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Do you have fond memories of things your family did when you were a child that were unique to your family compared to the other kids in school? Maybe your family did unpleasant or embarrassing things that you'd like to forget altogether? Please share them.

When I was 7 years old I stumbled upon a collection of VHS tapes in my parent's bedroom and decided to watch one. It was a homemade porn of my parents, not unlike the amateur porn that abounds online today. Something about the tapes drew me to them and I would watch them after school every day before my parents got home from work.

One day I forgot to remove a tape from the VCR and my stepfather was waiting for me to return from school. He was holding one of the VHS tapes in his hand and told me that he found it in the VCR. I was afraid. Sometimes my dad would fly off the handle for small indiscretions. He looked me firmly in the eyes and said, "So, you like to watch..." paused then followed with "Now you're going to watch..."

From that day forward my parents often had me sit in their bedroom to observe them having sex. I would be seated in a chair facing their bed, beside me was video camera on a stand recording them, and both of my parents on the bed.

For my 'sweet sixteen' birthday, my parents had me participate in a threesome with them, my dad and I clawing at my mom's hot little body as she pleasured us. It was the first and only time I was told to participate. After that, the sessions and my presence in them ceased.

For years I hadn't told anyone and I thought what I had done was normal. When I caught wind that it was uncommon, I refrained from speaking about it.

It's something that made my family different from others. Today, I'm not entirely sure how to feel about these events.
 

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Its not the family that defines you its you and what you are born with.

When I was about 6 or 7 years old I saw my dad beating up my mom...I cant remember how long it lasted but I know it bothered me a lot...one day I couldn't handle it anymore and I jumped on my dads back and started pounding on his head as he was hitting her. I saw my dads eyes and saw fear...he saw my eyes and all that he saw was blood. After this incident he never laid a hand on her again nor did he ever lay a hand on me. Its your choice if you allow the ills of your family to fuck you up and infiltrate your soul or if you want to stay true to your core regardless of what it is.

As for the OP i agree a total troll post.
 

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Its not the family that defines you its you and what you are born with.

When I was about 6 or 7 years old I saw my dad beating up my mom...I cant remember how long it lasted but I know it bothered me a lot...one day I couldn't handle it anymore and I jumped on my dads back and started pounding on his head as he was hitting her. I saw my dads eyes and saw fear...he saw my eyes and all that he saw was blood. After this incident he never laid a hand on her again nor did he ever lay a hand on me. Its your choice if you allow the ills of your family to fuck you up and infiltrate your soul or if you want to stay true to your core regardless of what it is.

As for the OP i agree a total troll post.
You were and continue to be a great man. In my case, my mother constantly attacked my dad emotionally. I was not brave enough to come to his defense. My dad deserved a lot better from his son. He suffered depression because of it and the complications took him away from me far too soon.
 

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You were and continue to be a great man. In my case, my mother constantly attacked my dad emotionally. I was not brave enough to come to his defense. My dad deserved a lot better from his son. He suffered depression because of it and the complications took him away from me far too soon.
I am sorry for your loss...I understand how you are feeling when you cant help thinking if you could have done things different now when its too late and they are gone. I have been there recently by losing a loved one suddenly and and I beat myself up emotionally and mentally for not doing more for them even though their condition was not curable and not much I could do to prevent that but yes I could have done 1000 things different to that person to make their experience a little better on this earth and to see them smile more.

Don’t give her the abuser the power to affect your life like that through your dad and your feeling like you didn't do what was right. Stop the poison from spreading within you. Its not your fault, you did nothing wrong. Try to channel that energy and help others any way you can. Nothing you can do about what happened or what didn't happen, try to accept it. You don't want to end up causing harm to your mental health by feeling guilty for inaction. Make your dad proud now by living the life that he never could and try to leave a positive impact on people provided this is who you are.

Maybe the first step if to forgive your mom, stop judging and try to show her love. Maybe you might have an impact on her though perceived signs of love even though every sense and emotion in your body is probably yearning you to seek vengeance...kill em with love they wont understand but eventually it will spread within like her poison did.

 

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I grew up in a home where the only people laying hands on one another are the siblings...when parents are not around. There's always fear looming when our dad is home. Mom was the type to drop whatever she's doing when my dad arrives and make sure he's been taken care of. I remember it like it's yesterday as soon as my dad takes his shoes off...I'd be running to take it and make sure it's in it's place for when he needs it the next day. Mom was a housewife that was busy with cooking laundry groceries that sometimes we're left to fend off for ourselves...All the siblings know their place and being the youngest...I always get the short end of the bargain. My brothers never beat up anyone as we know one smack in the head was enough to get back in line...Dad was a great provider and made sure we got what we need and sometimes get what we want. Not one of us were able to get cars until we ourselves can afford it...
 

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He left out the part of the regular threesomes with his mom and their Great Dane named Richard. It's why he's gone by Smallcock ever since.
 

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I am sorry for your loss...I understand how you are feeling when you cant help thinking if you could have done things different now when its too late and they are gone. I have been there recently by losing a loved one suddenly and and I beat myself up emotionally and mentally for not doing more for them even though their condition was not curable and not much I could do to prevent that but yes I could have done 1000 things different to that person to make their experience a little better on this earth and to see them smile more.

Don’t give her the abuser the power to affect your life like that through your dad and your feeling like you didn't do what was right. Stop the poison from spreading within you. Its not your fault, you did nothing wrong. Try to channel that energy and help others any way you can. Nothing you can do about what happened or what didn't happen, try to accept it. You don't want to end up causing harm to your mental health by feeling guilty for inaction. Make your dad proud now by living the life that he never could and try to leave a positive impact on people provided this is who you are.

Maybe the first step if to forgive your mom, stop judging and try to show her love. Maybe you might have an impact on her though perceived signs of love even though every sense and emotion in your body is probably yearning you to seek vengeance...kill em with love they wont understand but eventually it will spread within like her poison did.

twenty-three years have passed, and my mother still tries to poison my marriage, against my wife, and to put a wedge between me and my brother. he doesn't care, he is getting it all when she passes away. I just feel that I need to walk away from it all, and live my life. She even told me that she held it against my Dad when he got her pregnant with me, her first child.

Thanks, Rain, for your good words and advice. However, some people, even one who gave birth to me, are toxic, and should be avoided at all costs. I try to be the father to my kids that my dad was with me, always there for me and supportive in every possible way. Thanks, Dad, wherever you are.
 

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twenty-three years have passed, and my mother still tries to poison my marriage, against my wife, and to put a wedge between me and my brother. he doesn't care, he is getting it all when she passes away. I just feel that I need to walk away from it all, and live my life. She even told me that she held it against my Dad when he got her pregnant with me, her first child.

Thanks, Rain, for your good words and advice. However, some people, even one who gave birth to me, are toxic, and should be avoided at all costs. I try to be the father to my kids that my dad was with me, always there for me and supportive in every possible way. Thanks, Dad, wherever you are.
I don't fucking understand this either why so many fucking mothers become so toxic and its always the same shit with the inheritance and then trying to fuck up your marriage to make you miserable like they become. I also experience this almost daily. This is becoming way to common and thats what they take to the grave with them all this toxic and stubbornness, hate and misery etc....at least you are not stuck with the funeral costs even though your bro is getting the inheritance. Its soo pointless and such a waste. They back themselves in this dark place that they cant get out. I blame ego for this, we all have it and probably why you choose now to stay far away from her. She gets off at trying to make you miserable because you chose your dads side and will use whatever tools she has at her disposal like the inheritance to hurt you.


It seems like you already made your decision to try and delete her from your life. An option you always have is just to accept her as she is, don't expect anything from her, support her when she wants to give the money to your brother without causing harm to you and ask her how you can help to make this process better. Obviously shield your wife and family from her ills but it shouldn't stop you if you decide to not follow in her way of life.

Just some thoughts I thought I’d share as I share many of the experiences that you have mentioned.

I think the solution is just to kill the ego, and I don't believe it kills who we are. The ego is like our prison that locks us from our spiritual enlightenment.
 

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I grew up in an alcohol free home. Unlike other kids I did not have the urge to drink in order to fit in
Interesting. I would have thought growing up in an alcohol free home would have the opposite effect: making that urge to drink in social situations stronger.

I grew up in a relatively strict household. My brothers and I grew up in fear of our father (though he was never what I would consider abusive). There was some physical punishment involved (spanking, strapping), but only when well-merited. I truly believe it made us disciplined and that has helped me later on in life. My parents taught us how to be good people.

That said, one thing that stuck with us was the stress. My parents were high-strung individuals and us kids picked up on that. They both worked full-time while raising us themselves (no nannies or daycare). While they were able to give us virtually anything we desired, it took its toll in other ways. I don't know if it's the lingering effects of growing up with stress or simply the way life is in the modern world, but us brothers are all high-strung as well, which isn't a healthy way to live. I do wonder what would have been better: having parents that were more laidback but who didn't set us up as well for success, or being set up for success but living with crap loads of stress?
 

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You were and continue to be a great man. In my case, my mother constantly attacked my dad emotionally. I was not brave enough to come to his defense. My dad deserved a lot better from his son. He suffered depression because of it and the complications took him away from me far too soon.
That sucks. Sorry shakenbake.

Not on the same level, but my mom definitely knew how to be emotionally manipulative. She could wield scorn and guilt against both my brothers and father with expertise, in order to get us to do what she wanted. As a kid, I fell right into. Now it just annoys me when I see her do it to my dad (the only one it really works on still).
 

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Interesting. I would have thought growing up in an alcohol free home would have the opposite effect: making that urge to drink in social situations stronger.

I grew up in a relatively strict household. My brothers and I grew up in fear of our father (though he was never what I would consider abusive). There was some physical punishment involved (spanking, strapping), but only when well-merited. I truly believe it made us disciplined and that has helped me later on in life. My parents taught us how to be good people.

That said, one thing that stuck with us was the stress. My parents were high-strung individuals and us kids picked up on that. They both worked full-time while raising us themselves (no nannies or daycare). While they were able to give us virtually anything we desired, it took its toll in other ways. I don't know if it's the lingering effects of growing up with stress or simply the way life is in the modern world, but us brothers are all high-strung as well, which isn't a healthy way to live. I do wonder what would have been better: having parents that were more laidback but who didn't set us up as well for success, or being set up for success but living with crap loads of stress?
I think you're better off the way how things panned out. Stress are easily relieved...since you're already in terb...you probably managed that "stress" in different "ways"...My kids are growing up knowing everything in life needs to be earned. Trust, reward and punishment. I'm not saying everything is fine and dandy and smooth as kids are growing, they start to think they are smarter than adults...lol...but we have open communication...meaning my kids can ask me anything about anything and they aren't even shy bringing topics that sometimes raise both eyebrows...but ok, you wanna know it now? Growing up then and now are worlds apart. Back in the day, anything mostly sexual on TV (baywatch) or magazine is taboo and you're a bad kid...nowadays...well...
 
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