a humble suggestion to make the expression of this sentiment acceptable, both from the point of view of the client and the provider:
"I love... [pause]... your cunt."
"I love... [pause]... your cunt."
Saying “I love you.” during a session with an SP.
- Thread starter Tashki
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totally inappropriate in a session - IMO. most of the guys we see are married or have girlfriends so when someone says I love you & it has happened to me I let them know that it is a powerful word and should not be used out of context. I simply tell them they LIKE me not LOVE me lmao or that they love my body. If you are comfortable saying it - all the power to you ; but I would make sure the sp is ok with it first.
There was once my several year regular said that to me ... I was taken a bit off guard and she also realized what she said and quickly added something like she loves everybody blah blah. It was awkward...
In my heart I also love her a lot but I was committed at that time so it can only be friendship. She has since retired and I miss her, a lot.
In my heart I also love her a lot but I was committed at that time so it can only be friendship. She has since retired and I miss her, a lot.
You hear it all the time in movies and on tv, at sporting events and concerts, etc... big deal. Isn't the whole SP/client relationship about fantasy, sex, satisfaction, adoration....... love is a feeling, an emotion. Just like how someone said in a movie once (I may have the quote wrong, lol), I love you like I love ice cream. They are just three little words. As long as it does not get out of hand, they are just words. Some know how to control their feelings through actions and some don't. And some know how to properly handle hearing those three words and others not so much.
Just a heads up guys - I know many escorts who will stop seeing a client for using the "L" word.
Many of us just get creeped out even if you don't think you are being creepy. Why? You don't love us. Not even remotely close to loving us. You love the way we make you feel. That is what makes a great escort but please don't kid yourselves. It is not love. Not by any stretch of the imagination.
Many of us just get creeped out even if you don't think you are being creepy. Why? You don't love us. Not even remotely close to loving us. You love the way we make you feel. That is what makes a great escort but please don't kid yourselves. It is not love. Not by any stretch of the imagination.
I don’t know why escorts stop seeing clients for saying “I love you.” to them during sessions I thought that was the whole purpose of the experience. I think if clients keep texting them non-business related purposes, that’s when it’s a huge problem.
Because it is considered inappropriate and it usually leads to other inappropriate things. It does lead to attempts to chat between appointments. It does lead to staying longer and "just chatting". It leads to more "I love yous".
And what is the SP suppose to say in return? Thank you??? It just makes many uncomfortable. Indies anyways. Agency and spa girls may tolerate it more because they have less choice in their clients but this is often discussed amount us and the general opinion is - we really wish you wouldn't say it. And some will stop seeing clients because of it.
This. I had three of my regulars say this to me over text. It's not to be taken too seriously.
Every girl is different, but I'd expect actions to carry more weight than some line fed during a session. I.e. if you started seeing an SP 3 times a week, she'd probably ban you for getting too infatuated.
^The providers are able to provoke such infatuation because they are convincingly good at acting as if they are in love with you. It's apparently very exhausting to keep up this act so frequently with the same client. There are a couple of well-publicized bannings, Ursus on the planetary board with Angela Q, and Virushan on the blue board with Veena @ HPL.
