Lookism — discriminatory treatment of unattractive people — is real, and its effects

MindJohn said:

It isn't about whether or not they're "losers".


They're just... poor decision-makers. (*now here in this arena, it is quite realistic that such a choice is a great boost for business, which is surely a mitigating circumstance, but the lady you meet in the real world isn't likely to volunteer immediately that she made the choice to bring a boost to her moonlighting career.)


If you want to spend an hour, or a week, or a few months with a poor decision-maker, then go ahead.


But it isn't a good bet for a lifetime, particularly if you have other options.

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Maybe I'm misunderstanding but you think women in general who get breast implants are poor-decision makers?

Grimnul said:

I had an ex who I had big problems with sexually because she said I was too big and it hurt to have sex with me. . . . Most girls I’ve talked to have horror stories about guys who were way too big for them and kept hitting their cervix. Bigger is not always better. Probably a lot of guys would be walking around swinging 14 inch horse dicks if they could, but I think most women would run screaming from a dick like that.

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Indeed! I had the opposite experience as you with a college GF. Prior to dating me, she had always wanted to try anal. But was always a bit too scared to try it, thinking it would hurt too much (since she didn't like more than 2 fingers when she tried 'experimenting' on herself). But since I'm smaller than average (and a nice guy she could trust to take it slow), she asked me to try it with her (it was new to me as well). It became a regular part of our sex life. Of course it's because of her that I like anal sex so much now lol

Parker@TDL said:

P.S. do not use porn as educational media

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You mean guys in porn are NOT "average" sized??? *Gasp* I'm shocked I tell you... completely shocked!!!! lol On a serious note though, it is very unfortunate that some (many?) see porn as a source of sex ed, especially teens. All the more reason sex ed needs to be drastically improved in our schools, as you comment to in some later posts Parker.