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hoffa68

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I doubt very much that the po po is going after any email transfers of $50. That sort of paper trail is not worth their time. My only concern is for anyone in this business knowing my real identity. I know the risk is low that a SP would expose my true identity but it only takes one misunderstanding and a nose out of joint to ruin all that.

Also my real account is with TD and I have not been able to change the name.
 

xeena

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Overwhelming majority is a ‘No’ and looking at the discomfort level, probably not a good decision on my part to implement this screening procedure.

Thank you once again.

Xoxo Xeena.
 
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OnTheWayOut

Overwhelming majority is a ‘No’ and looking at the discomfort level, probably not a good decision on my part to implement this screening procedure.

Thank you once again.

Xoxo Xeena.
Xeena, good on you to test the waters before jumping in and having common sense to make smart business decisions. I hear you are sexy as fuck too. You are still on my TDL and moving up the list.... :happy:
 

Jasmine Raine

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I think maybe looking to change up your screening methods before looking into deposit may be better.

I use to be a supporter of deposits and I won't begrudge a lady for doing what she must but I've seen way to many threads lately of guys being ripped off.

I think SP reference, SM presence, non text app, these work good for me. I have had two cancelations from two clients repeatedly this year. That is it. Granted I don't work as much but I get a lot of attempts from time wasters. I also use only one email address for advertising and that is set up to an auto-responder that again - redirects clients to my site.

These used in combination is what has helped me. I wouldn't do deposit unless it was for 3hrs or more in booking from a new client who could not be properly vetted but still deemed safe.

My PM is open to you if you want to mull over your process together and see where we might be able to make some changes that help you a bit better.
 

OttFunseeker

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Just as an FYI, Tangerine let’s you change your email and display name for each transaction. Or at least they used to. Haven’t sent anything recently.

But I’m also against e-transfers within this industry, sorry Xeena!
 

randomott

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I wouldn't be intetested in an e-transfer unless it was from an account that allowed me to change my name. That said, everyone who thinks they are being sneaky while posting on this website makes me chuckle. I will challenge anyone to name any client in Ottawa who has been arrested in the last 5 years for solicitation or anything else where repugnant behaviour is not involved (ie: street walkers). I know what the law is but the cops do not care and will not care. I have this on very good authority.
 

JohnnyFever

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I wouldn't be intetested in an e-transfer unless it was from an account that allowed me to change my name. That said, everyone who thinks they are being sneaky while posting on this website makes me chuckle. I will challenge anyone to name any client in Ottawa who has been arrested in the last 5 years for solicitation or anything else where repugnant behaviour is not involved (ie: street walkers). I know what the law is but the cops do not care and will not care. I have this on very good authority.
You really think cops are the primary reason for discretion?
 

randomott

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You really think cops are the primary reason for discretion?
No not at all, that's why I still said I would still never pay by e-transfer if I could not conceal my name.

Who might this be?
Police officers. I meet a lot through my career and have become friends with a couple. Don't take my word for it, like I said try and find anyone who has been arrested in the last 5 years where no repugnant behaviour is involved.
 

Hughlongly

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You know it's interesting. When it comes to Law Enforcement, there needs to be a primary reason for investigation. So, for example; street walkers are considered a public safety issue due to the clients they bring into an area as well as their pimps and dealers. There's no nice way of saying it; but many many persons who work on the street have addiction issues (and often coupled with mental health challenges). It's a sad fact. The old law before amendment by the Harper Government actually spoke to the 'stopping of traffic', and it may have even listed carriages, as in horse and buggy. That's how old it was. The Laws were amended after a group of women in Toronto challenged and won on grounds their charter rights were being violated, (which they were). Police still do regular sweeps for street issues, but have moved the emphasis away from the workers, shifting towards the 'johns'. This is all under the guise of public safety. Now, in regards to escorts who advertise and use hotels etc. Police will target and aggressively pursue human traffickers. Which in my opinion, and I'm sure everyone on here, providers and clients, will agree they SHOULD pursue. Sexual slaver, any kind of slavery, is absolutely repugnant and needs to be stamped out permanently. Full stop. Many times Human Traffickers are connected to organized crime. Organized Crime is also worthy of pursuing by the Police, again, for obvious reasons. However, for the most part, if escorts are keeping a low profile, are not causing issues within the community, are not damaging the premises; other than the statue's 'electronic communication' clause etc, there really isn't much reason for Police to pursue the matter. If anything, in the future I could see the entire trade being regulated and licensed, which makes sense for any business (within reason). So you have to ask who's losing in the scenario of a provider advertising and then using, say a hotel? The hotel profits, again providing it doesn't bring unsavory persons into the business which in turn may drop their revenue or that the provider or guests don't damage the room. The provider profits, she/he continues to make a living, if they declare to CRA which they legally can, they'll be taxpayers. If they have a decent screening system they can avoid negative encounters with clients, as well as using forms of ppe to prevent disease. The client profits, as they have achieved their level of intimacy they desired. So, other than the above mentioned negative situations; i.e. human trafficking, organized crime etc, the trade can have a positive economic and sociological impact. There's no obvious reason for Police to pursue this.
 

Kinkylover

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The gents have made it clear overwhelming so - etransfer isn't their thing.

Ladies, feel free to operate the way you like. Just know there are some providers who aren't complaining like you do. Miss Claudia has come to Ottawa, booked a hotel and paid travel expenses on her own. No etransfer, no real phone number and reference needed and most of all, isn't complaining on this board.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...ottawa_playboy_magazine_model_in_town-4293848
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Agencies don't require deposits and have some amazing talent! Nor do they require a reference, or an intro about yourself etc. etc.

The gents have made it clear overwhelming so - etransfer isn't their thing.

Ladies, feel free to operate the way you like. Just know there are some providers who aren't complaining like you do. Miss Claudia has come to Ottawa, booked a hotel and paid travel expenses on her own. No etransfer, no real phone number and reference needed and most of all, isn't complaining on this board.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...ottawa_playboy_magazine_model_in_town-4293848
 

Jasmine Raine

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Agencies don't require deposits and have some amazing talent! Nor do they require a reference, or an intro about yourself etc. etc.
But if you only did that, you never would have met me. So not ALL indies are bad.

In the old days, clients and providers used to talk to each other directly on the phone. You could get a pretty good idea about each other by hearing each other's voices. Why not begin doing that again, instead of just relying on texts? That would be a lot more effective than trying to gauge trustworthiness via money transfers, etc. You can start with texts, but then at some point make sure you insist that you talk to each other directly.
Because how many guys like phone calls now a days? And for ladies like me, I can't have a phone ringing all the time to weed out the good from the bad. I have a day time job.
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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But if you only did that, you never would have met me. So not ALL indies are bad.



Because how many guys like phone calls now a days? And for ladies like me, I can't have a phone ringing all the time to weed out the good from the bad. I have a day time job.

You are absolutely right on both accounts - I have met some wonderful indie girls over the years, many that I miss but they all retired/disappeared. Coincidentally, my next point ties into this as well as your other comment, I was looking at an indie provider and she offered to speak on the phone so I had a 13 minute introductory phone call with her today and needless to say I am booking with her (she is well know here)! :)
 

Jasmine Raine

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You are absolutely right on both accounts - I have met some wonderful indie girls over the years, many that I miss but they all retired/disappeared. Coincidentally, my next point ties into this as well as your other comment, I was looking at an indie provider and she offered to speak on the phone so I had a 13 minute introductory phone call with her today and needless to say I am booking with her (she is well know here)! :)
Yay!!!!! You know how happy that makes me to hear.

Enjoy your time!!!
 

J Smoove

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I can understand the request from an SP for a deposit as she would like to avoid time wasters and to cover hotel and costs. My concern is that of privacy. That's really the thing holding me back from doing so.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Most guys can find a way to sneak out to a private area to take or make a phone call, for a couple of minutes. You make the majority of the arrangements via text, and just take a quick time to confirm with each other as your last step before meeting each other for the first time. One of the arrangements you make on text is what time both of you will be free to make the call to each other. After you've seen each other for the first time, then you can stick to text only.
I must have miss understood what you said.

However, tons of guys don't want to talk on the phone. Contrary to what you may think.
 

Horny_gentleman

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Jan 3, 2018
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TJ, it is not so much the amount, it is the paper trail like others have mentioned and the (potential) loss of privacy.

When you send e-transfer to others, your real name will show up (unless you use an incorporated company name, which can be traced back to you anyway). I have not met xeena so I want to give her the benefit of the doubt but I can't say if my personal information is secure and I don't know if she can guarantee that either. When your real name is known, there are all kind of scenarios that can lead to potential trouble (social media profiles, job positions and company name via LinkedIn so on and so forth.

We all have to make choices. I respect what xeena wants to do but I am in the same boat as Roam, I do not need to see SPs/MAs who ask for e-transfers. Just like they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea...
You can also send an email transfer and change your name.
 
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