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Is DFK standard in romantic relationships?

Tashki

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I have never in my life been in a serious romantic relationship before so I'm wondering from all of the people who are or have been in a romantic relationship before if DFK is standard in romantic relationships? I'm asking because I have seen MPA's , SPs , and Strippers who I have been intensely passionate about would only LFK me but not DFK. I use to see one MPA regularly where she said she does not like DFK because she personally thought it was disgusting getting saliva transferred into her mouth from another person which I thought that was her excuse for DFK being too intimate for her and/or maybe it's because I am not in a dating relationship with her. I have also seen other MPA's multiple times where I feel that I have developed a comfortable client/MPA relationship with them in the room and whenever I would initiate DFK they would act nonreciprocal and I think it's because I am not their SO. So I was wondering if DFK usually happens when you are hooking up with civilians and if you are with your romantic partner? Or do some women generally feel that's it's disgusting regardless if it's a client/SP relationship or a romantic one?
 

Butler1000

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Wow.

Kissing(DFK) is considered 1st base for cripes sakes. We are talking grade 7 level stuff. It's called making out.

You've never made out with a girl before? Ever?

I actually can't comprehend this.

Yes it's not only normal. It's expected and the first sign you are actually in a romantic relationship.
 

John Henry

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To answer your question .... it better be in mine . I'm not going to go through life only with light kissing . Some girls want to kiss like a woodpecker . Peck peck . Not for me . If my juices are a problem with her than it's see you later honey.

I have stopped seeing a few ladies while dating because DFK was not wanted by them . Don't care how good looking they are , no DFK well then good bye .
 

explorerzip

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Stop comparing your serious relationship to your hobbying experiences. It's got nothing to do with what acronyms or mileage. Just enjoy and let things evolve as they will.
 

NiceToMeetYou

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For the civilian relationship, DFK is always a prerequisite before we have actual sexual intercourse. Even girls whom I met in a bar in my younger era, DFK is a norm.

For escorting relationship (I hate to say that it's a relationship because it's business transaction LOL), it depends on the girls how they want to market themselves and services together with their comfort level with clients / customers.

Many girls provide DFK in their sessions around here because that's what their clients / customers want and like. So I usually read a review of a girl if there is any to learn whether the DFK is available before booking. If it's not available, I don't book with that girl most of the time. If I read a review and saw that a girl provides DFK but she didn't respond to my initiation or turned her face away in my first appointment with her because she was not comfortable with me, then I moved on and will never book with her again.

I remember reading reviews of a white girl and her reviews said she provided DFK and BBBJ. However, in my session with her, she gave me CBJ and didn't respond to my initiation of DFK and turned her face away, I didn't repeat with her again. I'm not a white person BTW LOL. In my review of her, the booker / owner of the agency commented in my review of her that she was not comfortable with me. So I just moved on as a gentleman and never been bothering to book with this girl again. There are so many girls working in this area as escorting professional. So you always have many opportunities to try someone else who can provides you in what you are looking for. Life goes on my friend. LOL and happy pooning:)
 

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I like to do DFK with clients who has a good oral hygiene . If I smell something funny, I do LFK usually. Otherwise, I have unopened toothbrush and toothpaste in my washroom, free to use . Usually clients used to it who already has fresh , clean breath. Fortunately the clients who has bad breath, are never try to use it, because they don't want to start their first "How to use the toothbrush" lesson here.
And YES, DFK must be a part of a serious relationship , and DFK with your partner cum(both side) can be hot, and so romantic. :) :)

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Butler1000

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Yes I have. One SP and one civilian.
Assuming you are at least in your 20's........

Still wow....

I think I kissed a half a dozen in grade 7.

You need to get out more.
 

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Perhaps I’m going to be a minority voice but outside of deep passionate sexy time - and even then - I’m actually not a huge fan of DFK or “tongue kissing” whether I’m with an SP or a civilian. It depends a bit on chemistry and, sometime quite literally so, as what the natural taste of their saliva is to me (might sound odd but the gum or mouthwash only lasts for so long)

In most cases there’s so many other places I want our mouths to be. Neck, ears, freely unencumbered to moan away, or whispering naughty things perhaps, it hasn’t been until I’ve gotten a bit older that I’ve gotten more comfortable with the idea that even when I was young it felt passionate but also weird - and am now more than confident to express such. That and most people suck at DFK anyways, too much tongue, too much saliva, mouth open too wide, it should be done, the few times where it’s done right, with a tantalizing build up.
 

koreanjames

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If there is mutual attraction it shouldn’t be a problem . Chemistry , comparability and cleanliness .


Perhaps I’m going to be a minority voice but outside of deep passionate sexy time - and even then - I’m actually not a huge fan of DFK or “tongue kissing” whether I’m with an SP or a civilian. It depends a bit on chemistry and, sometime quite literally so, as what the natural taste of their saliva is to me (might sound odd but the gum or mouthwash only lasts for so long)

In most cases there’s so many other places I want our mouths to be. Neck, ears, freely unencumbered to moan away, or whispering naughty things perhaps, it hasn’t been until I’ve gotten a bit older that I’ve gotten more comfortable with the idea that even when I was young it felt passionate but also weird - and am now more than confident to express such. That and most people suck at DFK anyways, too much tongue, too much saliva, mouth open too wide, it should be done, the few times where it’s done right, with a tantalizing build up.
 

Hermione777

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Even though it’s “just kissing” part of the appeal, for me anyway, is that it only happens when things for whatever reason get next-level hot. Personally, I’d be annoyed if I was with someone that wanted it on the regular but that’s just me.
 

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I think the OP is asking a legit question. Now, normally I'd think he should just google it or ask a friend but whatever. I say it's legit because some people have interesting marriages where some things do or do not happen. Some people sleep in separate rooms and/or on separate beds. Some people don't do oral sex. Some people get married and there is zero sex.

OP, the question is what do you like? If you end up with someone who is compatible with you and likes what you like, great. If not, probably best to move on. So if DFK is really important, there are many girls that do and probably some that don't. End it with the latter...
 

explorerzip

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I think the OP is asking a legit question. Now, normally I'd think he should just google it or ask a friend but whatever. I say it's legit because some people have interesting marriages where some things do or do not happen. Some people sleep in separate rooms and/or on separate beds. Some people don't do oral sex. Some people get married and there is zero sex.

OP, the question is what do you like? If you end up with someone who is compatible with you and likes what you like, great. If not, probably best to move on. So if DFK is really important, there are many girls that do and probably some that don't. End it with the latter...
Breaking up a serious relationship over lack of DFK is very shallow and a shit move to the SO. Don't start a relationship if acronyms are that important.
 

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DFK has always been a staple in my relationships since I was a teen. Oddly, the last two men (husband included) I’ve dated were not into it. YMMV with anyone. Some people just aren’t into it which is a bummer because DFK makes everything so much hotter.
 

sempel

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Breaking up a serious relationship over lack of DFK is very shallow and a shit move to the SO. Don't start a relationship if acronyms are that important.
I think it's just as shitty to stay with someone you aren't sexually compatible with so you start to become hateful and resentful. I don't think one should be shallow or superficial but don't hope someone will change for you and do something you like that they don't.
 

explorerzip

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I think it's just as shitty to stay with someone you aren't sexually compatible with so you start to become hateful and resentful. I don't think one should be shallow or superficial but don't hope someone will change for you and do something you like that they don't.
The OP hasn't mentioned if the GF is into DFK or if he tried to initiate. He'll never know until he tries or asks. Even if she's not into DFK, that's hardly a sign that they are not sexually compatible. DFK or any other acronyms are trivial things to focus on in the scope of a relationship. He's free of course to nitpick, but be prepared to be on the receiving end of that.
 

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The OP hasn't mentioned if the GF is into DFK or if he tried to initiate. He'll never know until he tries or asks. Even if she's not into DFK, that's hardly a sign that they are not sexually compatible. DFK or any other acronyms are trivial things to focus on in the scope of a relationship. He's free of course to nitpick, but be prepared to be on the receiving end of that.
if she is not into DFK and you are that's not compatibility
 
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