If you are overweight should you give up looking for a relationship?

I didn't read the thread but as a fat guy i will say that its definately starting with a strike from the get go. It also depend what type of girlfriend you aiming for. But i find it more frequent to see skinnier dudes with fat girlfriends than skinny ladies with fat boyfriend. Obviously money can change this but im talking no "sugardaddy side" involved.

But in the end if you have a good job, a good financial situation, if you love social activities ... you may be able to find one. But don't try to aim for too hot lol

koreanjames said:

Nah I just don’t think he (younger friend) is happy at all with his wife lol! Both are extremely strong earners imho.

I do get what your saying 100% , but keep in mind that there are a few with big beautiful house mortgage free, career in prime etc etc in their 30s.... whether they are happy however is a different topic all together

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People do tend towards mellow out or are more comfortable with themselves at 50 vs 30's. Depends on the person obviously.

Look, it ain't over till the ... uh, never mind.

neutrino said:

Look, it ain't over till the ...

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....fat lady says "I do".

Keeping a sexy figure is what every girl is pursuing. But this is a particularly difficult thing to do. This requires strong self-discipline. It is impossible for us to maintain a standard figure like a adult sex doll because we are human and we will lose shape as time goes by. So don't be too self-blaming for your weight, be brave to be yourself!