationship with (that didn't really screen) got beaten up by a first time client that happened to be psycho and practically held hostage for a few hours. Now, I can fully understand why girls do this, their lives are at stake here. There are plenty of girls that don't screen, if you have an issue with strict screening requirements, go see these girls.
How do they know?A lot of providers know when you're using a text app and won't book you. But ok
I think for most text app numbers the number 1 only shows when calling but not when texting.The Number 1 is placed before your telephone number. Also, the pool of phone numbers you get are recognizable to belonging to the service:
1 613-666-9999 NOT 613-666-9999
You don’t have to give any info you don’t want too. You can move on and find another provider. I usually give references instead, it the very few times I gave real info it was no problem. She didnt use any of it against me, no blackmail, no extortion. But I’m not running to mayor, so I don’t have much to hide.Am I the only one who gets ticked off by all these SPs asking for your professional internet website, email address and other personal information and verifying it? One even asked me for my credit card number! In case I didn't pay or it was counterfeit money... No kidding!
I'm worried about how they process, keep and protect this information. I mean, if sites like Ashley Madisson get hacked, can you imagine how easy it is to hack any of our favorite SPs and put their client list on the web? Not to talk about Law Enforcement.... This also opens the door wide open to blackmailing, which happened to me, so I really resent this. And if they do it and get away with it, it's because their clients agree to yield, and I wonder why we do this instead of seeing legit and good SPs who don't.
I mean, they don't want to share THEIR personal information with us, what's the deal, when we are doing something deemed criminal in this country, to provide them with proof we did it!!! The probability of getting in trouble may be slim, but the impact of being caught and finding yourself with a criminal record and on the list of sex offenders is incredible!!!
There are quite a few who do. I work from home.Woah hold a minute Lea, how many providers are actually working from thier real home? I know you are a little bias but I think more then 80% of providers don't actually give out thier real address. Anybody have stats on that?
Carrier look ups. If it not Rogers/Bell etc, we know it is an app.How do they know?
I have always used a text app or Twitter and have had no issues. I'm not sure if I have enough known willing providers who will give me a reference but i think I have a few. Just never asked as I haven't had to provide this. That's only saying that I haven't hobbied enough to see those who require this info or care about the text app.Guys
I am new to canada and this industry....i see many sp ads showing phone numbers to contact them. If we should not expose our personal details to them then how can we text from our phones to them? Even a phonr number and texts from our phones is an exposure of personal details to them....
Vicky