So as I am sure some have noticed, I have dropped a lot of weight. The weight I know will be staying off based on how I lost it so that in itself has made it easier for me to actual announce and show the weight loss. Admittedly I would be quite embarrassed if I announced and then put it all back on as fast as I lost it. So I kind of made sure that is not going to be the case before I made public announcements. LOL
Now I am kind of stuck with a dilemma and I hoping you good folks here can help me out.
I just did a new photo shoot that will go live on my site in a couple of weeks. I have a couple of albums from shoots before on my site. I think they are great pics too, but they show me about 30lbs heavier. This is a big difference in my "look". For an example of size difference - https://twitter.com/MsJessicaRainSP/status/1026502465422675968
Do I scrap those albums and leave them off my site completely since there is a drastic difference? The albums are dated of course, and I don't have a problem with showing them. That was me, and I thought I was fabulous then, I still think I am fabulous now.
My concern is what potential clients think. Will they feel it is a possible bait and switch? Will they get confused? Will guys who like a bigger girl feel duped if they show up and I am not that size because they were paying attention to the Feb 2018 album and not the Aug 2018 album. I did have one guy get very disappointed in my look once because I started advertising as a BBW and he said I didn't fit that category.
I am not trying to be rude, but we all know guys don't always pay that much attention to words that go along with sites, ads, etc. So basically the question is, scrap the old albums and stick with current weight showing pics, or add the new folder, keep the old ones as well because they are awesome too?
PS - I am not trying to make this an advertising thread, a big me up with compliments thread, an attention seeking thread. I am serious and really want to know what gentlemen would prefer.
Now I am kind of stuck with a dilemma and I hoping you good folks here can help me out.
I just did a new photo shoot that will go live on my site in a couple of weeks. I have a couple of albums from shoots before on my site. I think they are great pics too, but they show me about 30lbs heavier. This is a big difference in my "look". For an example of size difference - https://twitter.com/MsJessicaRainSP/status/1026502465422675968
Do I scrap those albums and leave them off my site completely since there is a drastic difference? The albums are dated of course, and I don't have a problem with showing them. That was me, and I thought I was fabulous then, I still think I am fabulous now.
My concern is what potential clients think. Will they feel it is a possible bait and switch? Will they get confused? Will guys who like a bigger girl feel duped if they show up and I am not that size because they were paying attention to the Feb 2018 album and not the Aug 2018 album. I did have one guy get very disappointed in my look once because I started advertising as a BBW and he said I didn't fit that category.
I am not trying to be rude, but we all know guys don't always pay that much attention to words that go along with sites, ads, etc. So basically the question is, scrap the old albums and stick with current weight showing pics, or add the new folder, keep the old ones as well because they are awesome too?
PS - I am not trying to make this an advertising thread, a big me up with compliments thread, an attention seeking thread. I am serious and really want to know what gentlemen would prefer.
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