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Hanging out with a SP between calls

Bumblaster

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So I would like to hear your opinion of what you would do if you were me.

A little backstory. I booked a leolist indy last year and she ended up staying in my motel room with me for around 5 hours before I took her home to where she was living. Told me her real name and even showed me the house where she was living with her parents (where I dropped her off). She charged me $500 for the encounter. I liked her because she provided something that I consider very rare in this industry. Not going to detail what because as you can see from the top of the page it's forbidden to discuss it. Plus, she is very party friendly. Took her grocery shopping a couple of times after our encounters. Had a blast being in Metro at 2 AM high as kites lol. Anyway, she moved away 6 months later to a city 45 mins outside of TO and we kinda lost touch because of the distance to drive there plus there's no strip joints to visit there when I'm not with her.

Now she's advertising again on leolist and I contacted her to hook up again. She remembers me but has raised her rates alot since I saw her last. I don't think she's pimped out though and told her I can't pay $1020 for our usual 5 hr encounter. So what she has suggested is this; I book the room next to (or near) hers so she can come visit and hang out between calls (if she has any). The initial first hour that I see her we will fuck at her usual rate of $220 if it takes an hour and after that she will come back to my room on and off for the rest of the night to hang out. I'm gonna bring blow because we've done it before. She offered to do this (hang out) before she had any knowledge I was bringing nose candy so that's not the reason. She also enjoys weed and alcohol

This has never happened to me before - what would you do and how would you handle it?. Any suggestions and opinions guys? Should I be asking more questions or just go with the flow?
 
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I'm just gonna sit back and enjoy the show ..... fire away folks! :popcorn:
 

Tashki

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What is your objective? Are you trying to date her traditionally? Don't supply her with any weed, alcohol, food or anything with that nature. It's not fair for you to supply her with all of those things if your STILL paying her to see her. I don't know why guys bother giving any kinds of gifts or catering to SP's in the first place. Keep your relationship with this SP strictly business. It's not worth crossing that boundary. SP's want money not relationships.


BTW It's waaaay better if you keep your relationship with this SP business. You can see her at anytime you want as long as she is available and you can make this business relationship last as long as you want with no headaches. Don't try to pursue an actual romantic relationship with this woman. SP's are not designed for it as far as I can tell.
 

Mr Deeds

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Oh My God, where to begin. First off are you that desperate for friendship that you need this. Second, do you not see that your friend will use you for everything and suck the life out of you. And Im not even going to mention the coke use that will completely ruin your life and hers. Run away son trust me.
 

itd131

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It sounds like you are great together. Why not get married? You already know where she lives. Drop by and ask her dad for her hand in marriage. Be sure to explain to him how you two met.
 
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malata

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Paradise by the dashboard light.
if she likes you, she would date you like a normal Joe Blow. On the other hand, if she doesn't, then she'll just Blow Joe

 

RZG

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Listen to the guys on this forum. I watched a friend get taken for big bucks,.. fur coat, $$cash and a car. He was in love with a stripper with a coke habit. The couple times I met her made it plain what she was doing, he wouldn`t listen either and he was definitely not in the position to throw piles of cash around. Interesting fact too... she was a cousin of a prominent NHL player at the time. Two minutes for high sticking.
 

Parker@TDL

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Bahahahahahahahaha.....ahahahahahahahaha!!!! Yes, I'm literally laughing at you and how ridiculous that all sounds.

P.S. yes I realize I'm being a little mean...I guess tonight I'm just a big meanie so suck on that:):)
 

Butler1000

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Great, in six months another thread coming about how he got taken to the cleaners........

Just so you know we will Mock you.
 
Great, in six months another thread coming about how he got taken to the cleaners........

Just so you know we will Mock you.
LISTEN to all these guys .... do not make excuses .... BUT BUT BUT ....... NO BUTS!!! Give your head a shake & ..... RUN!!! :frusty:
 

Captain Bly

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Run rabbit run! On the surface sounds fine but given your first experience parenthood may be in your future!
 

harryass

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FIRST more dope and alcohol . Next can u lend me some money? and next more money. Don't be a fool, she's using u. Get out NOW.

Perhaps her real BF will come a knockin next for some real hurt and money.
 

Knuckle Ball

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Anyway, she moved away 6 months later to a city 45 mins outside of TO and we kinda lost touch because of the distance to drive there plus there's no strip joints to visit there when I'm not with her.
LOL...What???

Ya know...there is actually other shit to do in life besides hanging out with escorts and strippers and snorting blow.

Maybe you could read a book...or buy some lottery tickets...or just walk around outside or something? There is a whole big world out there.
 

HOLLYWOODG

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Don't listen to these guys completely OP. Every situation is different. Every person is unique.

You'd be a moron to not exert caution. But don't agree with the cynicism in this thread. There are many incredible women in the industry. It's just a job and for most not their end game.

To assume most women in this industry are schemers, conartists or bad people is sheer ignorance.

Love can be found anywhere when we least expect it. Good luck!
 

havingfun

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You are playing with fire. It could be fun. You risk getting burned. I ran into a situation, years ago, that had parallels to yours but was different.
A very attractive, independent, SP came to my place for an outcall. She was attractive in a Shania Twain kind of way. To my eyes, DDG. It was $300 for an hour. We started making out and then she asked if we could pause and talk a bit and she wanted to snort some coke. I don't do drugs. She had her own, offered me some, but I declined. She said that she didn't like to rush things on a "date" and would I mind if she stayed longer. She said there would be no upcharge. She stayed 7 hours (I didn't have any plans for the evening so I was ok with that). True to her word she only charged me $300.
We didn't have sex until much later in the evening. She wanted to talk and do drugs. I must admit I was mesmerized by her hot naked body and her beautiful face. The time passed quickly. She talked a lot but was very well-spoken. Every once in a while she would run out of drugs. A friend of hers, another escort who was not independent popped in a few times to provide more coke. She asked if I wanted to do a duo. Her friend was a cute bubbly blonde. I declined the duo (not sure if I did the right thing there but I was taken off-balance by the whole evening and decided to proceed with some caution).
Eventually we had sex. It wasn't mind-blowing but it was hot enough (she sure liked DATY!).
I never called her again. I enjoyed the experience. BUT she did a LOT of coke that evening. Obviously, she had a problem. I had the feeling that if she did not turn things around her life was going to be a train wreck and I did not want to be on board. Also, I found out through our conversation that she had a number of sketchy acquaintances among her family and friends. I did not want them popping in, like her escort friend, and I feared they might if I saw her too often. She came across as intelligent and was beautiful and I hope that things turned out alright for her.
 
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OnTheWayOut

If driving 45 minutes to see her is too much trouble then she is not the girl for you. You should just find a stripper so you have some where to hang out between snorts.
 
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