Rimming is an experience, not a menu item...Indeed many of my lovers get hooked... assplay is very different from prostate massage and rimming...and when you categorize them in one I can see why many gents hesitate
I have surprised many of my lovers by not asking...(i know bad...but it's a turn on for them, the surprise) and in assplay i will always ask of course... it's not for everyone but it is always exhillarating when you can please someone so much and they are in awe they didn't experience that before...
'I licked it so its
mine'