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To all SPs or MAs, what's your reason for "no black guys" on your ad?

Why "no black gents"

  • I had too many bad experiences with black guys in the past

    Votes: 7 25.9%
  • My friends or coworkers had bad experiences with them so I avoid them

    Votes: 1 3.7%
  • I work for a pimp that does not allow me to see other black men

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • My agency does not allow me accept black guys

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I am not attracted to them or it's simply a preference

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • I'm racist

    Votes: 4 14.8%
  • I have a black boyfriend or black family or friends, I want to be discreet

    Votes: 1 3.7%
  • They are very cheap

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Health concerns, disease ect..

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Large penis

    Votes: 6 22.2%

  • Total voters
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Alma@ALO

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Every comment you have on this board is hostile and demeaning, you'd think you'd ease up considering you're in the people pleasing business.
Wrong. It may come off that way bc u r reading a response that is reactionary to someone elses demeaning commemts towards me
And 2 i do.not ALWAYS say hostile or demeaning things, you are being choosey just like ur
are about penis size and men being smarter than women.
I suppose you dont like people having different opinions if they dont agree with you. And also doesnt a tit deserve a tat? For someone who makes underhanded misogynistic snide comments no matter how low key they may be i find it a little hypocritical of u to bring up the demeaning factor. Im actually a very nice person.
Sorry u feel this way. Do u also believe that basketball players should just shut up and dribble or actors should just shut up and act? Is this your mentality? I thought we were talking about black people being snubbed by service providers now all of a sudden bc of my and amber roses comments u apparantly didnt.like what we had to say so u had to (very low key and sly btw)bring up female vs male intelligence. Which is also bs btw.
 
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Dbass34

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What exactly in what I said is in need of justification? If someone is racist then why would they care what you thought to begin with? You're actually shaming someone for saying they're friendly with black people, when does it end? How is it that racism or sexism became equated with pointing out any single difference whatsoever between races or genders. If I say cats are smarter than dogs is that anti-dog or just a scientific fact (assuming it were true)? You're applying a negative connotation to something that doesn't have one. And if I were to treat dogs differently than I treat cats, wherein lies the universal principle that I shouldn't do so? People discriminate against me every single day for all kinds of reasons, but there's nothing intrinsically wrong about it, that's called life, and people are free to do as they choose.
Why do you need to mention that your best friend is black? We don't give a shit!!! That was my intervention, I'm not commentating on the rest of this stupid threat.

Now, like I said, I've heard that line so many time... In fact, my entire life I heard it and most of the time it was from people who was trying to justify some questioning comments like you have through this threat : " hey, I'm saying that but don't tag me as racist, I'm not cause look, my best friend is black" Yayaya, we've heard that before. FYI, we hate that type of comments and your "so called best friend who is black", if he is real, even if he never told you that (trying to stay polite), probably wanted to punch you every time you said it!

Your finale line in your last comment to me demonstrate how much you don't understand anything about black people when you compare it with the discriminations that you face every single day for all kind of reasons. Maybe it's time for you to have a discussion with your best friend, who is black!
 

Alison_xox

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Personally, I don’t have color preferences.. But I noticed that some girls that I worked with at different spas were advertising «**No black gentleman**» and of course it made me curious so I asked why .. Their responses was that Ottawa is not a big City and it is a very very small world .. Can you imagine how small is the black community?
They were simply advertising no black gent in order to make sure they will never get face to face with their oncle , dad , friend of the family ect ... It was simply a matter on discretion .. I totally understand that .. I wouldn’t want to open the door in my work outfit to a friend of the family.. That would be awkward ;)
 

Dbass34

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Personally, I don’t have color preferences.. But I noticed that some girls that I worked with at different spas were advertising «**No black gentleman**» and of course it made me curious so I asked why .. Their responses was that Ottawa is not a big City and it is a very very small world .. Can you imagine how small is the black community?
They were simply advertising no black gent in order to make sure they will never get face to face with their oncle , dad , friend of the family ect ... It was simply a matter on discretion .. I totally understand that .. I wouldn’t want to open the door in my work outfit to a friend of the family.. That would be awkward ;)
And it's true, Alison. I sincerely believe that the vast majority of the black providers that are advertising "No black gentlemen" are doing it more because of that family issue then because of a pimp problem. But I guess it is easier to say that black guys want to pimp girls, so all what some people are seeing is that.

I'm not from Ottawa, so I don't have this problem. But if I would go back to my home town, I would never see a black girl, too afraid to be face to face with someone that I would've know.
 

Nesbot

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It can be defined as "racist" sure, but whether or not it's warranted, or inherently wrong, is impossible to say. If I say black people are taller than asian people therefore I'd statistically prefer them on my basketball team, is that racist? Sure, but is it warranted? Ask the NBA.

PSA: My best friend is black, so I'm only trying to be rational here.
Geez....did you really go with "my best friend is black so its okay what I'm saying"....ughhhhh
 

BlueStones

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Why do you need to mention that your best friend is black? We don't give a shit!!! That was my intervention, I'm not commentating on the rest of this stupid threat.

Now, like I said, I've heard that line so many time... In fact, my entire life I heard it and most of the time it was from people who was trying to justify some questioning comments like you have through this threat : " hey, I'm saying that but don't tag me as racist, I'm not cause look, my best friend is black" Yayaya, we've heard that before. FYI, we hate that type of comments and your "so called best friend who is black", if he is real, even if he never told you that (trying to stay polite), probably wanted to punch you every time you said it!

Your finale line in your last comment to me demonstrate how much you don't understand anything about black people when you compare it with the discriminations that you face every single day for all kind of reasons. Maybe it's time for you to have a discussion with your best friend, who is black!
So I don't know anything about discrimination because I'm not black? Jesus christ get over yourself. And it might be "racist" to think black males are worse to escorts on average, or in the very least the few that are bad are worse than any other race (which COULD be the case, I have no idea as I'm not an escort), but to consider that as a possibility doesn't make me wrong or an asshole. I would never treat anyone differently because of their race, but maybe some women, in some situations, in this profession, should be morally allowed to do so. If a woman won't see me because I'm too young, then I would have to assume she's had bad experiences with young guys, and that's too bad but who am I to tell her she's being unreasonable. If an escort will fuck a black guy, but refuse to see all other black guys, then she's not trying to discriminate against someone because of their race, but rather because of their personality and behaviour, which she believes to be a correlate to race (and it's not impossible that she's right). If a black escort agrees with that is she a racist?

Wrong. It may come off that way bc u r reading a response that is reactionary to someone elses demeaning commemts towards me
And 2 i do.not ALWAYS say hostile or demeaning things, you are being choosey just like ur
are about penis size and men being smarter than women.
I suppose you dont like people having different opinions if they dont agree with you. And also doesnt a tit deserve a tat? For someone who makes underhanded misogynistic snide comments no matter how low key they may be i find it a little hypocritical of u to bring up the demeaning factor. Im actually a very nice person.
Sorry u feel this way. Do u also believe that basketball players should just shut up and dribble or actors should just shut up and act? Is this your mentality? I thought we were talking about black people being snubbed by service providers now all of a sudden bc of my and amber roses comments its turned into a misogynistic demeaning commentary bc u didnt agree with what we had to share.
Ill just go back into my little corner like so many other service providers do on here and just people please as u say bc god forbid we have a brain and opinion.
Enjoy your sausage fest.
Pointing out that male IQ distribution has a larger standard deviation than female is sexist? The irony here is astounding. And saying you're an escort, therefore should be nice on an escort review board, isn't demeaning, it's common sense.

Geez....did you really go with "my best friend is black so its okay what I'm saying"....ughhhhh
No. I was just making an aside. What exactly did I say that was so wrong?
 

Alma@ALO

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True, it is common sense. It should also be common sense for the gents on here to be polite INSTEAD of misogynostic sexist and belitting towards women. everytime we make a comment some verbal attack is made towards us and a twisting and dekiberate misconstruction is made...everytime there is a difference of opinion. Womens rights isnt just some made up feminazi movement for no reason.

If men like u kept having your way towards us women we wouldnt be able to vote hold jobs or hold an opinion bc men like u think womrn r dumb and just a hole and belong in the kitchen.

Men like u we d still be in the kitchen SERVING U and raising ur babies, yeah no thanks u can make ur own sandwhich.. The environmemt is very misogynistic on here and should actually bc more welcoming and encouraging for more sps and mas to want to participate in conversation but bc ppl like u and a few others they would rather lurk and not say anything bc of their business. I get that but my view is is anyone who has a problem with the fact that i have an opinion i dont want to see them as clients anyway.

Believe me theres enough business in ottawa and enough NICE clients id rather spend time with then to have to fake being nice towards a misoginistic ahole. But id never put myself in that position in the first place.
Wheres the respect? Chances of seeing an sp or ma are slim if you have behaviour issues such as that not only limited to SWs but finding a potential life partner as well.

Also, im not understanding why you are continuously harping on the answers we have given to THE ORIGINAL POST THAT WAS DIRECRED TOWARDS SPS AND MAS Not you.

So, because we were attempted to be silenced for our opinions which we were answering the OP s question, Nothing constructive has come out of this. Except for more racial justifications and that being sexist and an asshole towards women is ok.
Ps: god bless the black client the brown client and asian ones too. For some reason these men "get it". You have a lot to learn blueballs. Im not responding to u anymore plz stop ur self righteous bantering. U r right ok?! right about everything, and ur opinions are solid and legit. Hope u can go to bed feeling like ur the man.



Bluestones says: People discriminate against me every single day for all kinds of reasons
Gee, i cant imagine why.
 

AmberRose

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Personally, I don’t have color preferences.. But I noticed that some girls that I worked with at different spas were advertising «**No black gentleman**» and of course it made me curious so I asked why .. Their responses was that Ottawa is not a big City and it is a very very small world .. Can you imagine how small is the black community?
They were simply advertising no black gent in order to make sure they will never get face to face with their oncle , dad , friend of the family ect ... It was simply a matter on discretion .. I totally understand that .. I wouldn’t want to open the door in my work outfit to a friend of the family.. That would be awkward ;)
This makes total sense and is a perfect example of a reasoning for not seeing black clients that isn't racist.

Bluestones, you need to seriously step back and go educate yourself a little more.

I'll leave with a quote from another sex worker: "POC can discriminate, which simply means to select out based on one or more traits, in a situation. Discrimination is bias, in action. They cannot be racist , which is discrimination + an established racial power imbalance that supercedes the situation. All racism is discrimination (racism is a type of discrimination), not all discrimination is racism (some is sexism , some is "positive bias" like affirmative action, some doesn't even involve people at all, like a dog park that doesn't allow cats)"
 

hoffa68

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I'm not going to argue if it is racist or discriminatory to not see certain clients based on their colour. I do believe that in this industry a certain leeway should be given because for a provider it is their personal body and what reasons they have are their own. It's no different for me as a client to not want to see certain providers for certain reasons. My main reason is just personal taste.

It can't be that I'm racist because my best friends sisters boyfriends dad's 2nd cousin once removed dog walking knows a black guy
 

BlueStones

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True, it is common sense. It should also be common sense for the gents on here to be polite INSTEAD of misogynostic sexist and belitting towards women. everytime we make a comment some verbal attack is made towards us and a twisting and dekiberate misconstruction is made...everytime there is a difference of opinion. Womens rights isnt just some made up feminazi movement for no reason.

If men like u kept having your way towards us women we wouldnt be able to vote hold jobs or hold an opinion bc men like u think womrn r dumb and just a hole and belong in the kitchen.

Men like u we d still be in the kitchen SERVING U and raising ur babies, yeah no thanks u can make ur own sandwhich.. The environmemt is very misogynistic on here and should actually bc more welcoming and encouraging for more sps and mas to want to participate in conversation but bc ppl like u and a few others they would rather lurk and not say anything bc of their business. I get that but my view is is anyone who has a problem with the fact that i have an opinion i dont want to see them as clients anyway.

Believe me theres enough business in ottawa and enough NICE clients id rather spend time with then to have to fake being nice towards a misoginistic ahole. But id never put myself in that position in the first place.
Wheres the respect? Chances of seeing an sp or ma are slim if you have behaviour issues such as that not only limited to SWs but finding a potential life partner as well.

Also, im not understanding why you are continuously harping on the answers we have given to THE ORIGINAL POST THAT WAS DIRECRED TOWARDS SPS AND MAS Not you.

So, because we were attempted to be silenced for our opinions which we were answering the OP s question, Nothing constructive has come out of this. Except for more racial justifications and that being sexist and an asshole towards women is ok.
Ps: god bless the black client the brown client and asian ones too. For some reason these men "get it". You have a lot to learn blueballs. Im not responding to u anymore plz stop ur self righteous bantering. U r right ok?! right about everything, and ur opinions are solid and legit. Hope u can go to bed feeling like ur the man.





Gee, i cant imagine why.
In regards to your comment in another thread about every boyfriend you've ever had cheating on you: I can't fucking begin to imagine why. I'm done arguing with you as you're honestly shit for brains, and not because you're a woman but because you probably have a brain tumour bigger than your mouth. Note to self: don't have philosophical debates with craigslist hookers who clearly never finished grade school.
 

RubberDucky

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Personally, I think discriminating based on race is so 100 years ago. Now I prefer to discriminate based on how much money someone has. I would prefer to do what MLK said. And treat people based on there character. But it takes too long to get to know someone. I prefer to just see what is in there wallet. It takes less time.
 

RubberDucky

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But you have to admit bluestones. If a session with alma is as half as firery as her debating. It would be one wild ride. Just imagine her hands on you, the same fingers used to swiftly and passionately type her responses are now vigoursley (and sometimes clumsily) filling you with immense pleasure. The tension would be too much to handle. And that's just her hands, not even her talking. I would need to bring my puffer! I would be that excite! Yes?!
 

BlueStones

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But you have to admit bluestones. If a session with alma is as half as firery as her debating. It would be one wild ride. Just imagine her hands on you, the same fingers used to swiftly and passionately type her responses are now vigoursley (and sometimes clumsily) filling you with immense pleasure. The tension would be too much to handle. And that's just her hands, not even her talking. I would need to bring my puffer! I would be that excite! Yes?!
I'm not sure anything she wrote, nor how she wrote it, constituted "debating". I think the funniest part about her calling me a poorly-endowed, misogynistic, unintelligent, truck-driving (tesla actually), racist asshole, whom she'd never willingly service, is that I could show up tomorrow and she wouldn't have any idea who I am. Sadly I'd actually still fuck her, regardless of her low intelligence, and therein lies the problem.
 
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Blackpanther

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This was just a fun little poll I tried asking the few, if any, SPs here that did actually say "no black" in thier ads. And I won't be surprised if some of them lied about it or if some gents here voted lol. In any case, we can't really draw conclusions from this. There is no statistics but based on my experience from the SPs I spoke to, a good majority of them claim it was due to bad experience that they now refuse to see black men. I understand Bluestones viewpoint. It is a SP's choice and she has the right to not see black men for whatever reason, racism or not.
 

medalllione

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This was just a fun little poll I tried asking the few, if any, SPs here that did actually say "no black" in thier ads. And I won't be surprised if some of them lied about it or if some gents here voted lol. In any case, we can't really draw conclusions from this. There is no statistics but based on my experience from the SPs I spoke to, a good majority of them claim it was due to bad experience that they now refuse to see black men. I understand Bluestones viewpoint. It is a SP's choice and she has the right to not see black men for whatever reason, racism or not.
So what's the point of the poll, if its going to be rigged, chaffed, hijacked, incense, enrage, embitter, etc?
 

Alma@ALO

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In regards to your comment in another thread about every boyfriend you've ever had cheating on you: I can't fucking begin to imagine why. I'm done arguing with you as you're honestly shit for brains, and not because you're a woman but because you probably have a brain tumour bigger than your mouth. Note to self: don't have philosophical debates with craigslist hookers who clearly never finished grade school.
#sexwork is not shameful. There os nothing inherently degrading about sex work.

OTHERS try to MAKE it shameful by trying convince or attach guilt or embarrassment or shame to what sexworkera do.
You should examine why you want me to feel shame for this work by saying what u just did.

My job is not degrading. People are.


Bless your heart.
 

BlueStones

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#sexwork is not shameful. There os nothing inherently degrading about sex work.

OTHERS try to MAKE it shameful by trying convince or attach guilt or embarrassment or shame to what sexworkera do.
You should examine why you want me to feel shame for this work by saying what u just did.

My job is not degrading. People are.


Bless your heart.
I never said, nor implied, it was shameful or degrading. My intention wasn't to shame you about your profession, I was just stating that I shouldn't have expected more from you intellectually. Theoretically, the average escort could be smarter than the average person, but it sure as hell has no intellectual barrier of entry. This entire interaction is actually quite representative of the entire "no blacks" argument I put forth: escorts might hypothetically be smarter than average, but if a select few particularly bad apples cause me grief, those experiences can certainly warrant me advertising "no debates with escorts allowed". In case you misunderstand as usual, you are the low-hanging fruit in this analogy.
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Rio10

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Just wanted to share what I learned from women over the years as I didn't see this very true pov brought up yet and have found it to be true in other areas besides sex work.
I had it explained to me that most women who put the 'No black gents' will add 'under 35' and they have no issue seeing older black men. The problem is how the younger culture was raised. Where most Canadian youth were raised with similar cultural icons and hobbies and crushes the black community was raised with their heroes being in rap singing of bitches and guns and that you aren't a man unless you pound that pussy hard and make her scream. Simply put she explained young black men have generally the same narrow view on what sex should be and it's painful to the woman. Never heard any pimping fears or racism come up.
 

BlueStones

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Just wanted to share what I learned from women over the years as I didn't see this very true pov brought up yet and have found it to be true in other areas besides sex work.
I had it explained to me that most women who put the 'No black gents' will add 'under 35' and they have no issue seeing older black men. The problem is how the younger culture was raised. Where most Canadian youth were raised with similar cultural icons and hobbies and crushes the black community was raised with their heroes being in rap singing of bitches and guns and that you aren't a man unless you pound that pussy hard and make her scream. Simply put she explained young black men have generally the same narrow view on what sex should be and it's painful to the woman. Never heard any pimping fears or racism come up.
I actually did point out that out. "No blacks under 35" means it isn't about race, it's about a separate variable - maybe age, or culture, etc. and even if it only applies to black people, it's not inherently racist. You're discriminating against someone because of their personality, not their race. This is actually a very unique situation in that a woman's safety can be compromised by NOT being discriminatory. If a woman has met 50 french clients and 50 english clients, and 10 of each were at least somewhat bad to her, but 5 of the 10 french were EXTREMELY bad to her, and none of the 10 english were extremely bad, while the other 40 french were way nicer than the other 40 english on average, THEN YES, the averages are the same, BUT the distribution is skewed. In this case, it is morally permissible for an escort to discriminate against french people, since her job is literally one of the most dangerous possible.
 

Alma@ALO

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I know what i am, i know what kind of grades i get. i've gotten enough awards and trophys in my life and i dont have to justify who i am to someone who trolls an escort board.
Now hold that graph up in the mirror and take a good hard look at yourself.

Ps: you shouldnt expect anything from me bc i mean nothing to and u mean nothing to me. You re just a bully who enjoys picking on " low hanging fruit"...what does that say about you?
Have a wonderful weekend! :)
 
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