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Muskisalive

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So I broke up with my gf sometime ago and have visited escorts here and there. I'm thinking I wanna get in on the action. How bad could it be? I work during the day and have a fit body. I'll strictly stick to woman as I am heterosexual male. I think the male escort business caters to gay men predominantly but I've got evenings and nights to spare and love sex with gorgeous woman so 1 to 2 woman a week wouldn't be so bad as a side business. Think I'll make it far?? Any male escorts catering to ladies could give me a few tips (the other tip).
 

IsaMassage

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I am sure there is a business for it.., on the other hand please know that not all the woman you will meet will be attractive.. or maybe I should say.. may not be the type of woman you are attracted to.. because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. But I do have a suggestion for you I have heard of some guys doing this .., sign up for one of these sugar daddy/mommy site like seekingarrangements...
 

Robt85

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Keep in mind, just like the ladies in the industry, many of your clients may be very, very overweight and not as quite as attractive as you might be planning on
 

Muskisalive

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I am sure there is a business for it.., on the other hand please know that not all the woman you will meet will be attractive.. or maybe I should say.. may not be the type of woman you are attracted to.. because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. But I do have a suggestion for you I have heard of some guys doing this .., sign up for one of these sugar daddy/mommy site like seekingarrangements...
Isn't that site for companionship? I don't want to be thier boyfriend and go out. Just a fuck buddy for pay. I realize that my potential clients may not be so pretty but I can make some exceptions. Above 18 and under 60. I can get hard pretty quick with a simple cbj. Looks wouldn't be a issue and I can pound for hours as long as I'm hard and not overly excited. How do you woman deal with the ugly, fat and the olds?
 

TFZL1

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In the male escort business, for female only, you have to be really good and have good reviews to get invited to see the ladies with money.
If you think there’s cheap Johns here, wait till you get the lowball offers from ladys. I heard from a male dancer that it’s a really hard business to break into.
Vipfavours and leolist have sections to advertise, make a good ad with good pics and give it a shot.
 

IsaMassage

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Isn't that site for companionship? I don't want to be thier boyfriend and go out. Just a fuck buddy for pay. I realize that my potential clients may not be so pretty but I can make some exceptions. Above 18 and under 60. I can get hard pretty quick with a simple cbj. Looks wouldn't be a issue and I can pound for hours as long as I'm hard and not overly excited. How do you woman deal with the ugly, fat and the olds?
You have learn to get pass that... in my case I focus mainly on the respect and the personality as well.. You have to learn to look beyond the looks...
sometimes the better looking the more assholes...
 

rhd

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Isn't that site for companionship? I don't want to be thier boyfriend and go out. Just a fuck buddy for pay. I realize that my potential clients may not be so pretty but I can make some exceptions. Above 18 and under 60. I can get hard pretty quick with a simple cbj. Looks wouldn't be a issue and I can pound for hours as long as I'm hard and not overly excited. How do you woman deal with the ugly, fat and the olds?
I know we're not supposed to discuss that site, and I don't have any experience with the male sugar babies aspect, but there at lots of female sugar babies on that site offering their companionship on a pay-per-meet basis.
 

IsaMassage

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How does one go about ensuring they only see attractive female clients? If you’re providing a service it’s reasonable to assume that you are open to all clients who are clean and polite and will pay. As a female provider to not accept clients of all ages shapes sizes and abilities would mean low opinion from clients and peers and very low income. Very attractive people only sometimes want to pay for it. Some of them never. If you’re a highly attractive women you will probably be harassed constantly and have enough attention that you may not want to deal with a male escort who only wants to see you if you impress him. There’s a reason there’s not many male straight escorts in town. The only places I’ve seen more have been Sydney Australia NYC and SFO where high profile power CEO type women may be interested. But again there’s no guarantee that status means they’d be goodlooking. I don’t think you will do well with this tactic. Many women want to feel accepted appreciated and better about themselves and not pay to be judged and used by a guy trying to get pleasure out of it himself. Some may want hot sex. But many more women want what they are lacking. Likely good intelligent conversation understanding acceptance empathy. It’s a tall order. Every woman is different to. Many guys who think they’re good at pleasing simply aren’t for most women. Their techniques may only work for women they knew and got accustomed to. Many people simply live in their own head and don’t listen and watch their partner for reactions. And remember a female client is not going to be faking it to make you feel better about yourself. And lol if you think most women would pay to give you a bj and get you hard. Most women don’t get an orgasm from giving a blow job or even penile penetration for sex.
Well said!...
 

Rocky Racoon

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Isn't that site for companionship? I don't want to be thier boyfriend and go out. Just a fuck buddy for pay. I realize that my potential clients may not be so pretty but I can make some exceptions. Above 18 and under 60. I can get hard pretty quick with a simple cbj. Looks wouldn't be a issue and I can pound for hours as long as I'm hard and not overly excited. How do you woman deal with the ugly, fat and the olds?
How about you start by not calling them ugly, fat and old? If you really want to become a sex worker, you'll have to accept that this is all about your clients, not yourself. It starts by showing them genuine respect. In all honesty, it's probably going to be a lot more work than you think. First physically, because you'll have to insure THEY are pleased, while you won't necessarily be. Very few women will want to pay you to please you (they can usually do that for free, or even get paid themselves to do it). In fact, I suspect most of the time you won't even have an orgasm. Then, if you really want to be successful and have repeat customers, it's also going to take a lot of emotional investment because you'll have to make those women feel beautiful, interesting and sexually desirable. If you (even just secretly) think of them as ugly, fat and old, it's going to be difficult to do that.
 

Rocky Racoon

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How does one go about ensuring they only see attractive female clients? If you’re providing a service it’s reasonable to assume that you are open to all clients who are clean and polite and will pay. As a female provider to not accept clients of all ages shapes sizes and abilities would mean low opinion from clients and peers and very low income. Very attractive people only sometimes want to pay for it. Some of them never. If you’re a highly attractive women you will probably be harassed constantly and have enough attention that you may not want to deal with a male escort who only wants to see you if you impress him. There’s a reason there’s not many male straight escorts in town. The only places I’ve seen more have been Sydney Australia NYC and SFO where high profile power CEO type women may be interested. But again there’s no guarantee that status means they’d be goodlooking. I don’t think you will do well with this tactic. Many women want to feel accepted appreciated and better about themselves and not pay to be judged and used by a guy trying to get pleasure out of it himself. Some may want hot sex. But many more women want what they are lacking. Likely good intelligent conversation, understanding, acceptance, empathy, reassurance, etc. It’s a tall order. Every woman is different too. Many guys who think they’re good at pleasing simply aren’t for most women. Their techniques may only work for women they knew and got accustomed to. Many people simply live in their own head and don’t listen and watch their partner for reactions. And remember a female client is not going to be faking it to make you feel better about yourself. And lol if you think most women would pay to give you a bj and get you hard. Most women don’t get an orgasm from giving a blow job or even penile penetration for sex. What many women would want was a lot of talking to feel comfortable, maybe some massaging from a man to relax, praise to feel good about themselves, nice kisses and oral on her, maybe sex, maybe not. If they're looking to get treated badly, used for pleasure and have some crazy sex they can probably get that for free at a bar honestly.
Yes. Exactly how I see it.
 

MellonChill

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The ratio of men to women potential clients, even in Ottawa, must be at least 500:1.

There's probabky a very small market for it, but like male models, the pay and potential for even a short career wouldn't be great. Also, lots of risk of being found potentially which should be factored in, if you have tattoos it's even harder to hide. Good luck.
 

Jasmine Raine

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So I broke up with my gf sometime ago and have visited escorts here and there. I'm thinking I wanna get in on the action. How bad could it be? I work during the day and have a fit body. I'll strictly stick to woman as I am heterosexual male. I think the male escort business caters to gay men predominantly but I've got evenings and nights to spare and love sex with gorgeous woman so 1 to 2 woman a week wouldn't be so bad as a side business. Think I'll make it far?? Any male escorts catering to ladies could give me a few tips (the other tip).
You will not make it far at all.

You don't have the clientele base, the marketing nor the professionalism.

Shockingly this job less about the actual sex and more about everything else. So even if you were a great looking sex God, you would still fail.

Personally I don't think this idea was real anyway.
 

kherg007

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Twas a musing by the op, imho...but agree w the ladies charlotte asnd jessica above...a straight male escort would have to have a wide set of social skills beyond appearance. Lady CEO types want you to be their date on social functions, so you have to keep up with smart conversation, be knowledgeable on a wide range of topics, whilst knowing not to dominate the convo or say things that may embarrass your client. Ya gotta make her look good in the eyes of others at the function. And if things devolve farther down the brain stem (lol) gotta get Jr on the job with minimal provocation, and read her carefully to see what she wants or likes, even though you may not be attracted. Unfortunately Jr is a very visible indication of arousal...ladies can fake it with a smile and some lube. Can't fake a boner, nature's barometer.

P.S. reminds me of pub convos where a mate will blather on about how awesome it would be to be a gynecologist...i know one, and it's eye opening for how misguided that fantasy is LOL...
 

Alison_xox

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How does one go about ensuring they only see attractive female clients? If you’re providing a service it’s reasonable to assume that you are open to all clients who are clean and polite and will pay. As a female provider to not accept clients of all ages shapes sizes and abilities would mean low opinion from clients and peers and very low income. Very attractive people only sometimes want to pay for it. Some of them never. If you’re a highly attractive women you will probably be harassed constantly and have enough attention that you may not want to deal with a male escort who only wants to see you if you impress him. There’s a reason there’s not many male straight escorts in town. The only places I’ve seen more have been Sydney Australia NYC and SFO where high profile power CEO type women may be interested. But again there’s no guarantee that status means they’d be goodlooking. I don’t think you will do well with this tactic. Many women want to feel accepted appreciated and better about themselves and not pay to be judged and used by a guy trying to get pleasure out of it himself. Some may want hot sex. But many more women want what they are lacking. Likely good intelligent conversation, understanding, acceptance, empathy, reassurance, etc. It’s a tall order. Every woman is different too. Many guys who think they’re good at pleasing simply aren’t for most women. Their techniques may only work for women they knew and got accustomed to. Many people simply live in their own head and don’t listen and watch their partner for reactions. And remember a female client is not going to be faking it to make you feel better about yourself. And lol if you think most women would pay to give you a bj and get you hard. Most women don’t get an orgasm from giving a blow job or even penile penetration for sex. What many women would want was a lot of talking to feel comfortable, maybe some massaging from a man to relax, praise to feel good about themselves, nice kisses and oral on her, maybe sex, maybe not. If they're looking to get treated badly, used for pleasure and have some crazy sex they can probably get that for free at a bar honestly.
Exactly what I was thinking ...
A woman sexuality is more psychological than physical ..
I highly doubt that a woman will pay to give a bj ..
She will pay to be treated like a princess and to be pampered..
 

Muskisalive

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So I never had any chance to begin with.. I can't be hanging around them through dinners, meetings, family gatherings ect.. Unfortunately I can only provide hot sex if that's what they look for than I'm all set. I'm not sure how I can pamper to woman, this won't be my forte.
 

Bostonmass

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. Unfortunately I can only provide hot sex if that's what they look for than I'm all set..
As someone mentioned, those women willing to pay, are not looking for someone to pound them.
They can get that for free by every guy visiting this site.
They want something very complicated and almost unheard of , Romance.
 

Jasmine Raine

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Most women don't like a guy who assumes he is good in bed. So he kinda lost the battle before he started on that one.
 

fibrewax

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A man is easy to please/satisfy.
A woman is a complex creature that you may never fully figure out.
Pleasing a woman can take a lot of energy and skill, as what they need to feel satisfied is quite different from what a man needs.
I would think that a man that's truly successful as a male escort would be more of a rarity than you'd imagine.
 
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