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What is the worst advice you have given or received? Do you take your own advice?

thirdcup

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If you screw up tell the truth so it can be dealt with and have a firm hand shake .
This sounds like good advice. Give us an example of the worst advice you've received.
 

thirdcup

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Once, during pillow talk with an SP she asked me about my civilian love life. I was 19 at the time and still in the 'wah, I got friendzoned' mindset.

Anyhow, I told the SP about this girl I really liked who couldn't get past seeing me as just a friend. Her serious response was "just grab her one day and kiss her, that should change things."

Even years before the #MeToo Movement, that sounded like absolutely abominable advice and I thankfully did not follow it.
But if the woman likes you, it works. I wouldn't do it today.

I was 18 at the time (more than half a lifetime ago), and I convinced a truly gorgeous student to come to my house and swim in my pool. I was thinking about how best to make my move, and I just decided to go for broke. I went up to her and kissed her, with tongue- thank goodness it worked.
This was the start of a beautiful friendship. Later on I did some regrettable things. Hindsight is always 20/10.

This woman was so attractive she freely admitted that she was completely unqualified and she got her part time job because of way she looked. She said there was another at her office with the same look. Slender and brunette. She said she dropped off her résumé, and was was told they had no jobs available, but they would keep her résumé on file yada yada. At the same moment she was in the office, the big boss was there and apparently he said "I'm sure we can find something for you."

This might be another thread- how did you get your first job?
 

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Probably this past year when friends and colleagues suggested I get into weed stocks. It ain't working out too well at the moment.
 
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bump again
 

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Go Fuck yourself.
 

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Bump
 

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Not becoming a Realtor in 2013. Friend talked me out of it using the phrase "bubble". One of the main drivers of Canadian growth in GDP over the past 10 years has been Realtors swimming in cash from the booming housing market!
 

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I don't know why, but I remember when I was a teenager, I was with a bunch of guys that I did something with, I won't go into details, but it was a group competition. I was two years younger than any of them, the oldest maybe 6 years older than me. I sort of felt that I was the weakest link of the group.

We won.

Afterwards, we went out to celebrate, and one of them told me (talking about the part I played in the victory),

"You know, you really nailed it. You totally aced your part. You did a fantastic job".

So I said, "Oh, not really , I just " blah blah blah.." as I basically said that I didn't do anything special.

And he looked at me, and said, "Listen, when somebody pays you a compliment, don't do that. Listen, then say thank you. It's OK to be good at something and to not be shy about it."

It sort of changed my ideas about being confident, ever since.
 
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My Mother: "You waste all your money on those stupid baseball cards, they are useless and take up space" She later pitched 3 shoeboxes full while I was in service. There were at least 2 Pete Rose Rookie cards...
 

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Don’t fall in love or anything related to not following your feelings and emotions. Perfect recipe for disaster, depression and spiraling downward into pitty, jade, misery and just being a worthless POS.

Worst fucking advice anyone can provide.

yes I want to grow old being a scared fucking loser afraid of hurt pain emotions and just pump myself full of anti-depressant drugs liquor and dope because I am afraid to live and love. Yes miss out on experience with people and getting to know myself in exchange for feeling sorry, miserable and regretful about myself.

What a bunch of morons who think this is anything resembling good advice and no wonder the corporation and MSM promote this and exploit it 🤦‍♂️
 

barnacler

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Almost all regrets are about what you didn't do, not what you did do.
 
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