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SP pics? Do you want to see available pics if there is a large weight difference?

Keep All pics, or lose the pics that don't reflect your current weight?


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Jasmine Raine

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So as I am sure some have noticed, I have dropped a lot of weight. The weight I know will be staying off based on how I lost it so that in itself has made it easier for me to actual announce and show the weight loss. Admittedly I would be quite embarrassed if I announced and then put it all back on as fast as I lost it. So I kind of made sure that is not going to be the case before I made public announcements. LOL

Now I am kind of stuck with a dilemma and I hoping you good folks here can help me out.

I just did a new photo shoot that will go live on my site in a couple of weeks. I have a couple of albums from shoots before on my site. I think they are great pics too, but they show me about 30lbs heavier. This is a big difference in my "look". For an example of size difference - https://twitter.com/MsJessicaRainSP/status/1026502465422675968

Do I scrap those albums and leave them off my site completely since there is a drastic difference? The albums are dated of course, and I don't have a problem with showing them. That was me, and I thought I was fabulous then, I still think I am fabulous now.

My concern is what potential clients think. Will they feel it is a possible bait and switch? Will they get confused? Will guys who like a bigger girl feel duped if they show up and I am not that size because they were paying attention to the Feb 2018 album and not the Aug 2018 album. I did have one guy get very disappointed in my look once because I started advertising as a BBW and he said I didn't fit that category.

I am not trying to be rude, but we all know guys don't always pay that much attention to words that go along with sites, ads, etc. So basically the question is, scrap the old albums and stick with current weight showing pics, or add the new folder, keep the old ones as well because they are awesome too?

PS - I am not trying to make this an advertising thread, a big me up with compliments thread, an attention seeking thread. I am serious and really want to know what gentlemen would prefer.
 
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shack

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I voted lose the old tpics but an alternative would be to keep the old ones but provide some type of notation of picture dates. I've seen other ladies that have different galleries of pics stating such.
 

Sharemyinkwell

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So as I am sure some have noticed, I have dropped a lot of weight. The weight I know will be staying off based on how I lost it so that in itself has made it easier for me to actual announce and show the weight loss. Admittedly I would be quite embarrassed if I announced and then put it all back on as fast as I lost it. So I kind of made sure that is not going to be the case before I made public announcements. LOL

Now I am kind of stuck with a dilemma and I hoping you good folks here can help me out.

I just did a new photo shoot that will go live on my site in a couple of weeks. I have a couple of albums from shoots before on my site. I think they are great pics too, but they show me about 30lbs heavier. This is a big difference in my "look". For an example of size difference - https://twitter.com/MsJessicaRainSP/status/1026502465422675968

Do I scrap those albums and leave them off my site completely since there is a drastic difference? The albums are dated of course, and I don't have a problem with showing them. That was me, and I thought I was fabulous then, I still think I am fabulous now.

My concern is what potential clients think. Will they feel it is a possible bait and switch? Will they get confused? Will guys who like a bigger girl feel duped if they show up and I am not that size because they were paying attention to the Feb 2018 album and not the Aug 2018 album. I did have one guy get very disappointed in my look once because I started advertising as a BBW and he said I didn't fit that category.

I am not trying to be rude, but we all know guys don't always pay that much attention to words that go along with sites, ads, etc. So basically the question is, scrap the old albums and stick with current weight showing pics, or add the new folder, keep the old ones as well because they are awesome too?

PS - I am not trying to make this an advertisng thread, a big me up with compliments thread, an attention seeking thread. I am serious and really want to know what gentlemen would prefer.

Hi Jeesica,

Ultimately, the decision to keep your previous album is your choice, but in my humble opinion, I think you should keep them all as it's part of you and your history as the Feb, 2018 pics are very sexy. Your new pics from earlier this month are also incredibly sexy and should be celebrated. You can date all your pics/albums so that potential new clients can see what they can expect when they will meet you as there is no bait and switch here; you're too reputable for that.

As for your regular clients, my guess is that they will continue to appreciate you for who you are; sensual and sexy. Weight loss will not affect your attitude regarding intimacy as I believe you truly understand this.

For the gentleman who "was disappointed" that you didn't reflect the type of BBW he was expecting, well that's on him and should be considered subjective.

I say "Own it" and "Project it". I for one think you look great
 

IFUSEEKAMY

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Your latest sig pics look vastly different from your previous ones. If there wasn’t such a huge discrepancy, I’d say keep both albums but I’m leaning more towards showing current pics even if not a professional shoot. You could always put your older albums on a separate page, perhaps beside your past reviews for reminiscing sake. Btw kudos to you on the lifestyle/health changes.
 

Ilick

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Congrats on the weight loss - it's always a good thing from a health perspective. Just post the date the pics and if you have stats, update them every so often. Then you can keep the old pics but it's not false representation. Not dating them is the issue.

I have seen on a few sites albums with the month/year. I also saw a site where the lady's head was shaved but earlier she had long hair. She made the point that she is currently sporting the short cut.
 

rhuarc29

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Since the goal of the pics is to accurately represent your current self for the purposes of attracting clientele, I'd say lose the old pics.

Also, congrats on the weight lost! I've been on that wheel before, and know how tough it can be. 30lbs is a hell of an accomplishment.
 
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Jasmine Raine

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I voted lose the old tpics but an alternative would be to keep the old ones but provide some type of notation of picture dates. I've seen other ladies that have different galleries of pics stating such.
That is what I started doing 2 shoots ago. Listed Christmas 2017, Valentines 2018. And I date my candid and member albums with dates so they know the latest pics added are brand new.

I say "Own it" and "Project it". I for one think you look great
Personally, that is my nature attitude in life. So I am fine to show before and after. If I do gain some back, all back, more back - I would own all that too.

I guess my concern is for more "professionalism" and accuracy for the client. I just don't want to be the girl who disappointed at the door. If that makes sense.

Your latest sig pics look vastly different from your previous ones. If there wasn’t such a huge discrepancy, I’d say keep both albums but I’m leaning more towards showing current pics even if not a professional shoot. You could always put your older albums on a separate page, perhaps beside your past reviews for reminiscing sake. Btw kudos to you on the lifestyle/health changes.
Thank you so much for replying. I don't know but hearing from a lady makes so much difference. I would LOVE to hear from more ladies on the matter. I know I am not the only one in this industry who has had weight changes.

I like the seperate page idea. I may not do a completely different page but certainly a clear cut page break with a note. Be as trasnparent as possible. Thank again for that.

Congrats on the weight loss - it's always a good thing from a health perspective. Just post the date the pics and if you have stats, update them every so often. Then you can keep the old pics but it's not false representation. Not dating them is the issue.

I have seen on a few sites albums with the month/year. I also saw a site where the lady's head was shaved but earlier she had long hair. She made the point that she is currently sporting the short cut.
I totally agree that if they stay, they dated like they already are. And for the two ablums that are even older that I don't have label, I will be correcting that ASAP.

I didn't think about the hair thing. That would be something that would be a drastic difference. And for some ladies they love changing it up almost daily if they could. I know my daughter was like that. Didn't know what she would like in the morning LOL

Definiately interesting. I will be looking into some Alt ladies { i hope that is the right term} to see how they ensure their clients know their current "look" as opposed to her other pics in her full photo collection.

Thanks

Since the goal of the pics is to accurate represent your current self for the purposes of attracting clientele, I'd say lose the old pics.

Also, congrats on the weight lost! I've been on that wheel before, and know how tough it can be. 30lbs is a hell of an accomplishment.
That is EXACTLY why I am asking. That is my biggest concern. For the client.

Thank you.
 

little steven

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Hi Jessica, please keep all your pics. As a client I like to see who you are when I saw you before and who you are now. You are beautiful at any weight.
 

Sharemyinkwell

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Personally, that is my nature attitude in life. So I am fine to show before and after. If I do gain some back, all back, more back - I would own all that too.

I would expect nothing less from you Jessica... You rock it
 

Jasmine Raine

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Hi Jessica, please keep all your pics. As a client I like to see who you are when I saw you before and who you are now. You are beautiful at any weight.
Thank you. I am leaning towards keeping them all but moving the older pics down the page with a disclaimer. So no worries, plus you get all the pics in the member's section too, which I won't remove any of the old ones there either.

Also as a client of Amy's as well, I think a duo might be in order. Ladies?
Hahaha. Duos with Amy, Duos with Parker...... Certainly, something to think about.....

That is awesome and very very helpful. Thank you

Personally, that is my nature attitude in life. So I am fine to show before and after. If I do gain some back, all back, more back - I would own all that too.

I would expect nothing less from you Jessica... You rock it
I try.... Well actually I don't, I am just me, but we will go with - I try. LOL
 

Parker@TDL

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I think it's easier to just show your new pics!! People do get confused even if you really make the dates of pics noticeable so that they know they're old or New. I think its best to advertise who you are at the moment:):). Obviously, whatever you want is the right decision and you were fabulous then and you're fabulous now!! Ps this duo idea sounds pretty spectacular...maybe even a trio with me, you and Amy!!! That might kill the man though lol...not the intended result:):)
 

Samantha Jones

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After having guests complain before, I decided to try and update mine as much as possible.. esp on social media which I always link to my ads. Shoots are expensive but I try to do them at least once a year- if not more since I like getting creative.
 

Ilick

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After having guests complain before, I decided to try and update mine as much as possible.. esp on social media which I always link to my ads. Shoots are expensive but I try to do them at least once a year- if not more since I like getting creative.
Since many guys are skeptical of "professional" photos that may be altered, airbrushed, etc., why don't ladies just use selfie's/amateur pics? You'll save some cash and guys will appreciate more realistic representations.

I once had a girl ask me to photograph her afterwards and it was posted on her social media. I feel most photos are similar to food ads - that burger pictured looks bigger/juicier than the real thing (sorry I don't mean to compare ladies to food - just making a point). Most people would trust an Instagram photo of someone's meal though as a clear picture of what to expect.
 

Smallcock

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After having guests complain before, I decided to try and update mine as much as possible.. esp on social media which I always link to my ads. Shoots are expensive but I try to do them at least once a year- if not more since I like getting creative.
The SP photos I enjoy most are the ones they take for free on their phone and post to Twitter/Snapchat/Instagram. Without the gloss, special lighting, and airbrushing, you get a better idea of what to expect.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Since many guys are skeptical of "professional" photos that may be altered, airbrushed, etc., why don't ladies just use selfie's/amateur pics? You'll save some cash and guys will appreciate more realistic representations.

I once had a girl ask me to photograph her afterwards and it was posted on her social media. I feel most photos are similar to food ads - that burger pictured looks bigger/juicier than the real thing (sorry I don't mean to compare ladies to food - just making a point). Most people would trust an Instagram photo of someone's meal though as a clear picture of what to expect.
You would be surprised the number of guys who won't book without pro pics, pro site, etc. First, there are the ones that are just scared if you don't have these. Then there are the guys who feel they are not paying you $250/hr if you won't even folk out for a pro site or pics. And there is a whole bunch in between.

Then on the flip side, you have guys who won't book with pro pics, only selfies.

This is why I put both. Pro and Selfie. It is hard being an escort, I tell ya. LOL.
 
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