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Am I a creep because I buy condoms?? Buying condoms for providers.

Caterpoult

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Hey so I would buy condoms for providers who really have known me for some time, I am thier regular over the years so they ask me to bring them some condoms. Ok no problem..I usually go to Shoppers Drug mart, and boy do the employees there give me the strangest look ever when I get condoms. Almost like I am a rapist creep or a thug to them. This happens every single time! It's always these young to middle age woman that change thier mood and behaviour around me when they see me buying a box of durex or lifestyles. Here's a few sceneries to illustrate how it goes down all the time. And I usually run to the stores late at night since I see my providers during the night. But not past midnight.

Scenerio one:. Went to drugmart, woman in the counter says hi, hello, how are you? Than immediately silent after she sees a box of durex. Not even a goodbye or anything, stares at me in pity or something.


Scenerio two: Drugmart again, changes attitudes after scanning durex. Looks at me in disgust but I always be nice and pretend it's normal. Than as I am leaving she calls over her friend and as I am walking away she whispers something to the other women.

Is there a social stigma/taboo for men to be buying condoms from a store?! Is it just me again? I'm middle aged and dressed casually and pretty social but I can never understand why I get the cold shoulder and get look of disgust.
 
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Why do you care? You've got no reason to seek their approval. I would literally say to them. Something making you uncomfortable? And throw it in their face. Who are they to judge?
 

Sharemyinkwell

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Hey so I would buy condoms for providers who really have known me for some time, I am thier regular over the years so they ask me to bring them some condoms. Ok no problem..I usually go to Shoppers Drug mart, and boy do the employees there give me the strangest look ever when I get condoms. Almost like I am a rapist creep or a thug to them. This happens every single time! It's always these young to middle age woman that change thier mood and behaviour around me when they see me buying a box of durex or lifestyles. Here's a few sceneries to illustrate how it goes down all the time. And I usually run to the stores late at night since I see my providers during the night. But not past midnight.

Scenerio one:. Went to drugmart, woman in the counter says hi, hello, how are you? Than immediately silent after she sees a box of durex. Not even a goodbye or anything, stares at me in pity or something.


Scenerio two: Drugmart again, changes attitudes after scanning durex. Looks at me in disgust but I always be nice and pretend it's normal. Than as I am leaving she calls over her friend and as I am walking away she whispers something to the other women.

Is there a social stigma/taboo for men to be buying condoms from a store?! Is it just me again? I'm middle aged and dressed casually and pretty social but I can never understand why I get the cold shoulder and get look of disgust.
I sometimes buy condoms for my regular SP which I've known for awhile. I go to Walmart and go through the self serve cash registers. So no judgement, no dirty looks and no worries.
 

Sharemyinkwell

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Why do you care? You've got no reason to seek their approval. I would literally say to them. Something making you uncomfortable? And throw it in their face. Who are they to judge?
You're right of course. Oddly enough, I know of a couple of SPs who have admitted that even though they have been in this business for quite some time, they're still uncomfortable buying them themselves lol
 

jazzbox

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In a rational world you would attract praise and social approval for buying condoms because you are practicing safe sex and, presumably, have a healthy sex life. Unfortunately, even in our sex saturated world, people find it difficult to deal with. Sex is still dirty to them and something to be embarrassed about. Of course, they probably go home, look up some porn and break out the lube and dildos. Hypocrisy.

I have always wanted to go to Costco and buy one of those mega packs of condoms (preferably magnums) ... the ones with 60 in a pack. Basically, it would be showing of to all the world that I am getting some...actually a lot.. Throw in a litre of lube too and watch them talk!
 

squeezer

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It is none of their business. Next time look at her with a puzzled look and ask if she thinks if maybe you haven't bought enough???
 

asuran

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Lol, have fun with it.
Have a casual convo with him/her.

"Don't want another kid again, lol. How many kids you have? Planning to have?"
"Do you recommend this brand? Which one sells more?"
Etc.
 

downbound123

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"is extra large the biggest you have?"
 

TFZL1

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Unfortunately, I’ve done the same. Shopping trip, condoms lube and pussy wash. I’ve even been sent to the store for deodorant. Didn’t bother me a bit nor did I notice any judgement. I wouldn’t do it again. I’d give her a ride to do her own shopping if I was paid. I quit being a sub/slave.
On the other hand, I have been judgmental. The guy in front on me in line buying 3 large boxes of condoms and 3 shampoo and 3 ladies deodorant. Outfitting his whole stable?
 

kherg007

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Could be worse if you're buying butt cream or something lol...they just might feel awkward because of tne purchase so they shut down.
 

IFUSEEKAMY

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Pfft! They’re probably jealous of your sexlife and maybe also because it doesn’t involve them. Don’t let their envy or shame colour your decisions in life.
 

Plat0

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I'm with feelgoodmanott, why do you care about their approval. But if it *really* bothers you, most Shoppers and Loblaws in the city (not all, but most) have self checkout lanes you can use.
 

jazzbox

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Another option is to go a sex shop and buy. They tend to have better selection and carry those super thin Japanese condoms.
 
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OnTheWayOut

I used to take C&M shopping for condoms all the time. It was fun watching the reactions to 2 hot asian babes and an old fart buying condoms! I've bought them solo now and then and never noticed any reaction to an old guy buying rubbers. Or maybe it's because I didn't care to take notice LOL
 

Caterpoult

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I am not insecure about it but when countless cashier ladies give you uncomfortable look, it does make me question the practice of buying them. I will do self checkouts from now on.
 

MikeO

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I've bought flavored Trojans (strawberry, banana and tutti-frutti in a package) as a treat for a couple of the SPs who make outcalls to my apartment and provided CBJs. Two of them were so appreciative of this thoughtfulness that they gravitated to BBBJs on their next visits. My Shoppers Drugmart experience was kind of funny...the 18ish male cashier looked at the box, looked at me, looked back at the box and REALLY SMILED when I asked for the seniors' discount. My pharmacist also voiced that I'm using a lot more Viagra since I got separated. Haven't you seen the Viagra commercial on tv where the customer is screaming out loud for it in the store? Wear your badge with pride!
 
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