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    Why SP hesitate to send picture as prove?

    Beside the obvious (scam). If she is the girl who is in the ad. Why SP seems to hesistate to send picture to prove?

    I just want to be more understanding from SP presepctive.

    Sure I understand there are weirdo/ crazy guy out there but if the request of picture prove is no different than the style (ie no face shown) of picture posted on the ad. Why not?

    "The pictures is me, come and see me yourself" almost directly translate into scam with Leo ads these day.

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    Just move onto the next one if they make excuses. Simple as that.

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    Exactly... but always wonder if it is too unreasonable to ask for picture prove. SPs are well aware of scammer these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honyoku View Post
    Beside the obvious (scam). If she is the girl who is in the ad. Why SP seems to hesistate to send picture to prove?

    I just want to be more understanding from SP presepctive.

    Sure I understand there are weirdo/ crazy guy out there but if the request of picture prove is no different than the style (ie no face shown) of picture posted on the ad. Why not?

    "The pictures is me, come and see me yourself" almost directly translate into scam with Leo ads these day.
    Do you know how many times she would have to do this in a day if she did this for every guy who texts and asks?

    That is why many post selfies. So they can take a couple of pics and post for everyone to see instead of having to repeatedly do it individually.

    And when that does happen, those end up in her ad as well anyway.
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    I wouldn't give a photo to anyone who asks, and neither would any other SP I know. Why? Well first because how are we supposed to distinguish a legit client from a time-wasting pic collector? Do you know how many men ask for photos? It's a pretty ridiculous request to be honest, and if you're doing your research on the person it should be fairly obvious who is fake and who isn't.

    Until pic collectors cease to exist, most SPs won't bother sending extra photos.

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    If you feel like there is a chance the person isn’t who they say they are, isn’t it better to move on? I think if a legitimate escort with a web presence is asked to prove herself, you’re putting her in a defensive position which cannot be a positive thing. As AmberRose mentioned, there are countless picture collectors out there and while it may be a temporary boost to an ego to think about someone pleasuring themselves to images of you, I personally would prefer experiencing that in person where I can get some gratification too hahaha.

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    Thanks for all the input ladies and gents

    I am just getting frustrated with my ecounter lately which all seems to be "come and see me, pics are me" and totally wasted time when the door is open.


    I totally understand from the amount of time required if to take picture for every client asked nd picture collector concern.

    I guess I should be more specific with my question. I am mainly referring to SP who are on LL with no history to be found other than the pictures on the ad.

    Perhaps a mutual solution between scammer/picture collector might be SP can take just 1 selfie with a date that she is working and send that to whoever is asking for prove?

    From a client stand point, I can accept a picture like that instead of a specific gesture that might have request?

    Honestly just want to find a way that works for both SPs and clients

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    I can't believe that no one has suggested simply running a reverse image search.

    Or as I keep repeating; using your common sense and asking if an SP who looks like a professional model or porn star is really going to be charging "poverty club" rates and working out of a sketchbag location.

    Even bedroom/bathroom mirror selfies should be taken with a grain of salt if they're on classifieds sites like LeoList.

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    No one but time wasters and pic collectors have asked me this. See someone who is reputable. To me it seems like the asker doesn't do their homework and is not good at choosing a reputable provider if they insist. So many times a provider has just taken photos for that ad so it doesn't make sense to waste time trying to convince one guy when others are wanting to book without demanding photos. See someone who has a web prescence and reviews then - problem solved. I think it's the bargain hunting with unknown providers that cause clients the most problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotte.Edwards View Post
    See someone who is reputable. To me it seems like the asker doesn't do their homework and is not good at choosing a reputable provider if they insist.

    See someone who has a web prescence and reviews then - problem solved. I think it's the bargain hunting with unknown providers that cause clients the most problems.
    For some the hunger is all about finding someone new, with this does come some risks yet all providers were once new before someone took a chance on them. Some providers, most, were likely discovered by one such of these gentlemen. If all clients only visited reputable providers how would new wonderful providers be discovered, they wouldn't. Some may refer to them as bargain hunters, perhaps for some this applies, but for others it's all about the rush of being with someone new and discovering a hidden gem. Food for thought.
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    I have been offered to be sent pics without solicitation by 3 SPs this year alone. Which leads me to believe they are being asked quite often. I never questioned there identity they freely said, Im sending you a pic choose any pose you want.

    It is very reassuring to know that I'm not wasting time and effort driving to god knows where only to be met with a faker. As far as pic collecting goes, I'm sure it goes on and it is crazy to me. What possible benefit can there be in collecting SP pictures? Maybe before the days of the internet, but now a days? Just baffles the mind. I know their are plenty of weirdos out there that do though.

    Like was mentioned previously, you just have to be sensible. A model looking SP is NOT going to be posting on LL charging 160/HR. It just ain't gonna happen. But as long as guys are stupid enough to believe the pics are real, go all the way to the incall, then proceed with the encounter even after the letdown of the fake pics, this will continue. And guys have proven time and time again that they will never stop falling for obviously fake pics. Just browse the forums here and you'll see 4 or 5 per week asking if anyone has seen a certain SP. You click on the link and you don't even have to do an internet search to know its a fake. Then you think "how the hell does this guy think this is real?"

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    I get asked all the time for pics and I say no .. I have a website a twitter and I am member on both review board with a load of reviews so if the client is not willing to make his research before he text me , why would I start sending random pics .. It is not only anoying but a very big waste of my time .. I like to focus on the serious clients and serious clients will make some research before he text. On my advertisement I do include all of the links to my website , twitter ect .. as well as the link to my reviews and a lot of pics so I think it is enough to know that I am a well established provider ..
    My biggest problem in this industry is the people that doesn’t take the time to read the ads before they text .. It takes 1000 texts to answer to questions like :
    -What are your rates
    -what are your restrictions
    -Are you bbfs
    -Can you come to my hotel
    - Can you send me a pic
    -Do you have a shower there
    - Do you greek
    - Can I book at 2am
    -Can you do 60min for 100

    NOOOOO !!!!


    Jesus !!! My schedule , location, rates , restrictions and ALL OF MY INFO is well mentioned on my ads ...

    Sorry I had to vent ... This grinds my gear big time ....

    Back to sweet me ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honyoku View Post

    almost directly translate into scam with Leo ads these day.
    You just answered your own question

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    If I am spending 500-1500 for 2 hours photoshoot for 8-15 pictures, 50 for pro make up, 50 for hair, a bunch for new lingerie, I show my face, Im cover of tattoos. Yeah pretty sure I wont send a selfie nor do I need to prove who I am

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmberRose View Post
    and if you're doing your research on the person it should be fairly obvious who is fake and who isn't.
    ^^ amen

    Quote Originally Posted by Nesbot View Post
    Just browse the forums here and you'll see 4 or 5 per week asking if anyone has seen a certain SP. You click on the link and you don't even have to do an internet search to know its a fake. Then you think "how the hell does this guy think this is real?"
    ^^ yup

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackpanther View Post
    Just move onto the next one if they make excuses. Simple as that.
    Quote Originally Posted by StillROAMing View Post
    OP, I appreciate your post.

    As Bp stated, "Just move on to the next one." This is true. We all have choices, so too do providers though.
    I've seen providers regularly who post, "I don't send pics.", "These pics are mine, thanks." or "Don't ask for pics, I will not send any." and I vouch for these ladies ALL of their pics are real.

    I've asked most of them why.
    The most common reply is, "I'm already busy enough."
    Their real life, entertaining clients, getting ready, replying to countless messages and from different Social Medias, keeping their work place clean, staying hygienic, posting ads...all these add up. On top of this they have many requests to send a pic while doing a specific gesture, mostly all asking for different ones. Sure, I agree it would help their business but some figure if what they are doing isn't good enough for you to simply move along. Terb is roughly only ten percent of this industry as much as one member posting proof here would help some, in reality it would be of little help. We, some, have drawn a line on what we are willing or are comfortable with to share as a screening process and so too have some of the ladies. It is what it is.

    Do what you feel is comfortable for you.
    Quote Originally Posted by StillROAMing View Post
    For some the hunger is all about finding someone new, with this does come some risks yet all providers were once new before someone took a chance on them. Some providers, most, were likely discovered by one such of these gentlemen. If all clients only visited reputable providers how would new wonderful providers be discovered, they wouldn't. Some may refer to them as bargain hunters, perhaps for some this applies, but for others it's all about the rush of being with someone new and discovering a hidden gem. Food for thought.
    +1. I don't think OP is talking about reputable and well reviewed ladies. If the pics are not verified on LL, then I don't even bother. I appreciate ladies with all the info in their Ad with verfied pics, so we don't waste each other's time.

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    So the main thing is that you have to be smart about asking for proof. If you spend time on Twitter and here in Terb you will get to know the legitimate providers that you dont have to ask for proof. Websites are a good thing as well as I have yet to hear about it experience a fake who took the time to make a fake website. Although it could happen.

    I also agree with the comment that a well established SP was once just starting out. The providers we need to ask these questions are ones that are not obvious that they are fake.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hoffa68 View Post
    So the main thing is that you have to be smart about asking for proof. If you spend time on Twitter and here in Terb you will get to know the legitimate providers that you dont have to ask for proof. Websites are a good thing as well as I have yet to hear about it experience a fake who took the time to make a fake website. Although it could happen.

    I also agree with the comment that a well established SP was once just starting out. The providers we need to ask these questions are ones that are not obvious that they are fake.
    Even when I was new though I didn't have to send anyone selfies or beg for business. I worry some guys get sucked into hustler types who over promise and under deliver and then they mistakenly think if someone sends them a selfie they are for sure real. There's no guarantee either. So many steal photos from instagram all the time, or even other ads.

    I put up realistic selfies, made my price and services clear and made a website and it was relatively straight forward with me getting established. I find too many clients are looking for a cheap deal and overlooking those who may be pimped out or on drugs and simply don't care if the price is right unfortunately.

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    A newspaper is a dollar, take a pic with that days newspaper and have it ready for those who ask. Too many fakes out there and people stealing other peoples pics and names. Again though, how someone wants to run their business is up to them

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