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Samranchoi

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I have seen so many comments about what clients and providers believe when the time to the session starts. There will always be differing opinions on this.

In my experiences however, I have not had an issue of when the clock started on my sessions except for maybe a couple of times and they were pretty bad sessions anyways (service and provider wise). What I find the most awkward situation is "when is the session actually over", whether it is for hh, 45 minutes, one hour or longer, especially for me as I am a very passive individual and usually let the provider dictate the pace of the session unless it is a favorite I have seen many times.

What are the opinions of those on this? To me it seems most guys want to stay in the session, especially if it is a good one for every second that they have paid for and if it is for any time less, they feel "ripped off".
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Aside from two SPs in all the years - every other SP has kicked me out as soon as I cum (+ shower if she allows), not that I agree with that since I paid for a certain amount of time.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Aside from two SPs in all the years - every other SP has kicked me out as soon as I cum (+ shower if she allows), not that I agree with that since I paid for a certain amount of time.
Seriously????? That kind of sucks. You were so much fun when I saw you. I can't imagine ladies kicking you out early.
 

vTHEvDUKEv

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I personally have never repeated with any lady who has kicked me out more than 5 min early. It is extremely insulting. In my experience I would say 50% of highly reviewed ladies know how to be respectful of time. I do not repeat often because of it.
 

thumper18474

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Im actually the clock watcher in our time together...i read all the time about ...he didnf get the hint...didn't pay to extend..so on and so forth that i make it a point of always leaving before my time was up..unless she is the asking me to stay (off the clock..)
 

The "Bone" Ranger

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Seriously????? That kind of sucks. You were so much fun when I saw you. I can't imagine ladies kicking you out early.
Thanks, I had fun too! I am not kidding, as soon as I cum it is like get your shit and leave...at the most some will let me shower but then after that they want me to dress as quickly as possible and leave. Most of them start using their phone and make no effort at making small talk or chit chat and discourage if it try.
 

sempel

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I personally have never repeated with any lady who has kicked me out more than 5 min early. It is extremely insulting. In my experience I would say 50% of highly reviewed ladies know how to be respectful of time. I do not repeat often because of it.
Agree, it's insulting and poor service. I am surprised though at your experiences at it seems you have been getting the short end of the stick more often than not. In my experience most ladies more/less wrap up on time. Agency girls in many cases use a timer so I like to think I'm getting a fair shake but I don't know what they set the timer to - it could be for the time paid for in total (i.e. shower time not included), for the time paid for less the shower time (so a 1 hour appointment is that plus the ending shower time) or for less. It makes you wonder if some ladies take money for an hour and get rid of a guy well below the paid for time - that would be bad. I do make note of the time on my phone when I leave so I do know when I've been given a fair shake or screwed.

Im actually the clock watcher in our time together...i read all the time about ...he didnf get the hint...didn't pay to extend..so on and so forth that i make it a point of always leaving before my time was up..unless she is the asking me to stay (off the clock..)
I call BS on that - who the hell came up with the stupid idea that the client is ever responsible for time? That's garbage and I think those saying it know it. If you go to a massage therapist or a psychiatrist, they let you know when the time is up. I have never been for a massage (RMT/legit) where I piped up that time was up. The onus on keeping track of the time falls on the SP (or MPA) and there's no convincing me otherwise.

Now, once a lady has made it clear the appointment is up, the responsibility falls upon the client to get ready and get out in a reasonable amount of time. My shower to start is always 5 min. My exit shower never takes that long so I'd say a reasonable amount of time to get ready and leave is 5-7 min if taking an ending shower. Any person who dawdles and takes his time getting out or worse, simply sits around and does nothing after clear indication has been given is a bad client.

I have seen some lades that were very generous with their time. I don't know how long one appointment took with one lady but I know I paid for an hour and left maybe 2.5 hours later. We sat and talked for the longest time. Occasionally I asked if I needed to leave and the response was no. Saw another lady recently and similar experience where I left well after my appointment was supposed to end. In these cases, I think the client should occasionally ask if it's ok to stay.

Now, to standardize this, I think the general practice should be appointment starts when the client enters the room (for SP's) and not when he/she gets buzzed with the info. Considering in one recent appointment I was given the wrong room number and another had some issues starting on time because of disorganization, I don't see how this would be considered a fair practice. However, I think the guy has 5 min to get to the door from when the info is provided. Now we say appointment ends X amount of time + ending shower time later where X is the appointment length. So if I paid for 45 min and my appointment is at 1, at 1 I'm given the code, I enter 1:03, buzzer goes off at 1:48, and I have a few minutes to shower and leave.
 

Parker@TDL

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I have seen so many comments about what clients and providers believe when the time to the session starts. There will always be differing opinions on this.

In my experiences however, I have not had an issue of when the clock started on my sessions except for maybe a couple of times and they were pretty bad sessions anyways (service and provider wise). What I find the most awkward situation is "when is the session actually over", whether it is for hh, 45 minutes, one hour or longer, especially for me as I am a very passive individual and usually let the provider dictate the pace of the session unless it is a favorite I have seen many times.

What are the opinions of those on this? To me it seems most guys want to stay in the session, especially if it is a good one for every second that they have paid for and if it is for any time less, they feel "ripped off".
It's over when the time you've booked is done!!! That includes your shower time at the beginning and at the end. It's all rolled in. But not every gent cares to have the full time. For some, the session is done when they've cum. That usually only happens with hh sessions. If that's what they want that is fine but I'm more than happy to keep your company til the end!!!
 

Parker@TDL

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Aside from two SPs in all the years - every other SP has kicked me out as soon as I cum (+ shower if she allows), not that I agree with that since I paid for a certain amount of time.
Makes me so sad, especially since you're so lovely!!
 

einar

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I think there's some distinction in this matter between incalls and outcalls. On an outcall to my home, an agency escort typically has a driver involved in this transaction, and so she tends to be fairly mindful of the clock. With the good agencies I patronize, she is in my presence for maybe 55-60 minutes, and then another few minutes are devoted to showering, arranging for a driver, and chatting with me if there's to be some wait time. The newer escorts often are most time-conscious, the veterans a bit less so.

With indy escorts, their outcall time is often more generous. A paid hour might readily drift closer to 75 or 80 minutes if we click well together.

Indy incalls, as Dawn and Charlotte have suggested, can be generous if the escort wishes, but in my experience are always at least a full paid 60 minutes. I have never booked an indy escort for under an hour - I hate that sense of rushing.

But agency incalls of 30 or 45 minutes tend to be the rush jobs. You're the piece of meat, not the sp.

P.S. Pace sempel, I do indeed find that as the client I am also aware of the passing clock in every sp situation, incall or outcall. I am paying a high fee - several dollars a minute - for an escort's time, and she deserves all of it, and I don't want to cheat her or make her feel uncomfortable. I think both the client and escort sort of jointly monitor the paid time, or at least they should.
 

itd131

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Early on I used to wear my watch so I could keep track of when to depart but I stopped, it looked ridiculous. I now try to note the clock (if there is one) on entry and towards the end to time my departure. A fairly common time is up signal from the sp is - 'would you like a shower?' or perhaps 'thanks for coming to see me'.
Generally I try to check before and after entry to keep track - on time? or did I go over? or was I shorted? - Just for reference for next time, if there is a next time with the sp.
Yes, really wish all providers would have a clock. It's a lot easier to leave on time if I know what time it is. And yes, wearing a watch is not ideal.
 

harryass

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you should think about getting to leave when an SP ask if u like to take a shower, starts getting dressed, fixing the bed covers.
If that ain't clear, she will turn the lights on and off.
If ur not sure just ask her, how is the time? she won't bite, unless its some fetish thing with u.

Agree, I too will never ever repeat with an Sps that kick me out more than 5 minutes from by agreed time.
 

harryass

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What kind of set up do others have?
Some ladies use as reminders:
setup music to play for a certain time. When it finishes, there is say 10 minutes left.
sets a portable timer or use cell phone. I remember one had some kind of egg timer that u set
 

Parker@TDL

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Some ladies use as reminders:
setup music to play for a certain time. When it finishes, there is say 10 minutes left.
sets a portable timer or use cell phone. I remember one had some kind of egg timer that u set
Bahahaha an egg timer?!?!!! Why not just have a clock on the table beside the bed? Have everything you need for the session set up in front of it so whenever you grab what you need you get a reminder of the time.
 

Parker@TDL

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How about a big clock that counts down like at the Leaf game ? With the announcement - "Last minute of play in your appointment" :)

If I've cum early in a 1hr appointment, I want my date snuggled next to me in bed:)
Bahahaha...mounted right over the bed!!! I love some good snuggling. Some time for me to gently run my fingers over their chest, more make out time as well!!!
 

xmontrealer

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You can safely assume it's over for all intents and purposes when she says "So what are you going to do for the rest of the day (evening)?"
 

kherg007

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I am like thumper18474 above, I am much more the clock watcher out of respect for the lady's time. I've never had a lady give me the boot if I blow a bit early however. I will ID a clock or bring my phone to make sure I can keep track..and I get carried away eating up the lady lol...so I want to leave enough time to slap on the safety gear and get onto that part of the festivities....and if it's a new lady I will tell her at the start I'm a 1 sog type of guy so i want to time myself and also not to take advantage of her time. My regs will know about that and why i bring vodka too lol.
 

thumper18474

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Agree, it's insulting and poor service. I am surprised though at your experiences at it seems you have been getting the short end of the stick more often than not. In my experience most ladies more/less wrap up on time. Agency girls in many cases use a timer so I like to think I'm getting a fair shake but I don't know what they set the timer to - it could be for the time paid for in total (i.e. shower time not included), for the time paid for less the shower time (so a 1 hour appointment is that plus the ending shower time) or for less. It makes you wonder if some ladies take money for an hour and get rid of a guy well below the paid for time - that would be bad. I do make note of the time on my phone when I leave so I do know when I've been given a fair shake or screwed.



I call BS on that - who the hell came up with the stupid idea that the client is ever responsible for time? That's garbage and I think those saying it know it. If you go to a massage therapist or a psychiatrist, they let you know when the time is up. I have never been for a massage (RMT/legit) where I piped up that time was up. The onus on keeping track of the time falls on Sp.
NOBODY said the onus was on the client..atleast I didnt
Its my call whether I stay or go..before my fime is up
Why is that so hard for you to comprehend...pushing the time right until the last minute...is a douche move..IMO
What do you think shes gonna do..say baby you were so good i want you to stay longer andtotally fuck my schedule?
Dude the point i was making was that i dont like rushing out the door cus my time is up....the lady should never have to say its time you left(however veiled/subtle it is)
 
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