I am personally, the complete opposite to him. I consider my monthly savings like any other monthly bill that comes in. I stress like mad every month about my bills. It is an anxiety issue I have. It doesn't matter how much is the bank, how easily I can pay that extra high CC bill at Xmas during the month the money is due, doesn't matter if I save a grand a month, every month - I worry about money for the future. Like badly and all the time.
Then again I was a homeless teen at one point ( mom and dad where split, Dad and I didn't reconnect until later in life). That is where my anxiety stems from. I never want to be homeless or hungry again. It has been my driving force since 17. I am the type who could have millions in the bank and I would still feel itnisnnot enough money.
I can't wrap my head around people like my dad. Don't get me wrong, I love my poppi to pieces, but to not pay a single bill and fee "meh, I will get it next month" - nope. I would be climbing the walls, biting my nails, going completely mad. Weird how people's brains are all wired so differently.
This is the most important part of the 'no saving" phenomena for most young adults in Canada and U.S.. People who grew up in poor homes know the value of money and the need for saving. Often parents who grew up poor can pass this notion/behaviour to their children through their own example. Unfortunately, it will be lost at the third generation (grandchildren). Despite what many "old" (55-65 y.o.) folks say here, their childhood was not "poor" (yes, they did not have fancy toys, but they had meet to eat every day and their families did have a car and, maybe, even a washing machine and a dishwasher), but their parents' was, so, current baby boomers are still save more and consume less then their children do. But if you compare current 15-30 y.o. children of "old-time" Canadians vs. schoolchildren whose parents came to Canada from poor countries (excluding "refuges", of course), you can see that latter worry more about their future and money than former. Just go to any University and you can see that Engineering and Business Schools students have mostly Chinese, Indian, Arabs and Eastern Europeans while English Literature, Philosophy, and Arts students are "white Canadians" whose families lived in Canada for at least 3 generations. I, myself, came to Canada 20 years ago with zero financial assets (and zero family assets in my home country), make a decent $100K+ wage, was able to accumulate about $1M in investments, and, yet, I have to force myself to spend $20 on a lunch or go to a sit down restaurant. My kids are a bit better: they are OK ordering their preferred sandwich at Subway instead of going for a "daily special" or buying a bottle drink instead of ordering a tab water. But you see the idea: once you have lived on rice with occasional chicken as a child, you do not want to spend the price of a half-chicken on a can of soda. I must admit that when it comes to SPs, I am a big tipper though
. But maybe it is because I usually see very young SPs and I feel that $180/hh (with $60-$80 going to the agency) is just too little. Same way I always tip at Subway but hate to do it at sit down restaurant with entitled waiters.