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Sex worker writes a scathing open letter to all her clients.

Tashki

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I came across this letter and I must say i was left quite unsettled after reading it all. To view people in that way who you engaged in a sexual activity with is something I could never do personally. There's alot of other SWs that think this way about their clients which is a bit sad but that's the reality. Makes me think twice about how I should interact with my regulars now.

https://www.news.com.au/finance/bus...r/news-story/6f28870d436544514a909d581467d06f
 

Nesbot

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I find it hard to believe that guys actually think very attractive women who do this for money are every doing it for pleasure. If they were, they wouldnt take the money right?
 
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I find it hard to believe that guys actually think very attractive women who do this for money are every doing it for pleasure. If they were, they wouldnt take the money right?
Wait. If a guy loves his job, does he do it for free? Or does he figure he is one lucky guy to be paid for doing what he loves? I would suspect women would feel the same.

I was lucky enough to know a couple SP who actually did love sex and enjoyed their job ... mostly. There were always some customers who made it tough for them to enjoy. Like other jobs some days and some customers made the job easier than others. But yes, the large majority of SP are not like that.
 

kherg007

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Whoa. Think of the worst girlfriend you ever had. Then it is easier to put her words in context ....lol
 

Scarey

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I've met several women over the years who would just as soon cut your cock off as suck it for compensation. I pick up the cues pretty quickly and move on. This lady sounds particularly bitter, and I suspect if she spent 3 years slinging burgers, she'd write the same hateful letter to anyone who came through the drive thru. Ah well...next
 

wigglee

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She's a miserable bitch and damaged goods.... sad. Maybe she's happier now that she retired, but I doubt it.
 

4pack

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I find it hard to believe that guys actually think very attractive women who do this for money are every doing it for pleasure. If they were, they wouldnt take the money right?
I thought young women are naturally attracted to men three times their age? Who wouldn't like to DFK grandpa?
 

glamphotographer

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Holy Shit! Reading that letter made me depressed. I know I'm paying for a fantasy and I don't want to date the SP. I know my boundries. But Fuck! I'm thinking I should just stop this hobby.
 
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Polaris

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Hey, is that really you?

I must admit, I find that typewriter more interesting.

That, my dear, personifies the person. You.

Agree, that other woman was a jerk. Doubt she had many regulars.

:beguiled:
 

Grimnul

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Yeah, this definitely seems like it was written/published by people with agendas.

Now, I have no doubt that sex workers endure a lot of shit. Particularly ones working in brothels or red light districts where they have less control over who they see. I know for a fact they get a lot of bad clients who just view them as a hole to fuck and don’t care about their comfort in the least, and dealing with that kind of shit sucks.

I also know there are girls who get a lot of regulars who they genuinely enjoy spending time with. I’m here in Amsterdam right now and I saw one of my regular ladies the other day. I paid for an hour, I was with her for nearly 2 and a half hours. She could’ve asked for more money. She knows I’d have given it to her. She could’ve asked me to leave. She knows I would have without complaint. She didn’t. We were enjoying each other’s company. Most of the girls I see get most of their business from regulars and prefer it that way.

My point being that while yes, this is a job, not all girls are completely bitter and automatically hate all their clients. To me, that sort of attitude speaks a lot more about the girl than it does about her clients. People are people. Some are gonna be dicks. To hate all people because some are shitty to you is an extremely unhealthy attitude to have.
 
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There are SPs that enjoy what they do. There are some that do not. You can say this about people in other jobs. I know a social worker that is in it for the power trip over people and not to be a benefit to society. This SP is in it for the money and she has anger issues, probably from her pre SP days.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I find it hard to believe that guys actually think very attractive women who do this for money are every doing it for pleasure. If they were, they wouldnt take the money right?
You mean to tell me you would say no to money for having sex? Really? Because why?

Or anything actually. You have a hobby or activity that you like, you are telling me you would not take money for doing the same thing? Or the only way to prove you enjoy something is to do it for free?

Sorry but that makes no sense to me. I like sex, I like money, I get both. Yay me!


As for the letter - I would not be taking it to heart. For women in this industry that feel this way, get out. Do something else.

Prostitutes only exist because men like you feel you have the right to satisfy your sexual urges using the orifices of other people’s bodies.
This is one of the bullshit lines that should tell you it is not to be taken seriously. No honey, it exists because both sides are using the other. Men for sex, friendship, companionship, ease, variety etc. Women for sex, money, security and independent living.

There are plenty of other options to get all of those in life. Don't like this way, use another.
 

rhuarc29

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Sounds like a pathetic person who takes no responsibility for her choices. This is the West, ripe with opportunities. Unless it's a trafficking scenario, a woman isn't forced to be a prostitute. That's a choice she made for the "fast money" as she calls it. Being customer-oriented myself in my job, I find it disgusting that she would view her clients that way.
 

VERYBADBOY

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I've read the book ... this is just one story of many about the dark side of prostitution and on the lighter side given the other contributors prose. Many of the ladies were trafficked and had no freewill or choice and the locations were big cities, not third world, and I felt that many held back while others poured out what was left of their souls.

It's a better read than most of the threads here.

VBB
 

Samantha Jones

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Pros of being an adult entertainer;

-less hours than 9-5
-the $
-social
-intimate

cons;
-sometimes unpredictable
-expenses
-foreplay is forgotten
-some people don't know how to kiss
 

lynn_ha

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You mean to tell me you would say no to money for having sex? Really? Because why?

Or anything actually. You have a hobby or activity that you like, you are telling me you would not take money for doing the same thing? Or the only way to prove you enjoy something is to do it for free?

Sorry but that makes no sense to me. I like sex, I like money, I get both. Yay me!


As for the letter - I would not be taking it to heart. For women in this industry that feel this way, get out. Do something else.



This is one of the bullshit lines that should tell you it is not to be taken seriously. No honey, it exists because both sides are using the other. Men for sex, friendship, companionship, ease, variety etc. Women for sex, money, security and independent living.

There are plenty of other options to get all of those in life. Don't like this way, use another.
Jessica Rain, well said!

Like any profession most like what we do for a living & a few just want to do something else but haven't wanted to make the change so they just complain about their lousy predicament. Most guys realize they are being played & won't repeat, so her business will suffer as a consequence.
 

razor10

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Most of that open letter is a joke. It's nothing more than her complaining about her view of how men feel about hobbying. She was not forced into being a prostitute so why complain so much about it.
Only parts I agree on are guys should be respecting her boundaries.
The rest it sounds as if she wanted a guy to "save" her and when one gets close with compliments etc he goes on to do the deed and then he becomes just like all the rest and is nothing more than a guy who has no moral compass. Give me a break. Take a look in the mirror.
 

Insidious Von

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Someone give me her phone number. If I get invited to Rabbie Burns Dinner again, I'll take her with me.

MmmmmMm Gooooood Eatin.

 

Brill

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I think her story is true for many sexworkers, even some who are independent and in control of their business. More woman see it as the only way due to economic problems.
Show them appreciation, kindness and respect. Same with anyone you interact with in the service industry.
 

Grimnul

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Respect is absolutely key. A lot of guys who do this stuff seem to forget that sex workers are people too. Treat them how you would want to be treated. As an added bonus, they’ll probably treat you a lot better too.
 
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