Saying “I love you.” during a session with an SP.

Perhaps escorts can cope with this, but my guess is they won't be thrilled to see you for a second visit. They have enough stress in the job as it is.

I very much understand the "line" but I DO feel affection, as people, for the ladies I repeat with. But always know it's a business relationship, but doesn't mean you can't like them. But love them, like a real romance? That's a problem.... I have jokes with some regs how I love them, but we have to break up in a few minutes...and it's not them, it's me, and think of it,...they can see other guys now....and we have a good laugh over it. Remember...this is like pro wrestling...asking if its real is the wrong question...asking if you were entertained is the right question. ...

Yeah, I feel that's inappropriate. At best, they'll likely just ignore it. But at worst, you might scare the shit out of them, which can lead to decreased service or even a blacklist.

Heck, the Asian milfs always tell you they love you, no harm saying it back :nod:

I have said many times that "I love (spending time with) you". And have received the same response back. Not exactly the same thing but there are so many "little" things that my favorite women do that makes the exoerience that much more special. I am sure many guys have experienced the same thing. Doesn't matter if it is real or not. When you are there it is just a great feeling to feel something other than bring a customer.

true.... and though I wouldn't go that far, I usually try and be very encouraging and complimentary, so they feel better and try harder to please.

Any of you ever ask an escort to marry you?

How big a deal is that really? As far as the different fantasies that can be catered to during a session, wouldn't this be one of the harmless ones?

derrick76 said:

How big a deal is that really? As far as the different fantasies that can be catered to during a session, wouldn't this be one of the harmless ones?

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The problem lies in the tendency of the male ego to fail to realize that it's a fantasy. This is a line that is too easily blurred, IMHO.

"I love you" can be a Universal greeting to others but it's Universal meaning is totally diminished in the throws of lust.

Many confuse Lust with Love and so we have the problems of the world.

Mistake marriages and subsequent Divorces, exploitation, unreasonable expectations, sugar daddyism, misogyny etc.

Its funny how people freak out about this LOVE word. Like all the time its mentioned on terb almost as it strikes a nerve with some people.

I would never say it to a industry girl I paid for a session but sometimes you get one who will whisper something in your ear that sounds something like it. Its whatever, sometimes it adds to the session to enhance the GFE and other times just feel off. Its rare but happens sometimes.

People who fall for this shit during a sessions are messed up for real to believe that. It's not the word but the person taking it the wrong way who is this issue. Eventually they will find something else to obsess about and take it out of context.

Just let the girl do what she has planned for the session and don't control. Sometimes the ladies know how to create art with their sessions and can be quite the beautiful experience.

There's worse things to say to a person for sure.

That said, I think you are confusing sexual pleasure with love. They are not the same thing. Not even close.

yermama said:

Any of you ever ask an escort to marry you?

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I have done this many times. I am in my sixties so I say, "If I were a younger man, I would want to marry you." Very safe because there is no way that they would entertain marrying me, and I know it, and they know it. I usually get a sweet smile and they seem to appreciate it as a compliment. Occasionally I will get the response that "age is unimportant" to which I reply that they deserve a handsome, young, rich man. One regular would always call me her "husband" when I saw her - she may have done this with others - I don't know. But it was fun and sweet.
I do this with "cam" girls too. After requesting that they perform a series of sexual acts, some of them outrageously dirty and nasty, I may say next "Marry me". I always get a big smile and an immediate reply of "yes". Of course they don't know an old pervert is at the other end (I don't C2C with them) and they wouldn't care; it is done in fun.
I never get into a serious, heavy, romantic tone. I always "propose" in a fun, light-hearted manner letting them know I think they are awesome and fun to be with.
Some of them, for a brief time period, are everything I want in a woman. Attractive, looking to please me, smiling, sweet. Perfect for 45 minutes or an hour of time.

So Uhh let me get this straight. Right before you ejaculate you would say the same thing you would tell your mother.

Lolol

I have never

escorts should charge extra for emotional labour shit

james t kirk said:

There's worse things to say to a person for sure.

That said, I think you are confusing sexual pleasure with love. They are not the same thing. Not even close.

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What the Captain wrote.

Further this is a peculiar industry / hobby it requires a certain connection to work well, but too much and only very rarely wouldn't problems ensue.

kstanb said:

I have never

escorts should charge extra for emotional labour shit

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I've encountered one that will most certainly charge extra for emotional labour. Best to keep your ego checked at the door.

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