I am happy to pay fees to fully take advantage of sites. I am on a 90 day enhanced member thing with AFF. I am a hard match since I am 70 and only intersted in women 20-40 - just not attracted to older women and there are young gals that enjoy older men. I am into slimmer body types and for me large manmade breasts are a turnoff and avoided. I have had huge success with great contacts at Phoenix strip clubs for my type of quality touch intimacy but want to do more than lap dancing and never interested in "extra's". Also spoiled by so many good experiences of 15 years of trips to Toronto between strip clubs, nude-reverse body rubs and escort/companions. I am spoiled by smooth skin of younger women
The escort/massage industry is very difficut in Phoenix and the U.S. with legal issues, follow up from contacts and so few legitimate review boards left after FOSTA. Especially since I am more interested in sensual, intelligence, connection for the moment vs "hot" and sexy.
When I joined up with AFF (paid about $100 for 3 months) I scanned about 200 of gals with the most recent activiity (last few weeks) within about 15 miles and the 20-40 age range and looked at profiles for hints of my interests more than just "hot". In gals profiles they list the age range they are seeking and in their profile shows matches if age compatable and other factors.
I did a rather extensive profile, did all the optional question things and included a few pictures with nice clothes and included my professional shot etc.
From the about 200 scanned I sent a message of introduction to about 20 with an opening specific to them and the rest mostly canned and they have a nice auto repeat last message can use for next response.
I received within a few days 5 responses that seemed real that were possibly interested in meeting. One in particular and suggested communicating more directly. So I responded with my e-mail and phone. Not hearing anything after a few days I checked back at AFF to find she had gone no longer available.
I responded to the other 4 also suggesting more direct contact after I thought first one had a good idea instead of just short chit chat with messages. I am very busy in business life and no time for just the usual how are you type conversations but more serious and wanting to meet or dicuss more by phone. No reply to my reply to those.
A 6th gal replied that was surprised I didn't recognize her! She turned out to be one of the few escorts I met with in Phoenix but her pictures and stats looked and were much younger than the gal I knew so didn't think it was her.
Its been about a week now since last cheked back due to busy in business. But direct messages are fowarded by e-mail.
Since I paid to be a feature thing I get scans of messages out of the blue from all aged women from all over the world not matching my search criteia which I delete. Some I assume are fake bots
I do like the structure of AFF, some gals write quite extensive profiles. Some are obviously looking for a sugar dady and some are looking for a husband. Those of course I do not consider.
I also read women's posts of various forums reporting the quickly get fed up with all the guys wanting to talk sex, send picture of their penis's or are just time wasters.
I did it (and still am) as an experiment without any high expectations. I am not desperate, not into games or nonsense talk but enjoy younger women interested in quality sensual intimacy that is more than just sex acts along with some personality and intelligence.
I have met many over the decades in Toronto as escorts etc but want to try hand at real non-paid mutually enjoyable interactions if that is possible.
Instead of my usual June trip to Toronto I am booked for Frankfort Germany and look forward to visting FKK clubs etc during my 9 day stay.
In the meantime going to work AFF more until my 3 months expires and time permitting tackle massage and companion possible options here in Phoenix.