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kherg007

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Hey terbivoures...a genuine question...what is the appeal of COF? (cum on face, for those not sufficiently acronymble)...I'd love to hear from lads or ladies as to what is it about that particular act that is arousing? I confess i derive not one ounce of pleasure seeing it and have never had a nanosecond of desire to execute it (on purpose, LOL, in those halcyon days of youth and "pull out and pray" occasionally a shot goes where it goes and the range back then was impressive - even shot my own self in the eye once and it stung like hell lol). To me it rings of peeing on a lady or something in that genre, thus a touch of a turn off. (I mean, you'll see in porn the dude with masturbate for 2 minutes with her just waiting patiently and when he gets into launch mode let's it fly on her face). And then there is the associated clean up.

I'm a pretty open minded bloke so as long as both parties agree and one does not spook the horses....but please educate me as to what about it so much appeals to a certain segment of our merry band here.
 

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I share your puzzlement about the appeal. I believe that COF (and related COPussy, on Ass, on stomach, on back, etc. Then the extreme form: bukkake...) originated with porn’s original “Money shot” and then became the norm for porn and eventually a requested activity. To each his own but I’ve always preferred to continue the activity which made you cum in the first place vs taking tool in hand and finishing off by whacking and aiming. And the very last thing I’d want to do is stand in a room with a bunch of other guys whacking off onto some woman’s face...
 

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Strictly speaking, finishing inside, to me always feels better. However, if I’m with someone who gets off on seeing me cum, the equation changes. Having someone beg for you to cum for them, for them to feel it on their face/ body/ ass, is a huge turnon and who am I to decline such a request.
 

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Hey terbivoures...a genuine question...what is the appeal of COF? (cum on face, for those not sufficiently acronymble)...I'd love to hear from lads or ladies as to what is it about that particular act that is arousing? I confess i derive not one ounce of pleasure seeing it and have never had a nanosecond of desire to execute it (on purpose, LOL, in those halcyon days of youth and "pull out and pray" occasionally a shot goes where it goes and the range back then was impressive - even shot my own self in the eye once and it stung like hell lol). To me it rings of peeing on a lady or something in that genre, thus a touch of a turn off. (I mean, you'll see in porn the dude with masturbate for 2 minutes with her just waiting patiently and when he gets into launch mode let's it fly on her face). And then there is the associated clean up.

I'm a pretty open minded bloke so as long as both parties agree and one does not spook the horses....but please educate me as to what about it so much appeals to a certain segment of our merry band here.
I think the appeal, is not how it feels, but what it represents. Control.

It is obviously a demeaning act and probably not pleasing for the lady. So if you can get her to allow you to do that, then she is trying verrry hard to please you and fulfill your desires. She wants you so much that she will allow you demean her, she is willing to allow herself to be used by you any way you want. Coming on her face is like marking your territory. If she lets you do that, it means she is under your control. It means you are THAT desirable to her.

Anyways, maybe I am wrong, but that is my interpretation.
 

Jasmine Raine

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I think the appeal, is not how it feels, but what it represents. Control.

It is obviously a demeaning act and probably not pleasing for the lady. So if you can get her to allow you to do that, then she is trying verrry hard to please you and fulfill your desires. She wants you so much that she will allow you demean her, she is willing to allow herself to be used by you any way you want. Coming on her face is like marking your territory. If she lets you do that, it means she is under your control. It means you are THAT desirable to her.

Anyways, maybe I am wrong, but that is my interpretation.
Maybe talk about your side of the enjoyment factor but yay, you are a little off the mark from the female side.
 

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While pregnancy is always a risk when you engage in sexual activity, I always have extra mini pangs of panic after I finish inside a woman that it might mean I'm a father to her baby one day.

Here are my reasons why I partake on the act in question:

- I find that finishing anywhere outside of her reduces this extra stress.
- I like the contrast of colours (my ejaculate, her makeup, her skin tone, her hair, etc)
- It is always 'new'. The way the fluid moves, her reaction, where it lands, how it lands, and how much or how little is always different. To me, seeing something new is important to me.
- I find someone women love it to and its not merely just a "yeah, ok, go head" type moment for them. For those truly into it, I really get a kick out of the playfulness when the laughter comes out and she runs or turns to a mirror to check it out
 

HobbyHorse

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I agree that from the man's perspective there are elements of dominance and possession that are somehow appealing.
Mixed up in that is a kind of evidentiary marking, where we experience and gain satisfaction from visual corroboration of the carnal act, akin to the confirmation we are all so used to seeing at the "climax" of a porn video.
And yes, the demeaning aspects arguably play a part...
Trust me, it works, and the SPs who offer it become unforgetable!
 

Perry Mason

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Maybe talk about your side of the enjoyment factor but yay, you are a little off the mark from the female side.
So, tell us the female side. :eyebrows:

I take it that is the reason why the question was asked...

Perry
 

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I dont see it as deamining against women. I do offer it...but dont really enjoy it. I prefer cim but hats just me

I put make up all the time, and with all of the products its about worth 400$. having to remove everything and put new make up on literally can eat out soooo much in an income.
 

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I don't do COF, because your CUM can go easily into my eye. None of you can control your shot. There is a high chance to get eye infection and can be very painful if you ate some spicy food before. I had these experiences. Red eyes, can't working for days...etc. Never again! But CIM is not a problem.:)
 

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Maybe talk about your side of the enjoyment factor but yay, you are a little off the mark from the female side.
I am strictly talking from the male perspective, i.e. his perception of what makes it exciting for him. I would never profess to understand what is going through a lady's mind.....on any topic.
 

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I don't do COF, because your CUM can go easily into my eye. None of you can control your shot. There is a high chance to get eye infection and can be very painful if you ate some spicy food before. I had these experiences. Red eyes, can't working for days...etc. Never again! But CIM is not a problem.:)
Invest in a pair of these. Problem solved! :eyebrows:

 

kherg007

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Maybe talk about your side of the enjoyment factor but yay, you are a little off the mark from the female side.
Jessica you're a very thoughtful lady...just the type I'd love to hear from as to what is the appeal of COF from the other end of the x vs y chromosomal divide. I know in some cases it is the lady deriving pleasure from the fact the man derives pleasure (had an ex gf that went from meh about Greek to requesting it...when I asked why, she said cuz it seemed to turn you (me) on thus it turned her on). But educate us...thanks!
 

Jasmine Raine

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Like anything else, it is a preference thing.

I prefer CIM to COF. Because I have been shot in the eye quite a few times and that is not fun. But to be honest, it depends on the guy, his cock and the way he shoots. Even the consistency of his load. These will all play a role.

Some women love being bathed in cum, others can't even stand the thought of it or they start gagging. I guess in some worlds it is a dom/sub thing but for the most part, when I am enjoying a Cum On "blank" it is because of the warmth of it, the soft creamy texture on my body, his way of orgasming and the pleasure he derives from the act that makes it hightened for me and I like the slut factor sometimes as well. Because it is seen as a taboo, it adds a hightened sex appeal about it which then in turn translates into feeling sexy.

Now again, I prefer CIM over COF. It is warm and creamy sliding down and no mess when all is done. Seems like a win win for all involved.
 

kherg007

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Like anything else, it is a preference thing.

I prefer CIM to COF. Because I have been shot in the eye quite a few times and that is not fun. But to be honest, it depends on the guy, his cock and the way he shoots. Even the consistency of his load. These will all play a role.

Some women love being bathed in cum, others can't even stand the thought of it or they start gagging. I guess in some worlds it is a dom/sub thing but for the most part, when I am enjoying a Cum On "blank" it is because of the warmth of it, the soft creamy texture on my body, his way of orgasming and the pleasure he derives from the act that makes it hightened for me and I like the slut factor sometimes as well. Because it is seen as a taboo, it adds a hightened sex appeal about it which then in turn translates into feeling sexy.

Now again, I prefer CIM over COF. It is warm and creamy sliding down and no mess when all is done. Seems like a win win for all involved.
I knew you wouldn't disappoint! Exactly the insights I was hoping for...
 

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I don't do it at work as it takes me too long to do my makeup. I don't wear a lot, I'm just slow at applying and I don't want to be makeupless for my next client. But I do it in my personal life and I find it enjoyable when I wear glasses so I can watch it squirt at me. I love watching dicks squirt cum!! I also really enjoy it when I do really nice makeup then have a guy cof. I like my face being pretty then have my makeup ruined by hot cum that I have worked hard to milk out of a man!!!
 

kherg007

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I don't do it at work as it takes me too long to do my makeup. I don't wear a lot, I'm just slow at applying and I don't want to be makeupless for my next client. But I do it in my personal life and I find it enjoyable when I wear glasses so I can watch it squirt at me. I love watching dicks squirt cum!! I also really enjoy it when I do really nice makeup then have a guy cof. I like my face being pretty then have my makeup ruined by hot cum that I have worked hard to milk out of a man!!!
Ok great insight Parker! Still doesn't change my mind...although if a lady said it turned her on like this I'd do it. No more thrill for an over the hill bloke than giving a young lovely a (repeated, rhythmic) bursts of pleasure. LOL.
 

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Until I started seeing escorts and learned to be a bit more adventurous, I always thought it was kind of demeaning.

Now my response is, "Just be sure not to get in your eye?"

There was one time I went to see a lady who offered COF and at the end of the date, I was feeling hungry so I stopped to get some pizza at a place nearby. I saw her walking down the street with a guy I assumed was her boyfriend, though he could have just been her driver.

After the, "Oh shit! I hope they didn't see me!" moment of panic, I have to admit it gave me a certain thrill. The dude was big and looked like a construction worker and here I am, a skinny kind of nerdy guy, and I just gave someone I was assuming was his girlfriend a nice messy facial not an hour before.
 
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